The mother is on the front line of epidemic prevention, and the son is in isolation to prepare for the college entrance examination. In June 2021, the touching deeds of a mother and son were widely reported, and the protagonist of the story was Wu Jinling, a nurse in Guangzhou, and her son Luo Di.
In 2020, Wu Jinling went to Wuhan to support the epidemic, and her son wrote her a "stress reduction letter" to cheer her up. A year and a half later, Wu Jinling once again became the "most beautiful retrograde", participating in community epidemic prevention work in Guangzhou, but she could not spare much time to encourage her son who was preparing for the college entrance examination.
On the occasion of the arrival of the New Year in 2022, the Nandu "Yangcheng Good Family Style" theme reporting team will focus on this medical family and record their family style stories.
Guangzhou nurse Wu Jinling's story of the war epidemic has been widely reported.
In terms of family education and inheritance of family style, Wu Jinling's family emphasizes "teaching by example" and "leading by example". Earlier, in order to welcome her son's coming-of-age ceremony, Wu Jinling had written a letter to Roddy, saying that he "should be good at thinking and learning, have integrity, know how to be grateful, and be tolerant and low-key in dealing with the world."
Now his son, Roddy, who is studying in a different place, is gradually realizing his parents' expectations for himself.
The teachings of the elders: Do all kinds of good deeds and straighten out yourself
Wu Jinling is currently a head nurse in the Internal Medicine Clinic of the First Affiliated Hospital of Jinan University. She was born into a rural family in Zengcheng. At home, Wu Jinling is the eldest, and there are younger siblings below.
The parents' culture is not high, but the family reveres culture, and Wu Jinling remembers that her father often encouraged her children: "Read more, don't be bullied." In order to provide Wu Jinling with study, her father moved from side to side, and once borrowed money from people in the face of embarrassment. In Wu Jinling's memory, her parents are simple and unpretentious, and they teach their children more "by example" than "by word".
Wu Jinling studied nursing at Jinan University. After graduation, he worked in the First Affiliated Hospital of Jinan University and has been working in front-line medical positions for more than 20 years.
After marriage, Wu Jinling gave birth to a son, named Luo Di. For her son's education, Wu Jinling and her husband are very concerned. "The child's father teaches some life principles more, and I focus on taking care of the child's life." Wu Jinling said. But the two re-taught by example, leading by example, so that their son was subtly affected.
Wu Jinling summed up the rules of doing things handed down by the elders in the family, which can be regarded as a writer's training: "Filial piety is the first, doing hundreds of good deeds, straightening one's own body, and being diligent and thrifty and self-reliant." Son Roddy was also deeply affected. Today, Roddy has grown up and has a calm temperament rarely seen by his peers.
Son writes "stress reduction letter"
Cheer up the war mom
In daily life, the emotional expression between Wu Jinling and Luo Di is more restrained. The Wuhan war epidemic that occurred two years ago made this family affection have a more frank expression.
At the beginning of 2020, Wu Jinling, the "most beautiful retrograde" who supported the Wuhan epidemic.
On January 24, 2020, on the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, 128 members of the Guangdong Provincial Medical Team assisting Hubei were urgently assembled to help Wuhan. Wu Jinling, who was the head nurse of the Neurosurgery Department of the First Affiliated Hospital of Jinan University at that time, was one of them, and after arriving in Wuhan, she and her colleagues supported Hankou Hospital.
In Chi Yuan's diary, she wrote about the scene at that time: "We managed hundreds of patients in two nursing units, one of which had many critically ill patients, and at 8 p.m. there were dozens of patients infusion, we were busy dealing with doctors' orders, receiving patients, busy dispensing drugs, and busy receiving rehydration fluids in the wards. ”
After the busy, I returned to the station hotel and finished packing, it was already the early morning of the next day. The tension and pressure in the ward are still lingering in her mind, and Wu Jinling, who is lying on the bed, opens her mobile phone and sees the photo P picture sent by her son Roddy, and she feels relieved, and the corners of her mouth quietly rise. Roddy added some text to the photo of her mother in a protective suit to express her love and encouragement: "The cutest person! May the mother be safe and triumphant. ”
In 2020, when fighting the epidemic in Wuhan, Wu Jinling and her son's chat records, the background of the chat was a sunflower, or there was a desire to "win the championship in one fell swoop".
On the afternoon of the expedition to support Wuhan, Wu Jinling was busy packing her bags and telling her son about the urgent tasks she had received. "Wuhan is the first line, and I must have thought a lot in my heart." Roddy had even imagined the worst at the time, but his worries didn't let his mother know. A few days later, he chose to write a more formal letter and send it to his mother through WeChat.
"Mom is usually a person with a low tear point, and she has a strong sense of empathy. When I write, I imagine what kind of situation she is in, and use this as a starting point to cheer her up. Roddy explained. At that time, Roddy was not yet 18 years old, and his maturity and understanding made Wu Jinling proud.
Parents and sons make friends
In order to welcome their son's coming-of-age ceremony, Wu Jinling and his wife officially wrote a letter to Roddy. In the letter, they said to their son, "For eighteen years, you have been proud of me. You are open-minded, humble, courteous, have your own will and wisdom. ”
In November 2020, the coming-of-age ceremony of Guangdong Experimental Middle School, Roddy (right) took a photo to commemorate the occasion.
Wu Jinling usually has a heavy job in the hospital, her husband is self-employed, and both are sometimes busy. However, Roddy has left home to board since junior high school and has developed an independent personality early.
Even if he is in a state of isolation and preparation during the college entrance examination, Roddy still maintains a normal heart. At that time, Wu Jinling was once worried about her son's eating problem, but Roddy recalled the incident with understatement: "There is no need to worry so much, and it will be solved soon." ”
For her son's growth, Wu Jinling said that from a young age, she was a bit of a free-range, not so strict, "we are like friends." It is also for this reason that the couple's life advice for their son will not be too specific, but only hope that Roddy can always maintain a healthy body and a good attitude. In addition, they advise their sons to be good at thinking and learning, to be honest, to be grateful, and to be tolerant and low-key in their dealings with the world.
After the college entrance examination, Roddy went to xuzhou to study at the China University of Mining and Technology. "He's grown up now and a lot of ideas have matured. He has his own path to choose from, not necessarily following the adult's path. For the future of her son, Wu Jinling said.
Wu Jinling said that she and her son were "like friends."
【Q&A on the same topic】
Q: What do you think is home style? Can you tell us about your family's home training?
A: The family style is the atmosphere that needs positive energy in the family, and what adults do, children will follow suit. My family's family motto: filial piety first, do a hundred good deeds, straighten out oneself, be diligent and thrifty.
Q: Who in your family has influenced you the most?
A: My father-in-law. It is of great help to the actual work and life path.
Q: What is the most memorable thing in the memory of home style?
A: The family taught us to be innocent and do things frankly, and the family was deeply impressed by this.
Q: What kind of person do you want your child to be? How to inherit the family style?
A: I hope he grows up healthy. Passing on the family style still needs to lead by example.
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Written by: Nandu, N video reporter Ma Hui, Chen Jiesheng, Wang Daobin, intern Huang Ziqi
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