Partner + classmate Raise eyebrows and make progress

"I have never liked any beautiful women, even the most beautiful face will eventually pass with the years, I like talented women, talent precipitation, people's temperament more and more charming." 」 In the eyes of 70-year-old Gan Enpei, his wife Yu Qin was a talented woman from a young age, raising eyebrows for 43 years, the old two were upgraded from partners to "classmates", and went to the old university together to take classes, the old learned, common progress, and the feelings were always fresh and warm in mutual appreciation. "Happiness is to be with each other until the gray hair is the most romantic thing." Wife Yu Qin said.

Gan Enpei and Yu Qin

Talents are shared, and we know each other hand in hand

Like most couples who came from that era, Gan Enpei and Yu Qin came together "through introduction". Unlike others, both are in love because of each other's "talent". "The two of us were from a factory, I was doing technical work on the workshop, he was assigned by a college student, working in the office. There were very few college students in that era, and he was tall and handsome. My master was a matchmaker for both of us, and the first time we met, we were both a little surprised, because the two of us were very close to each other's homes, and we took the same shuttle bus to work almost every day, but we didn't talk to each other, maybe this is the fate in the dark. Both of us were more satisfied with each other. Yu Qin recalled the past, and the corners of his mouth rose unconsciously. Gan Enpei also told reporters, "I just look at her talent, the speech is very level, I hope that my future partner is a type of love to learn, self-motivated, she is very in line with my standards." ”

Two young people with common talents fell in love for a year and then entered the palace of marriage, "We got married on a trip and went to Shanghai, because my wife is a southerner and my uncle is in Shanghai." We took the boat for almost 24 hours and took a wedding photo in Shanghai. In those days, it was already a very romantic thing. Yu Qin said.

Trust each other and work together for a small family

Due to the needs of Gan Enpei's work, he traveled in other places for many years, and After marriage, Yu Qin slowly got used to the life of going to work alone and taking children alone. When asked: "Have you ever complained in your heart for so many years?" Yu Qin replied without hesitation: No." At that time, I really didn't have any ideas, I felt that he was working outside, I should support this family, take care of the children, let him work outside without any worries, this is what a wife should do. ”

For his wife's dedication, Gan Enpei is also very touched, "I really thank my wife, she has really contributed a lot to this family." So, all the money I earned outside was given to her for safekeeping. She trusts me unconditionally, and I trust her unconditionally. Couples must trust each other in order to stabilize their feelings, especially for couples like us who have been separated for many years, trust is particularly valuable. ”

Inseparable, many years of partners into "classmates"

On the day the reporter met Gan Enpei and his wife, the two had just returned home from the recitation class at the university for the elderly. "We are not only husband and wife now, but also upgraded a layer of relationship, we are still in the same class. This is the envy of the Gan enpei couple, the two people have similar interests and hobbies, whether it is life or study, the pace is the same. After retirement, both like to travel, before the outbreak of the epidemic, the two have traveled to many countries and regions, "we both like to travel, after returning from travel in the United States, we signed up for a course in travel English at the University of the Elderly." Just so that you can travel in the future to facilitate communication. Recently, Gan Enpei liked to recite again, so the two signed up for a recitation class at the university for the elderly in September last year, "I think it is very good for husband and wife to study together, and they can supervise each other and make progress together." I often say that my vision is not wrong, my wife is a talented woman, her attitude of loving learning, I think is the most attractive. ”

Mentioning the marriage preservation secret of the two, in addition to mutual trust, Gan Enpei said that he must not skimp on the praise of the other half. "People like to hear the language of praise, although it is an old husband and wife, but also at any time to find the highlights of each other, and timely expression, 'sweet words' is an indispensable catalyst for marriage sweetness." Reporter Cui Jiajia

Editor: Shang Meiyu