For Dong Jie, the "Spring Festival Gala Goddess", the first half of her life has been smooth, and her misfortune should start from her divorce.
For Teacher Pan Yueming, he experienced a lot of difficult times at a young age, and after the divorce, he fell to the bottom again, but in the end, he ushered in the day when the sun rose in the east.
One
When 12-year-old Dong Jie was still studying dance at the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, Pan Yueming, who was six years older than her, was already running in various crews and starting to run dragon sets.
Unfortunately, Pan Yueming, a young man in Beijing, has no background and has run for three years, but he is still unknown and uninhabited.
But the future is uncertain, he is already 21 years old, and he can no longer live such a muddy and uncertain life!
Therefore, he applied for two schools, Nortel and China Opera, and was ready to continue to run the dragon set to earn some money while reviewing. In the end, two schools, one did not get admitted.
This is not a small blow to Pan Yueming, but Dong Jie, who is already 15 years old, has mixed up with the wind and water, not only becoming a dancer, but also serving as a lead dancer, and soon after, she will also attend the Spring Festival Gala.
After that, Pan Yueming did not want to give up and continued to run around the major sets, even if there was no small supporting role for him, let him do the field notes.
Maybe it is not cost-effective in the eyes of outsiders, but Pan Yueming himself said: "It's like there are neighbors in the hutong, you can't enter the church, and rubbing a piece of sugar outside makes people happy." ”
At the age of 22, he was admitted to Beijing Normal University majoring in film and television production.
Pan Yueming has just started her university life, and 16-year-old Dong Jie has already stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for the first time.
Pan Yueming's major at university is behind the scenes, because he has no hope of becoming an actor. But fate is very magical, Lu Xuechang looked for him and invited him to play the male protagonist of "Very Summer". Not only that, after the release of the film, Pan Yueming won the "Best Newcomer Award of the 7th University Student Film Festival".
Later, he collaborated with Yuan Quan on "Blue Love".
And the time, also to the Spring Festival Gala in 2000, that is the 20-year-old Dong Jie's second time on the Spring Festival Gala, this time, she is not the lead dancer, just dressed as a bride, holding hands with Xie Tingfeng, only a song time, let countless audiences stunned.
By the way, she also got the favor of director Zhang Yimou and became the heroine of "Happy Time", which is now called "Girl Mou", which can be described as a very high starting point.
At that time, Pan Yueming, in addition to filming, was busy playing games, even if he saw it across the screen, he only thought that this was a fourteen or five-year-old little girl, and he would not think that fate would tie them together.
Two
In 2005, Pan Yueming finally became popular, with his and Zhao Wei's "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds".
When "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds" was being broadcast, Pan Yueming went out to buy something and could be spat at by the audience: "You are not the Third Young Master of the Zeng family, I was almost angry with you last night!" ”
At that time, Zhao Wei also said, "Pan Yueming will definitely be more popular in the future!" ”
Red is red, but the way red is somewhat unexpected!
In 2006, Yue Lao finally tied Pan Yueming and Dong Jie together with the red line, and the two starred in the TV series "Red Dress Shop", which could shoot a scene, which came nearly 20 times, and it had not yet passed. Seeing Dong Jie's nervous expression again, Pan Yueming was finally pitiful and cherished Yu, and could not help but take good care of her.
After three months of getting along day and night, the two have become very familiar with each other, and after the scene is filmed, they often call and send messages. Isn't this the rhythm of falling in love right away!
At that time, Dong Jie was reluctant to delete the text messages exchanged with Pan Yueming, so when the text messages occupied the memory, they simply changed the mobile phone directly, and even the mobile phone was changed five or six times!
In love for two years, the two married in Beijing in 2008.
In the first year after marriage, Dong Jie gave birth to a son. In the same year, Pan Yueming, who was filming in other places, had an accident, resulting in lung injuries. After Dong Jie learned the news, he rushed to Pan Yueming's side without stopping.
He watched by the bedside until Pan Yueming woke up and saw that her husband couldn't help but shed tears during the treatment process.
And Pan Yueming, after the accident, survived by looking at the photos of his wife and children.
After the incident passed, Pan Yueming said in the show, "No matter what I become, there is one thing I did right, that is, I married a best wife." ”
Obviously, the two should go hand in hand for a long time; but they did not think that in just three years, they had reached the point of divorce.
Three
Dong Jie publicly accused Pan Yueming: Separation is because of your gambling habits and rudeness.
The gambling addiction was confirmed, and for a time, public opinion sided with Dong Jie. At this time, Pan Yueming tweeted, saying that he would wait for Dong Jie, my beloved woman, to return home. But this kind of response, pale and weak, made the melon-eating masses hate and determined that he was a scumbag.
And at that time, Dong Jie had a very good brokerage company to advise him; but at that time, Pan Yueming, did not sign a brokerage company, in the face of such a big news, he could only turn the tide with his own strength, but unfortunately, he lost!
But within a few months, the reversal came.
The media filmed the video of Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi kissing, and for a while everyone woke up like a dream, it turned out that Dong Jie had brought a "green hat" to Pan Yueming, and the spearhead immediately pointed at Dong Jie, and the law also gave Pan Yueming justice, but his career plummeted.
In fact, in the past, when the two were on the show, Dong Jie complained to the host: "Pan Yueming never sends his own flowers." ”
But Pan Yueming said indifferently: "I never buy flowers, I never have a birthday myself, I am such a person." ”
Pan Yueming also sent a Weibo, probably the content is like this: I bought a jade pendant, like it, but Dong Jie did not think so, a face of disregard, I told her, the formation of jade to 300 million to 500 million years, only people with a relationship can be selected by it, and how much information is stored in it, how can humans know? Maybe it's all alien secrets?
Therefore, Dong Jie said to him sympathetically, you should contact the aliens.
Soon after, Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi met because of filming, Dong Jie was a bride, the Spring Festival Gala on the stage, although no song was sung, it was just holding Xie Tingfeng to listen to him sing a song for a while, so it was difficult for the national audience to forget. Wang Dazhi was also fascinated by Dong Jie at that time and became his young goddess.
Seeing that the goddess marriage was not happy, Wang Dazhi could not resist the throbbing in his heart, so he became a licking dog, and the goddess naturally needed people to be warm and gentle at that time, although the person was not handsome, and even a little ugly.
However, once the image of the white lotus fell off the altar, Wang Dazhi, who seemed to be true love, chose to pat his ass and leave in a dashing manner.
From these, it can be seen that Dong Jie is not a person who likes the new and hates the old, feels poor and loves the rich, otherwise he would not have been willing to marry and have children because Pan Yueming was good to her.
Only in marriage, Dong Jie also needs to be taken care of and pampered, but at that time, Pan Yueming was immersed in his own world, did not understand romance, and did not understand that Dong Jie, as a human wife, was also eager to be sent flowers and gifts.
The reason why Pan Yueming felt that he was a victim was because Dong Jie cheated first, whether it was a man or a woman, he could not stand it, and later stood on the moral high ground to slander him, and the fate of the two came to an end.
It can only be said that their marriage lacks communication, is full of cold violence and incomprehension, coupled with the fact that there are many people who like Dong Jie, the world is flashy, one step wrong, one step wrong.
Four
At this point, the resources of both men plummeted.
Wang Dazhi patted his ass and left, but it was Dong Jie's two male gods who used their connections to constantly give Dong Jie resources. One male god is Chen Kun, who cooperated with Dong Jie in "The Golden Powder Family", and the other male god is the film emperor Liang Chaowei.
It is rumored that how much Liang Chaowei likes Dong Jie? At Liang Chaowei's birthday party, the woman standing next to Liang Chaowei turned out to be not his legitimate girlfriend Liu Jialing, but Dong Jie.
In addition, Liang Chaowei also pulled Dong Jie to the show to do publicity, and even signed a contract with a Hong Kong brokerage company.
However, no matter how strong the connections of the big guys are, in the end, Dong Jie can only play some supporting roles. The protagonist script with traffic and heat can no longer be obtained.
And Pan Yueming finally did not have to play the gongzi and scholarly characters he thought were unchanged, because these roles could not be turned for him, and it was not easy to have a play.
In his most difficult days, it was Lu Chuan and Zhang Jingchu who pulled him and asked him to shoot scenes.
Hearing the news of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng's divorce, Pan Yueming felt it, "Every relationship has its fragile side, just like every family has an unspeakable secret, but I envy their way of breaking up, which is more straightforward." ”
On the program "Crossover Singer", Pan Yueming listened to Chen Songling's song "That Man" and leaned on Li Guangjie's shoulder and cried.
In 2017, Pan Yueming finally made a successful comeback! "White Night Pursuit" is very popular in terms of word of mouth and broadcast volume.
Then he filmed "Ghost Blowing Lantern Fury Qing Xiangxi" and "Longling Labyrinth".
Pan Yueming finally justified his name, although he is a little fat now, but he is a down-to-earth acting school.
Five
Teacher Pan Yueming's "green hat" is not the fault of any one person, they should all pay half of the responsibility for the failed marriage.
After marriage, Dong Jie wanted the love, Pan Yueming failed to give her, so she was tempted by the outside to cheat, and later preemptively, with hatred slander is Pan Yueming cheating first;
And Pan Yueming, after marriage, is too straight male cancer, lack of romance and care, so dong jie believes that this is a "widowed" marriage, so she cheated.
Therefore, we cannot say who is right and who is wrong, because marriage is not black and white, and everyone has difficulties and difficulties.
It can only be said that the fate is scattered, and we can only accompany each other to this place.