Marriage is a barrier that everyone can't get around, except for the determined single, having a partner who doesn't abandon in the long road of life is undoubtedly a great blessing, which is also a kind of social attribute.
Although the married life of the same is desirable, but today's marriage-phobic people are more and more, in addition to the soaring cost of living, complex family relationships are also the main reason for the discouragement.
Marriage seems to be a matter of two people, but in fact, it is not, and the marriage also involves the original families of both men and women.
The woman is often more concerned about family relationships, because she has to live with an unfamiliar in-laws, whether it is a family environment or interpersonal relationships, which are completely unfamiliar challenges.
The sensible in-laws are fine, and regard the daughter-in-law as their own, if the in-laws do not know the reason, the subsequent life must be a chicken flying dog jumping.
A few days ago, a female netizen from Zhumadian, Henan Uploaded a video, she used her mobile phone to capture the moment of love between her father-in-law and mother-in-law, although the father-in-law had some resistance, but marrying into such a family is indeed a blessing.
The father-in-law leaned on the mother-in-law to watch the video
"Dad! Are you there? ”
A crisp call broke the tranquility of the room, and the father-in-law who had been leaning on his mother-in-law to watch the video was struck by lightning, he glanced back, saw the figure of his daughter-in-law, and without saying a word, he burrowed his head into the quilt, like a very frightened ostrich.
Those who don't know also think that he has done something unseemly, the conscience of heaven and earth, he just inadvertently showed a little love, and the life of the old husband and wife is also indispensable to the mood.
Seeing her father-in-law's appearance, her daughter-in-law had no intention of giving up, and still pretended to shout" without knowing, "Dad, get up and drink soup..."
The daughter-in-law suddenly broke through the door, and the father-in-law blushed with shame
No matter how the daughter-in-law calls, the father-in-law hides in the quilt is not silent, to say that the father-in-law is also a person who has seen the world, but now he is too scared to see people by a little girl in his 20s, which is really speechless.
The first time the mother-in-law saw her man blushing with shame, this time it was undoubtedly an eye-opener, looking at the daughter-in-law with a bad smile, and then looking at the ostrich-like wife, the mother-in-law actually laughed.
As early as when the daughter-in-law broke through the door, the mother-in-law saw the hint, she did not remind her wife, but smiled and watched the play.
A handful of age is still like this
Seeing the smile on her mother-in-law's face, her daughter-in-law's courage also grew, and she playfully said, "Once we are still like this, we are almost inferior..."
The father-in-law involuntarily trembled when he heard this sentence, and when he saw the undulating quilt, the mother-in-law laughed directly.
Judging from the reaction of the in-laws, the daughter-in-law has received princess-like preferential treatment in this family, and if it is not for the in-laws' approachability, the daughter-in-law does not dare to make such jokes, there is no doubt that this is a smart in-laws.
How many people part ways because of the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, that is, the elderly can not put down the shelf, and even from beginning to end, the daughter-in-law is regarded as an outsider, and even some people require the child to notarize the premarital property, that is, they are afraid that the daughter-in-law will take advantage.
Although marriage and divorce belong to the freedom of marriage, but from the beginning of the daughter-in-law to hold a precautionary psychology, the future married life will definitely not be happy, if the man just happens to be a mother treasure man, the girl who married the past will live like a year.
The elderly should put themselves in the right position, do not interfere with the married life of the children, adults can get married, since adults, should have the right to live independently, the elderly can give advice, but can not give advice, but can not take the child to be home.
Therefore, when a girl marries, do not only pay attention to the situation of the object itself, the in-laws and in-laws are directly related to the happiness after marriage, remember not to be sloppy!