Married life is mysterious for many unmarried girls now, some girls think that marriage is only the starting point of a love, after marriage is the beginning of happiness, full of expectations for married life, fantasizing about every picture of happiness after marriage.
Many people find out after getting married that the life after marriage is not as they thought before.
For many newly married girls, life after marriage is full of many unknowns, yesterday I still felt that I was happy like a little princess, the feeling of being held in the palm of my hand was very happy, and today I feel like an ugly duckling, lonely and uncared!
Today I would like to share with you the current situation of a newlywed couple after the 90s, the two of them rarely accompanied each other after marriage, and they feel like a single life.
Narrator: Piggy
Many newlyweds will have a period of free time after marriage, which is called "honeymoon".
"Honeymoon" is sweet, but also the beginning of the happiness of two people, implying that their future life is like the honeymoon period, living a happy life every day, accompanying each other in the future life, supporting each other.
But Piglet's married life makes her feel particularly lonely, every day she is alone in an empty room, she sighed: "Oh, I feel like I am living a single life now", which means that there is no feeling of home.
Piglet and his husband married, they rushed to work, the two "honeymoon" are also spent in their respective overtime, Piglet is fine, her company's monthly overtime frequency is relatively low, and she
The frequency of her husband's overtime work is very high, so the time difference between the two is not right at all, her husband often comes back from work when it is late at night, and the piglet has gone to bed early.
Since Piggy married her husband, every Monday to Friday, his husband did not have time to accompany her to eat a meal, except for weekends and weekends, other times of three meals a day, are done by himself.
Every afternoon after work, she first took the bus, then transferred to the subway, all the way by herself, she saw pairs of small couples on the subway, which made her very envious.
Tired for a day, she hoped to have a hot meal after work, and hoped that her husband could wait for her at home, but every time she came home, she was faced with those cold pots and stoves, and this very deserted home.
She didn't want to cook alone, she was always dealing with a hasty thing outside, and after eating without anyone else's company, she lay in bed and played with her mobile phone until she fell asleep.
Today as usual, piglet came home from work, called her husband to hope that he could come back early, but his husband told her that she could not go back now, and now there were more than a dozen projects to do in her hand, and hung up the phone without saying two words.
Piglet they now live in the house every month to pay off the mortgage, so her husband is so desperate to work overtime every day, she sometimes understands her husband, they do not work hard no one will help you pay the mortgage, life pressure is so big, so that they are both helpless.
Piglet sometimes because of the current living conditions will be angry, after marriage there is no honeymoon, not to mention, he also works overtime every day not to accompany her, every day back is late at night, but she said that she can not lose her temper with her husband, knowing that her husband is also very hard, can only endure his own grievances.
She originally hated overtime, but the boring life after marriage made her feel that overtime was a very beautiful thing, she said that at least in the company do not have to be so boring, there are many colleagues around to talk about how good it is to laugh and laugh with themselves, at least they will not let themselves feel lonely.
Therefore, Piglet is no longer so resistant to overtime, and sometimes even takes the initiative to work overtime in the company, and colleagues also ask her, why does the newlywed work overtime every day and not go home? Piggy helplessly told her colleagues that she also wanted to go home, but no one at home was herself, and it was boring to go home, so it was better to find something to do in the company.
Her colleague said how did you do this after you got married? At least one meal a day is always accompanied by each other, piglet said: "No way, he is very busy", hey, no one wants to live like this, but there is no way.
Piglet said that she now has several projects in hand, and when she is busy, she wants to take time to go out with her husband, just as a honeymoon to make up for the newlywed, before she has time to discuss it with her husband, her husband told her whether to go to the company with him on the weekend to accompany him to work overtime.
Hearing this, she felt that her plan had failed again, hey...!
Piglet is actually spitting out her unhappiness in the camera, she does have a lot of complaints about her current life, and she has a lot of dissatisfaction with her husband, but more is the understanding of his husband, she
The complaints on the lips do not represent the complaints in the heart, and she is still very fortunate to find such a responsible and self-motivated husband.
There is no good thing in the world that the turnips are cut at both ends, after surviving these years, their lives will definitely get better, her husband is just an ordinary citizen, and he is not a rich second generation, so she also understands her husband.
I think this cathartic way of piglet is very good, everyone's married life will produce a lot of dissatisfaction, some people will only hold on to their hearts and never vent when they encounter dissatisfaction, and they will only make themselves right after a long time
Marriage loses confidence, and even does some more extreme things, in fact, this is particularly bad, encounter dissatisfaction with things to find a suitable way of catharsis, vent out, everything will pass.
Therefore, piglets and her husband's married life, like many newlyweds, face a lot of pressure in life, but who doesn't accumulate bit by bit?
Learn to encourage yourself, no one was born with everything, and some of the successful people we see have gone through the test of life to get to where they are today.
Only by persevering can hope be seen.
I believe that as long as you are willing to face life hard, the current pressure is only temporary and will soon be rewarded handsomely.
Come on, young man.