The pursuit of happiness: In 2022, they made a wish to "get off the list"...

"The children are back in the New Year, it is very lively, but the bustle is very fast, the loneliness comes quickly, and the children return to their own homes after the New Year..." Mr. Xie, 84, said his helplessness on the phone and also expressed his desire to find a wife.

The pursuit of love has never been the patent of young people, and people of any age have the right to pursue the true love in their hearts. Now that the Year of the Tiger has set sail, let's listen to the voices of those who are eager to get rid of their singles and seriously seek happiness. Some of them are for themselves, and some are for their children...

Ms. Zhang, 67 years old: Live for yourself and pursue happiness

After her birthday, Ms. Zhang, who lives in Shinan District of Qingdao City, officially entered the threshold of 67 years old. If in the past ten years, one old and one young have occupied most of Ms. Zhang's life, then now she wants to live for herself and pursue her own happiness.

Ms. Zhang was born in an intellectual family from an early age, and after getting married and having a daughter, she married and taught her children, and took care of it from outside the home. More than ten years ago, her husband died, and Ms. Zhang took on all the heavy responsibilities of taking care of her daughter. "Now that my little grandson has gone to school and the nineties-something old man left last year, it's time for me to think about myself." Ms. Zhang said that when the child is older, it is impossible to accompany herself all day, and her biggest wish this year is to find a wife to support and accompany each other.

Nowadays, Ms. Zhang's retirement life is colorful, going to the university of the elderly, going to the film and television crew as a mass actor... Ms. Zhang told reporters that she did not care too much about the economic conditions of the other party, as long as the people are good, the two sides have a common language, are stable, and can live together in peace and stability, it is worth the second half of the TOEFL.

Mr. Song, 58 years old: Eager to have a home in Qingdao

Mr. Song, 58, is a native of Weihai, Shandong Province, and has been in Qingdao for more than a decade. When he was young, Mr. Song had a relationship in his hometown, but when talking about marriage, the woman's request for a large banquet made Mr. Song at that time worried. Because of this, the woman fiercely proposed to break up and disappeared into Mr. Song's world.

This incident made Mr. Song heartbroken. In the days that followed, Mr. Song chose not to see anyone who introduced the blind date, and this delay was most of his life. More than ten years ago, Mr. Song came to Qingdao, and as he grew older, he had never been married and had the idea of finding a partner. "In the past, when my parents were there, I didn't feel anything, and now my parents are gone, and sometimes a person is really lonely." ”

Mr. Song said that qingdao's beautiful mountains and waters are more beautiful, and he especially hopes to have a home here and live the second half of his life. For the woman, Mr. Song said that he had no requirements, and if he just thought about the conditions, it was not pure love. Everything external is secondary, and the key is to look at the feelings of two people. "In the new year, my biggest wish is to find a close partner as soon as possible. Mr. Song said with a smile.

45-year-old man's mother: I hope that when the house is finished, my daughter-in-law will also have it

For her son's marriage, 72-year-old Ms. Wu can no longer simply use the word "anxious" to describe, "I introduced one before, but I haven't seen it yet, and after the year is a 45-year-old person, we are really worried." ”

Ms. Wu's son was born in 1977, and he is also picky about finding a girlfriend. In Ms. Wu's words, the son belongs to the "Appearance Association" and is particularly concerned about the woman's appearance. "Others have introduced a few people before, but every time he asks to see the photos first, we can't do anything." ”

In Ms. Wu's view, the woman's character is good, and it is most important to live with peace of mind, but young people have young people's ideas, and parents can never help their children. "Fortunately, every time we ask him this question, he is not disgusted or rejected, maybe it is not yet fate." For the new year, Ms. Wu naturally hopes that her son can meet the right person as soon as possible and enter the marriage hall, "Recently, the newly bought house is being renovated, I really hope that the house is decorated and the daughter-in-law can also find it." ”

34-year-old girl's mother: find a boyfriend and grow old together

"The post-80s generation is not in a hurry, but as parents we are anxious, especially girls, the age is not sparing." When she said this, Ms. Fang was a little helpless, but more of a pain for her daughter.

Ms. Fang's daughter, 34 years old, is still single due to her busy work and narrow social circle. "I've talked about it before, but because I don't have an eye rim and a different lifestyle, I haven't been successful. Ms. Fang said that her daughter's conditions are still good in all aspects, so she also has her own requirements in finding a boyfriend, "I hope that the boy can grow up in a family with sound parents, stable and self-motivated." ”

Ms. Fang told reporters that her biggest wish this year is that her daughter can find a suitable boyfriend as soon as possible, "The sooner the better, the two people can get along in all aspects, and they can grow old together." Reporter Xu Yao

Editor-in-Charge: Shang Meiyu