When people are old, if they want to rely on their old age, they must not agree to the unreasonable demands of their children

After people get old, the biggest problem is the problem of old age, but most people still stay in the old concept of "raising children and preventing old age", which will inevitably lead to their own lack of awareness of serving the elderly

Sometimes, parenting is in case you have something to rely on when you are old. It's a wrong idea in itself, and even if it's feasible to raise children in case it's okay to grow old, you shouldn't agree to your children's unreasonable demands, otherwise you'll be caught up in the dilemma of "no one gives you a pension".

Don't give all your savings to your kids.

Older people can't easily hand over all their savings to their children. You should leave enough pensions and learn to enjoy life according to your own lifestyle, rather than being led by children, otherwise you can easily fall into the situation of old age and no one to take care of you

When people get older, they should learn to live independently instead of pinning all their hopes on their children. It's a burden for them and an irresponsible performance for themselves, because if something goes wrong at any point, it's you who ultimately suffers

Don't take care of their children unconditionally

In real life, many elderly people are used to caring for their children. They feel that this can reduce their stress and thus reap the rewards of a happy old age

However, this is clearly an equivalent exchange. Can you take care of your child and get your child's support? Maybe things are far from as simple as you think. Some unfilial children don't care about your salary at all, and even complain about you because you can't take good care of you. At that time, your relationship is more likely to break down. Of course, it's not that people can't take care of their children when they're old, it's that they shouldn't take care of them unconditionally. Try to get their kids to give you some financial compensation so that not only can you save some pensions, but you can also make your kids understand you and not complain about you for no reason.

After all, if older adults have their own way of exercising, how should they spend the rest of their lives? In your later years, if you don't want to become helpless and want to make your life more enjoyable, then it is best to choose your own life according to your own wishes, do not expect to raise children to prevent life in old age, save more pensions, and do not unconditionally take care of the offspring of your children. Only by living the rest of your life according to your own ideas can you feel happiness and beauty.