I don't know when it started.
Elders in the family helping to bring up children has become a mainstream phenomenon.
But when most elders help juniors with children,
If your parents are not willing to help themselves with their children,
Do you have a psychological gap?
thereupon
Many elders who do not help with the baby will often choose to give some money,
So how much is this money appropriate?
Do you want to give red envelopes to the major red envelopes during the Spring Festival?
Yesterday, the East on the netizen "dead ghost @qq" broke the news, a female colleague in order to take care of the child left the job, recently complained to him, after giving birth to the first year of the son to visit the New Year, the child's grandmother only wrapped 2,000 red envelopes, really stingy.
Let's take a look at what's going on ↓↓↓
Female colleagues of 90 years, married for more than three years, there is an older brother in the family, has been married, the old woman at home to bring children to the brother.
There is only one post-90s sister in the husband's family who is unmarried, but the grandmother never brings grandchildren.
After reimbursement of maternity insurance in November last year, she left her job to take care of her children, and now her son is eight months old! At present, there are houses in Ningbo, still mortgages, and the house is on the edge of Jiangbei Wanda, 125 square meters.
The first year of this year back to the husband's home, the first morning of the New Year, Grandma gave a red packet, a touch of shock, thin! She took a chance to come to the car and counted only 2,000 yuan, which made her very unhappy.
The female colleague is a foreign trade salesman with an annual salary of 150,000+; her husband is a general manager in a company, with an annual salary of 30W before tax.
She said that to be honest, she really couldn't look at 2,000 pieces, but she was still taught a lesson by reality!
When I went to the New Year, I also bought 2 bottles of Maotai, 2 Yellow Crane Tower 1916 and two bags of seafood gift bags! Now Grandma gives 2000 red envelopes, which is really annoying!
In this regard, the posted man also does not understand, he consulted netizens on the East Theory, do you think this grandmother gave 2000 meters, is it stingy? Or is this how people's customs are!
What do netizens think?
@Happy 9:
Two thousand red envelopes is a lot, yes.
@Chunta Song @wechat:
Having a son is very powerful, I still blame my wife for not giving birth to a daughter for me, 2,000 yuan can be, to be satisfied, and not the goalkeeper thing.
@Apollo 888:
I think this grandma's annual income is 200,000, then giving 2000 is a little less, if the grandmother's income is 20,000, then giving 2000 is definitely not much. I just want to ask my daughter-in-law, you two people earn 450,000 yuan, how much is it for grandma in the New Year?
@Ximen Blowing Snow @qq:
Maybe two thousand is a few months' income. In fact, how much money is given is not the key, the key is the proportion of the money given to their annual income.
@xu-ziling：
How many gifts you buy is your filial piety, don't always expect how much the older generation will give in return. Why are you so preoccupied?! The old man can give 2000 red envelopes, how is not less.
@nb- Master Shaoxing:
Paying is always rewarded, vulgar. The nurturing grace of the previous generation must be remembered.
@A-Xin 2001:
Only to give 2000 pieces, but also too stingy, how to give 200 million, to two small goals ah.
@Sandou:
It's time for adults to pay for us.
@Danfeng Sleeve Month:
Give more to less, voluntarily, don't force, don't overstepped others. Red envelopes are also a kind of pressure for the elderly, and the elderly also have to live.
What do you think about this, you might as well leave a message
Source: Eastern Hotline