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Can parents "hit their children"? - Here's the answer!

Can parents "hit their children"? - Here's the answer!

Parents beat their children this kind of thing since ancient times, it was more common in ancient times, and now it is not uncommon.

Is that right to hit a child?

In fact, a person or a child cannot be simply measured by right or wrong, and life is a complex existence.

One thing is for sure, excellent children are not beaten, and talents are not simply educated.

Everyone is different, everyone's growth experience is different, and whether the child is suitable for playing depends on the child itself and the thing itself.

There are some situations where it is not suitable for hitting children.

First, children are more sensitive.

Second, children have more negative psychology.

Third, don't be sure if the child is right or wrong.

Fourth, parents are prone to emotional loss of control.

Fifth, the damage is too great.

But at the right time, some children can be properly hit,

First, determine the rules of the system in advance, formulate them with the children, so that the children fully understand and agree, and the parents are also within the scope of the rules. In this case, violation of the rules can be hit.

Second, parents have the ability to do psychological counseling for children who are beaten.

In reality, many parents are grumpy, every time they beat their children, they do not distinguish between situations, right and wrong, regardless of severity, that is certainly not OK, which will only allow children to slowly enter the psychological disease of disaster, and the psychological problems formed when they are young will accompany people's lives.

Because there are more parents who do not understand, and there are more parents who beat their children, some people begin to realize the consequences of hitting children, so they set up a festival of "no children's day" to warn people not to hit children casually.

In fact, those parents who often hit their children often have certain psychological diseases, are often controlled by emotions, do not know how to control themselves, and hope that society can help them.

Can parents "hit their children"? - Here's the answer!

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