Recently there is an online questionnaire survey, if you let you have a second or third child, a monthly subsidy of 1,000 yuan, are you willing to give birth?
A lot of the answer is, no.
There are many reasons: First, the cost of raising a child is far more than a thousand yuan, and there are also artificial labor. Second, the cost of raising children's education is also very large. Third, it is very hard and tiring to take the child, and I don't know what will happen in the future.
For example, my child, when he was young, hugged and coaxed every day, and he worked alone and couldn't do anything. At three months of age, the child's biological clock is turned upside down, and he sleeps one day during the day and does not sleep at night.
But adults have to take advantage of the child's sleep during the day, do something, and get tired at night, want to take a good rest, just the child does not sleep at night, and the crying and noisy baby, had to work hard to coax, making the adult physically and mentally exhausted.
Not to mention the work, tired waist and back pain at work, back home want to rest, but also to coax the children who do not understand things, so they feel annoyed. Today's young people are also very impatient, because the matter of taking children will lead to the intensification of family conflicts.
My next door neighbor is, a small family of two, one at work, one full-time with children. Because children often quarrel. A whole day with children, can't do anything, the heart is upset. The other commutes to work every day, and when he returns home, he does not rest well, and he is equally upset, which is all made up by children.
Many young people see that it is so hard and hard for others to bring up children and raise children. Knowing that it is not easy to have a child, I simply do not want to have a child, and I retreat from the difficulty.
Although now advocate more fertility, and even give rewards and subsidies, many people are still indifferent, the fundamental reason is the rise in prices, the cost of having and raising children is too large, the cost of medical care is large, the cost of education is large when you are a child, the cost of marriage is large, the thought of these, resulting in great pressure, some fear in the mind, in reality is the same, considering these, there is no idea that you will not dare to have children. (Image from the Internet, if there is infringement contact to delete)