For many viewers, actor Zhu Yuchen may not be very familiar. However, when mentioning the image of the "Bao Ma Man" who has appeared in many variety shows and is deeply loved by his mother, I believe many people can immediately understand him.
Today, Zhu Yuchen, who has entered middle age, is still single and has not yet established a family of his own. Looking back at his life course, it seems that such an outcome has long been foreshadowed.
The shadow that has always hung over his heart is the mother he loves deeply, but interferes too much in his life.
With the passage of time, the relationship between Zhu Yuchen and his mother has become closer than before. However, behind this close connection, it is his mother's meticulous control and manipulation that makes it difficult for Zhu Yuchen to get rid of.
All the details of his life seem to be tightly controlled by his mother, and even his daily diet and rest habits are strictly restricted by his mother.
His mother would regularly ask Zhu Yuchen about his three meals a day and his academic progress by phone, and give him various guidance. As long as Zhu Yuchen resists a little, his mother will suppress it with all her might, and even threaten to commit suicide.
This kind of absurd behavior is really incomprehensible.
Looking back on Zhu Yuchen's emotional experience, we can clearly see a sad fact: whenever he musters up the courage to find true love, and the road to love has just begun to heat up, his disgruntled mother will suddenly appear and ruthlessly destroy this budding love with her harsh words and outdated concepts.
The first unfortunate relationship is undoubtedly the story of his first girlfriend, Tang Wei, who has now become a hot star. At that time, Tang Wei was beautiful and moving, with an elegant temperament, and could be called a god-given acting genius.
Zhu Yuchen fell in love with her at first sight, but her mother was suspicious of this excellent future daughter-in-law, thinking that she was too avant-garde and not virtuous enough to match her precious son. In the end, under the strong opposition of his mother, Zhu Yuchen broke up with Tang Wei in tears.
Subsequently, Zhu Yuchen's relationship with the well-known actress Huo Siyan was also hindered. His first impression of Huo Siyan was very good, but his mother was dissatisfied with her petite figure and thin physique, and was always worried that she would not be able to take on the heavy housework.
As expected, not long after Zhu Yuchen led Huo Siyan to visit his mother, his mother put on a cold face, found all kinds of excuses, and ruthlessly expelled Huo Siyan from the house.
The emotional entanglement between Zhu Yuchen and his third girlfriend Jiang Yan is even more tortuous and bumpy. Jiang Yan not only has a beautiful appearance and a kind character, but also has a budget-conscious financial management ability and a humble and low-key quality. Zhu Yuchen was full of praise for her, and once hoped with great expectations to marry this virtuous and virtuous woman.
However, her mother complained about Jiang Yan's dress in a short skirt, accusing her of being too flamboyant and exposing herself too much to be able to play the role of a housewife. Under the pressure of her mother, Jiang Yan had no choice but to leave to resolve this embarrassing situation.
Faced with his mother's forcible intervention again and again, Zhu Yuchen's heart was full of pain and helplessness. He deeply understood the depth of his mother's love for him, but this love seemed so distorted and absurd that he felt at a loss.
Falling in love is undoubtedly a physically and mentally exhausting tug-of-war for him, no wonder he is now middle-aged and still lonely.
It was a drizzly afternoon in 1995, and Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei met at the enrollment site of the Central Academy of Drama. They all came to Beijing alone to work hard with the dream of becoming outstanding actors, but unfortunately they failed in the rigorous interview, and they could only temporarily let go of their ideals.
Just as Zhu Yuchen was holding an umbrella and preparing to turn around and leave in frustration, a graceful figure came into view. It was a good-looking and graceful woman, who came from the rain curtain and walked in as if she was also a loser who failed the exam.
Her eyes are clear and bright, her smile is as bright as a flower, and her posture is charming and moving, like a fairy coming out of an ink painting.
With an innocent good feeling, Zhu Yuchen took the initiative to talk, but unexpectedly found that the other party was Tang Wei, who had the same experience as him. So, they started from seeing each other late, facing each other day and night, quickly fell in love, and began a sweet love journey.
In the next three years, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei were inseparable, extremely affectionate, and accompanied each other like childhood sweethearts. It wasn't until Zhu Yuchen was successfully admitted to the Central Academy of Drama that they had to study separately.
Although Tang Wei has never been able to realize his dream, Zhu Yuchen is still full of expectations, looking forward to waiting until graduation to hold hands with Tang Wei and enter the palace of marriage.
It is a pity that this good time did not last long, and Zhu Yuchen's mother's attitude towards her favorite object Tang Wei can be described as ruthless. Whenever Tang Wei came to visit Zhu Yuchen's dormitory, her mother always had a cold face, asking her to help with housework for various reasons, and even testing her cooking skills, and seemed to have a lot of dissatisfaction and criticism of her. The mother deeply felt that Tang Wei's behavior was too avant-garde, lacking the virtues of virtue in the traditional sense, and could not match the son she regarded as a treasure.
Under his mother's strong opposition and pressure, Zhu Yuchen could only break up with Tang Wei in tears, just because his mother was firmly opposed to their marriage. Recalling those painful years, Zhu Yuchen still felt a tingling in his heart, and he couldn't help but complain about why he couldn't be more determined and brave to fight for this relationship at that time.
Zhu Yuchen's college career is undoubtedly full of gloom, and his life is completely shrouded in the shadow of his mother. His mother was like an intruder, forcibly shackling him under her wings, preventing him from growing up freely.
When Zhu Yuchen just stepped into the dormitory, his mother was like an overworked parent, carefully checking the environmental hygiene of the dormitory, and even had an in-depth understanding of the living habits of the roommates. Her eyes were blazing, for fear that her son would suffer the slightest harm in school life. Since then, she has called Zhu Yuchen regularly every day to inquire in detail about his daily three meals and academic progress, and to intervene and guide him in an all-round way.
The roommates initially thought it was just an ordinary mother's concern, but soon they realized that Zhu Yuchen's mother's behavior had exceeded the normal range. As long as Zhu Yuchen had the slightest problem in his daily life, or his academic tasks were not completed in time, his mother would severely reprimand him on the phone. Sometimes, she even threatened to commit suicide in an attempt to suppress Zhu Yuchen's resistance.
Unable to endure the constraints of dormitory life, Zhu Yuchen decided to move out of the dormitory and live with his first girlfriend Tang Wei. However, the mother soon learned of the news and expressed strong opposition and obstruction of it. Zhu Yuchen had to take Tang Wei home and accept his mother's censorship. As you can imagine, the mother made things difficult for her future daughter-in-law and humiliated her, believing that she was mediocre and lacked virtuous virtues. In the end, the cohabitation of the two ended hastily.
Zhu Yuchen's roommates all regretted it! Although they also endured the strict discipline of their mother, they were far from being as absurd and bizarre as Zhu Yuchen experienced.
In the eyes of others, Zhu Yuchen's mother is simply an extreme control freak, and she has interfered in all aspects of her son's life.
No wonder Zhu Yuchen is still alone, he obviously lacks the basic ability to live independently!