Chen Yihan posted his second child pregnancy photos on social platforms.
In the photo, she cut a new hairstyle, Qi bangs with short hair, fresh and neat, full of vitality, and a sweet smile.
But perhaps it is hard work during pregnancy, it is not easy to take the baby, the collagen on her face is dissipated, the face is not as full as before, and the eyes that are already very large are a little prominent.
Unexpectedly, it was ridiculed by many netizens.
It is said that because she lost weight after giving birth to a child, the likable vitality of the flower period was gone.
It is said that she finally could not resist the years and changed from a young girl to an aunt overnight.
Some people even use the term "horror" to describe her, saying that she is so thin that her eyes are protruding, like Dobby...
Probably after seeing the messages of these netizens, on the evening of September 17, Chen Yihan posted a video on Instagram and called out to netizens:
"Are the eyes bulging?" Stinky netizens".
Chen Yihan in the lens squeezed his eyebrows and made his own angry expression, but soon he was happy with the camera, and it seems that he was not affected by external public opinion.
To know that pregnancy is a very hard thing, and Chen Yihan is 39 years old this year, pregnant with a second child at an older age, it is not easy, but it has triggered a fierce discussion among netizens.
I have to say that in recent years, the public seems to be more and more strict about the appearance of female celebrities, and many female celebrities have been ridiculed for being pregnant and having children.
Zhang Xinyi, who was fat during lactation, was mercilessly ridiculed like a "steamed bun" on a variety show.
Even Zhang Ziyi, who attended the event shortly after giving birth to her second child, was obviously full of confidence, and the news also said that she "moved her postpartum hairline backwards".
It was as if failing to maintain his perfect and exquisite appearance was a shameful thing.
These netizens only saw that after the woman became pregnant and gave birth, she was not full of collagen, not slim enough, and not exquisite enough makeup.
But they don't know that in women pregnant and have children, appearance out of shape is the least risk of the impact, they have to endure a lot of unimaginable pain, and even many times, they are hovering on the verge of death.
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In 2016, the documentary "Shengmen" left a deep impression on many people.
It uses a fierce lens language to face the scene of the birth of life, and through the birth of countless pregnant women, it shows the shock of the alternation of life and death. The whole documentary is a true account of the many risks that women experience in the process of childbearing.
Liu's mother was in prenatal pain to beg the doctor to take the anesthetic quickly, but in the end she almost took her life and was told by the doctor to remove the "stillborn".
When Xia's mother gave birth, the baby's instantaneous bleeding from the body exceeded 1000ml, which was equivalent to 4 times of blood exchange throughout the body, and hysterectomy must be performed.
He also suffered two cardiac arrests and was transferred to the ICU for care after surgery.
Before giving birth, she laughed and said, "No story, it's all suffering", but tears fell on the delivery bed.
Fang's mother was 28 weeks pregnant, had high blood pressure and ascites. There are also heavy damage to kidney function and liver function, and it is possible to die twice at any time.
Yuan's mother, pregnant hypertension, can cause cerebrovascular accidents at any time, causing life-threatening.
And many more...
Chen Weijun, director of "Shengmen", said this:
"It is said that childbirth is a matter of two people, a matter of husband and wife, but it is not. It is the woman who really faces everything. ”
When a woman becomes a mother, she is already very hard, and if she points fingers at her mother's figure and appearance, it is too harsh.
What is even more speechless is that there are many mothers who often do not get the respect and understanding of people in their lives.
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Before, #Tang Wei cried #on the hot search.
The reason is that Tang Wei and Lei Jiayin were asked by the host what they couldn't stand with each other when they cooperated in the filming of "Whistleblower" in the live broadcast of the Golden Rooster Awards Blue Feather Club.
Lei Jiayin replied: "She always goes to the toilet, really." ”
Then he complained that Tang Wei went to the toilet 3 times during the filming of a more exciting opponent scene.
"Every time I was full of emotions and tears in my eyes, she said: Director, I want to go to the toilet..."
Tang Wei's face was a little taut, during which she stood up and ran to the back wall to cover up her embarrassment and collapse.
Later, Tang Wei cried several times in front of the camera, saying that he was also embarrassed. She explained: I'm not in good health and have been taking antibiotics, which has led to the impact on my partner...
Lei Jiayin looked at Tang Wei in tears, but he still didn't think so: "This scene is very enough, what is there to cry about?" ”
Why does the goddess of grace lose her temper? Probably every mom understands. Because she returned to work shortly after giving birth, her mother's various physical functions were still adjusting and recovering, and Chen Jiahua Ella had previously disclosed that she had encountered problems such as leakage of urine after childbirth.
She said that after giving birth, her uterus and bladder prolapsed, resulting in postpartum urinary incontinence, and she slowly recovered after surgery.
The small problems brought about by these "fertility" and the irreversible damage caused to the body are difficult for many people to say, but they are real.
Even if all the homework during pregnancy and the postpartum period is done, there is no way to change it, and women face all kinds of pain when giving birth.
In order to have children, mothers die in the delivery room for a lifetime, after giving birth, they also have to go through nine nine eighty-one difficulties, seriously, do not have a child, you never know how difficult it is for women.
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Compared with the sequelae of childbirth, and the huge price that mothers pay for childbirth, the most terrible thing is the husband's dislike and incomprehension.
I once saw such a news, the beauty executive Ms. Liu, after getting married and having children, was in a blessed body, but she was disliked by her husband and asked for a divorce.
Before marriage, this man said everything sweetly:
"I really want to fatten you up, because after you get fat you won't run."
But after giving birth, he suddenly changed his face:
"You can do whatever you want when you're thin, but now I can't accept it like this."
But as a husband, he did not think that behind the so-called "unchanged body" of others, it was a lot of money and free time.
Some netizens on Zhihu have disclosed the reasons why they remain beautiful after childbirth:
1, fitness classes and beauty salon medical beauty, together about 70,000 or 80,000
2, the husband's family found an aunt with a baby, six or seven thousand a month
3, work is very relaxed, happy mood
4, milk powder diaper is not wet do not need me to spend money, I can support myself
5, the holiday husband one does not land to take me out to play to buy me gifts
6, pelvic floor muscle repair is still very useful, I am in the top three to do, before and after about six or seven thousand, medical insurance can also be reimbursed, this is fine
7, the husband himself is also very good maintenance, insist on sports to play basketball, the figure is very good, that aspect is also very harmonious, every day to be with him tired for a while
To sum up, there are only three points: there is money, there is leisure, and there is love.
No need to serve the in-laws, no need to wash and cook with children, no need to face the trivialities of chai rice oil and salt, there is a husband who is willing to spend money for himself, and he is sad about himself, and naturally has the conditions to invest in himself and manage his body.
So I want to say to the men who hate their wives, over the years, your wife has given up her youth and strength, had children, and taken care of the family, what have you paid?
Even if the material can not be satisfied, have you taken on the parenting and housework with her to support her to become beautiful?
If not, then please don't pick and choose.
Finally, I hope that people who have not experienced the pain of childbirth will give mothers more tolerance and understanding. They sacrifice their bodies in exchange for the health of their children and the harmony of their families.
May every mother be treated kindly by the world and loved by herself.