For many women, how to stay with the loved ones until old age? It was indeed an epic exercise.
If the other half is a man like Jiang Wen, single out all kinds of little demon girls who pounce on him, it is simply a fatalistic arrangement, but Zhou Yun really uses his charm and wisdom to make Jiang Wen accept his heart.
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This famous big director actually married Zhou Yun, a small actor who is not famous and does not look outstanding, which has attracted a lot of melon-eating masses to watch and talk.
Zhou Yun is a typical Jiangnan beauty, born in Wenzhou, Zhejiang, with the gentleness of Jiangnan women in her personality, but there is no lack of strength and rebellion, at the age of 15, she hid her whole family from participating in the beauty contest, quit her stable accounting job to apply for the Chinese drama, and changed her accent in a few months, etc., it is not difficult to see the shaft strength of this woman.
When participating in "Heroes of Heaven and Earth", in order to play a small monk, she shaved her long hair without saying a word, which caused the lead actor Jiang Wen to frequently look sideways, which was their first acquaintance.
Later, despite the raging rumors, he let Zhou Yun play the role of "crazy mother" in "The Sun Also Rises", he said: There is a bright madness in her eyes, which is very attractive to him.
As the plot continues, she naturally becomes his wife, and she seems to be the same her, blooming wildly.
After marriage, she became his royal actress, she was the crazy mother who talked to the cat in "The Sun Also Rises", she was the flower sister who dared to hold a gun to herself in "Let the Bullets Fly", she released herself in the role, and simply became a "white moonlight"-like existence in his mind.
But she did not deliberately cater to him, often on the set and openly argued with him, making him very stressed, but on the contrary, he felt more and more inseparable from her.
She prepared a dish for him carefully, but he was not only ungrateful, but also said very critically that none of them were perfect enough. Without saying a word, she directly took the dish and poured it into the dog basin, which startled him. She told him hard, love to eat or not to eat, you don't like to eat, there is always willing to eat.
She carefully selected a jacket for him from abroad, but he felt that the color was too bright and he was not suitable. So, she sent it directly to the security guard at the door, and when he found out, she directly shook it back: You don't like it, more people like it.
The media suspected that their relationship was not equal, but she had her own words, and did not hesitate to express to the camera: "His thoughts are high, and I have my own thoughts." At work, I do it, and if I don't do it well, I slip away. I am more concerned about what Jiang Wen eats today, don't wear less clothes, don't smoke too much. I don't know what else he does, I don't care much about him. Everyone has their own strengths, don't they? ”
According to common sense, Zhou Yun climbed Jiang Wen high, and she definitely wanted to raise her eyebrows to maintain an upward looking formation, but she never insisted on being herself, living truly, and not wronging herself.
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She knew very well that for him, seven ivory ears would be dug up, and scissors would be made when necessary.
She is not a climbing lingxiao flower, nor is she an obsessive bird, but as the image of a tree standing with him, equal and righteous, she has her fierceness, but also her gentleness.
She loves Jiang Wen, of course, she also has to accept the daughter Jiang Yilang born to him and his ex-wife, knowing that he has always been worried about his daughter who is far away in France, she strongly persuades him to take his daughter back, and also takes over his parents in his hometown, hoping that the second elder can act as a conciliator for Zhou Yun and his daughter.
But this daughter was extremely disgusted with her stepmother, and once she gave her a hand-cut apple, she did not reach out to pick it up, but taunted: "You won't learn the evil harem in Snow White to poison me, right?" ”
But she still took good care of her, cleaned up her room, prepared all kinds of daily necessities, went to her despite being pregnant and rainy, and even made a fetal mistake, and the daughter gradually accepted her.
The mother-in-law was even more critical of her, suspecting that she had squeezed out his ex-wife and made the child a single mother, always digging some pits for her from time to time. He said to her bitterly: "I originally wanted my mother to reconcile the relationship between you and your daughter, but I didn't expect you to be wronged, so why don't we send our parents back to our hometown?" ”
But she replied sympathetically: "My mother has raised such a good husband for you for me, and I thank her for being too late, how can I feel wronged?" They are so old, I am not at ease to send them back to their hometown. Her generosity convinced him that he really hadn't chosen the wrong person.
She still digs her heart to be good to her mother-in-law, buys an air purifier for her mother-in-law who loves second-hand smoke, specially learns from the nutritionist, often stews some nourishing soup for her, what good things are the first to think of the mother-in-law, gradually, they have become a pair of enviable "good girlfriends".
Someone asked her: How did you tie up Jiang Wen's heart?
She replied calmly: "Why should I tie him, he is too late to tie me!" ”
Indeed, the same director of the woman, she did not like Xu Fan, put the posture low, live herself into an old mother, Hope to let the "big director" Feng Xiaogang forever pity, just as far as possible to let herself shine, and then warm more people, and he always treated her as always.
How to accompany the person who loves to the whitehead, this is really a grand topic, who can see through the smoke and dust of the years to come as soon as they step into the boundaries of marriage? Whether this journey is a reality show of a beautiful life, or an extended version of plants vs zombies, Zhou Yun gave an intriguing answer with her own actions.
In marriage, sometimes it is necessary to roar and vent with a thunderous sound on the flat ground, sometimes it is necessary to hold a clear and confused general, and sometimes it is necessary to break down the teeth and swallow blood. The gentleness and toughness of Zhou Yun are actually a kind of proper fire, because they understand that marriage is like youth, and if you are not careful, you will slip away.
Mr. Zeyi, tell a good woman's story, pay attention to women's growth, growth is more important than success!