During the winter vacation, the "divine beast" is around every day, and is the mother living a 24-hour on-call life?
Not long ago, a video of a 1-year-old baby constantly shouting at his mother to the surveillance went viral.
The baby and grandparents live in their hometown, and the couple works in other provinces and often chats with the child in the monitoring.
Over time, the baby thinks that the parents are in the camera.
In the video, the baby shouts "Mom! Mom...", and without responding, she staggered into a few steps and kept shouting.
Many mothers in the comment area have seen the defense, the heartache is too bad, and some jokes say that they no longer hate their children to shout at themselves all day.
The child's "mother" at home is long and "mother" is short, and he is annoyed to hear it, the child is not around, he can't hear him shouting, and he will panic...
I hope he grows up, and I am afraid that he will grow up, happiness is accompanied by troubles, I think every mother has such a contradictory mentality.
This sweet sense of burden, everyone who is a mother understands.
The first "mama" of human cubs
From pregnancy in October to the birth of the child, growing up in swaddling, many mothers are waiting for the first "mama" of the child.
Mothers even keep fantasizing about this scene, thinking that they must record it.
But the child's "ma" is often caught off guard.
The first time her girlfriend's son happened in the middle of the night, she was half dreaming and half waking up to make milk powder for her crying son, holding the baby in one hand and pouring water in the other hand to stir, which was simply a mess.
Then she heard a crying "mama" and was stunned, and the movement of her hand stopped for a few seconds.
Before that, she thought she would definitely be moved to tears, but the truth was that she had no time to take care of it or get excited.
The little guy fell asleep after drinking the milk, and when he returned to the room, the girlfriend began to reminisce, and felt sorry, because he could not record it, nor could he let the child repeat it several times.
"It's also too addictive."
Compared with the girlfriend's "everything, the baby drinks the most milk" style of stability, some mothers "take the risk" to be cute.
There is a mother, because the mood is too excited, directly holding the baby a fierce kiss.
Probably because the kiss was too hard, the baby was directly frightened by her appearance and cried, and avoided her for several days afterwards.
I know that "what mood is the child calling the mother for the first time" has a high praise answer:
At that moment, I felt like I was hit by a very sweet electricity, numb from head to toe, and like the heartwarming moment of falling in love, I obviously felt my heart beating faster and tears flowing down unconsciously.
The touch that children bring to their mothers is often in a moment, but this moment is worth a long time for mothers to taste.
This "mama" that has been waiting for a long time may be vague, but it is the name that can make mothers happiest.
At that moment, the pain of pregnancy, the pain of childbirth, and the tiredness of breastfeeding are not worth mentioning, and there is a place in the heart that becomes soft.
When the 7-year-old son is still crazy to call out to his mother
And with the passage of time, the child grows up, still keeps shouting "mother", an inexplicable irritability in the hearts of mothers is troubled...
Last summer, the news that a mother and her child in Chengdu signed a "no-call-mom treaty" went crazy in the Baoma circle.
The survival principle of the 7-year-old son: Whatever he does, shout and say again!
I don't know the time—"Mom! ”
Words can't be written/questions can't be done – "Mom!! ”
I don't know what to wear after washing up in the morning / I want to drink water when I play downstairs - "Mom!!! ”
To be an encyclopedia and a timer, but also to be a meticulous life assistant, Zhang's mother really can't concentrate on her work...
After enduring for a week, I decided to sign an agreement with my child, hoping that my child would think about small things first and be able to stand on his own as soon as possible.
Fortunately, the little guy is in place, and Mother Zhang can be considered to be able to catch her breath.
In the matter of "calling the mother first when there is nothing to do", the children in the world are the same, and the mothers in the comment area are fiercely empathetic.
Some mothers said that they had a baby who loved to shout at their mothers in the same style, and they felt that they were going to be shouted by their children. Sometimes the son has nothing to call himself, feeling that "mom" has become his mantra.
Some mothers saw the "learn to call Dad" clause in the treaty, and the anger was even greater, and the crazy diss husband was a "transfer station for instructions".
Because no matter how much the child shouts "Daddy", the husband will only let him "ask your mother to go".
There is also a mother's mood is more contradictory: my daughter is now 10 years old, and she will still keep calling my mother and mother to me, and then hang on to me like an octopus.
I sometimes feel annoyed, but when I think that she will go out to college in a few years, I just want to cherish that she is still by my side, and shout with her, it is rare to hear her when she grows up.
The needs of the child and the mother always seem to be at odds.
When he is a toddler and clings to his mother all the time, the mothers will think: When will he grow up?
And when he grows up and leaves home, all he can see is far away, and his mothers will start to miss those clingy times again.
Succinctly say "Mom"
When the soft "mother ~" becomes a concise "mother", this is the child who longs for independence to declare the world, but the mothers, it is difficult to control the loss...
One mother said that when she was a child, her daughter was her heel and refused to leave half a step, and her mother and mother shouted non-stop.
One day when her daughter was in the fifth grade, she suddenly realized that her child had grown up.
She went to school to pick up the children as usual, but the daughter asked: Mom, why are you here again, didn't I say that I walked home with my classmates?
She was stunned at the time, but because of her mother's face, she had to tell her daughter to pay attention to safety on the road and go home early.
Picking up and dropping off her children has become her habit, but unbeknownst to her, her daughter already has her own private space and small world.
Terms like #From Mom's Change of Mouth to Mom's Age# have super high levels of interaction on various social platforms.
Some children start shouting like this when they go to kindergarten, and some children who shout "mother" until they reach adulthood;
Some mothers look at their children like a little adult and feel proud, while other mothers are very reluctant and hope to turn back the clock and "how good it is to press the child back into their arms."
In the face of the growth of children, many mothers instinctively cover up this loneliness, and some have become the party that demands love.
@Canned Salt Peach:
It should be when I was in elementary school, the girl suddenly turned her mother into a mother one day, I asked her why she wanted to change, she said because I kept calling grandma like this, and she heard her classmates shout like this.
To be honest, I was very uncomfortable at that moment, I said that it sounded less intimate, and she immediately changed her mouth to call me mom.
Now that she is a sophomore in college, she usually calls her mother, and when she wants to be spoiled, she calls her mother, and she feels that she is fiercely pinched.
Education scholar Yin Jianli wrote in her book: Maternal love is a process of gradual separation.
The child's change of name to "mom" is gradually separated from the mother's love.
Psychologist Zeng Qifeng once said: The more the caregiver can give the child a high-quality intimate relationship, the more the child has the ability to separate from the caregiver.
We give our children love and companionship in order to make him more independent.
So, when he starts shouting "Mom" crisply, let it go with dignity.
Written at the end ·
When Zhang Zhilin's son was just born, he tossed them around.
He only urinated a little bit at a time, sometimes changing four diapers in ten minutes.
Zhang Zhilin was helpless, laughing that his son had not yet begun to make money and was wasted. And the son on the bed seemed to understand the words of blame, and raised his mouth and laughed.
Therefore, the couple took the nickname of the magic boy.
The meaning of the big name "Zhang Mutong" is to hope that the child can always be childlike and carefree.
Zhang Zhilin and his wife often "pit dolls" in front of the public, one will say that he "sings like a chicken", and the other will say that he "has no performance cells, just loves vanity".
In this tone of complaining, there is always a sweet feeling of burden.
The emotions between parents and children are very complicated, they are all complaining while caring, half happy and half annoyed.
Afraid that he will fly away, afraid that he will leave us, and afraid that he will stay by his side forever.
It's a mixture of joy and sorrow.
How did you feel when your child called his mother for the first time? When did you realize that your child has grown up? At what age did your child start changing his mouth? At what age did you start with you?
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