In the blind date market, there is a shortage of men in big cities and a shortage of women in small cities

In the past few days, I saw a news that a friendship event was organized in a certain place in Jiangsu and went to hundreds of men, but there were only five women, which really surprised me, and even felt incredible, which was completely opposite to the situation around me. It seems that there is a real trend, there is a lack of men in big cities, and a lack of women in small cities!

In recent years, the unit trade union will hire a marriage agency every year to help single young people organize networking activities, most of the participating units are organs, schools, hospitals, state-owned enterprises and other units, each activity has been warmly responded to by single young people, but in the networking activities, there will often be a situation of multiple women with a man.

I have a very exaggerated experience in my memory, when the participating units seemed to have several units such as a bank, a hospital, and a research institute, and the networking place was selected near Wenyuhe Park. There was nothing to do on the weekend, so the union asked me to go over and help, and when I arrived at the agreed place, when it was really a warbler and a swallow, almost all the girls who signed up were present, and the spring color of the park was over, and the men did not come! Just when the girls were about to rebel, a young man from the research institute came and was surrounded in an instant, and at that time, his mind drifted past the scene of Zhou Xingchi in the movie with an enemy!

Why is there so much difference between big cities and small cities?

The first is that the population in the big cities is relatively balanced, because there is no idea of son preference, so the more developed the more balanced the ratio of men to women. Secondly, with the continuous improvement of women's education level and demand for a better life, as well as the fair and rich employment environment and social environment in big cities, more and more women are attracted to choose to go to big cities. Then the opportunity for women to stay in big cities is much higher than that of men, whether women do a good job or marry well, they have the opportunity to stay in big cities, and men can only stay through good work, so women have fewer concerns about big cities than men, resulting in most women daring to go to big cities, while most men dare not go.

All of the above reasons have led to more women and fewer men in big cities, and fewer women and more men in small cities. Coupled with the fact that women's choice of mate is upward compatible, while men's choice range is wider, it has led to men appearing more expensive in the marriage market in big cities.

People often ask me if there is a suitable man in the company, to introduce a girl, but no one has ever asked me if I recognize a girl, to introduce a boy, and the men in the company have indeed been divided up long ago, and the rest are girls. I don't expect this phenomenon to change in a short period of time, and it will even become more serious. But I believe that as the development of various places is getting better and better, it will alleviate the current situation.