As a person in your forties, if you put your life on a company! It is a manifestation of psychological immaturity! At least it's not a match for the times!
Listen to a netizen: Four or five years ago, I have been planning the second and third routes of my own life! To put it nicely: its own back road, and there is more than one!
The reason is too simple: in this money society, you value the company to let you fit; the company values you, you can create value for him! When one day this condition does not exist, you will be abandoned! And it's sooner or later!
So, I planned it four or five years ago! Just in case you get caught off guard! And I have long been working, half a lifetime of work experience, data, achievements, etc., stored!
If one day the company treats me sincerely, I will leave it all behind! If one day it loses me, a lot of things make it explore and accumulate from scratch! Then, leisurely carry out your own second and third paths!