Did tens of thousands of consultations found that men who cannot do without women outside marriage have been hit by 3 kinds of "poison" during the holiday, and many women have fallen into the mode of "fire prevention and theft prevention husband". You're going to do whatever it takes

Did tens of thousands of consultations found that men who cannot do without women outside marriage have been hit by 3 kinds of "poison"

During the holiday, many women fall into the mode of "fire prevention, theft prevention and husband prevention".

You will do everything you can to prevent your husband from meeting women outside of marriage.

But as a big living person, you can't stop him.

Many women said to me very sadly: I don't understand, why can't he even stay up for a few days during the festival, does that woman have such a big attraction?

First of all, we need to understand, why does a man have to see the woman during the holidays?

The first is because of "fan": men enter the brain madness period, and they will use women outside marriage as drugs to smoke.

The second reason is "oil": he does not have to see the woman, but because he feels that you are completely pinched by him, so he dares to meet the woman brazenly.

The third reason is "fear": he is afraid of losing the woman, or he is afraid of the woman coming to make trouble, or he has some handle in the hands of the woman, in short, he must appease the woman, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable.

So what do we do?

First of all, we must know that the great living cannot be stopped.

Everyone has their own little abacus, and no one does anything that is not cost-effective.

For the man in the "brain madness period", he is now in a state of madness, you go blindly to block, in fact, the effect will not be too good.

If I were you, I would use the "limited control" trick.

You can take a step back and say:

I know you're definitely going to meet that woman, well, I'm willing to give in now, and that's that you have to come back by 11 o'clock.

If you can't even do that, then I'll just flip the table with you, and we'll tear it up.

The purpose of your doing this is actually to give the man control over behavior, which will make the woman outside the marriage unhappy.

She will do everything possible not to let your husband go home, and in the end you will be famous, and your husband will be ashamed of you in the depths of his heart, and feel that the woman is demanding.

In short, you need to give them a stumbling block, instead of blindly "mantis arm as a car" when men are the craziest, our purpose is to kill each other, and that is enough.

For the "greasy" man, you can use the "carrot + stick" tactic on him, because he is the most calculating person, and once he feels that it is not cost-effective, he will not really go to the woman.

For "fearful" men, you need to have some "tea art", you can say:

In fact, I also know that you are not easy, because you are afraid that if you don't go over there, you will make trouble, well, I can allow you to go, but you have to give me some compensation.

Why can you allow him to go?

Because you know that the relationship maintained by fear cannot last long, and you will pay back tenfold the sins he has done to you.

But now is not the time to "lift the table", you also need to be patient to play the role of "empathetic", let him feel that you are his "best partner", so that you can recover the lost land and let the man's heart return to you.

You see, different men, different situations have to apply different words. If you want to know more specific handling methods and dialogue techniques, you can leave a message in the comment area or @Heart Help Lu Yue Private Message me.