My dad was paralyzed in bed for eight years, I was always alone in my care, last year my dad died, my sister who hadn't waited for dad for a day suddenly came back to take all the demolition money from my dad, big

My dad was paralyzed in bed for eight years, I have been taking care of myself, last year my dad died, my sister who didn't serve my dad for a day suddenly came back to take all the demolition money from my dad, everyone help me see, can this situation be given to her?

I am 36 years old, I have an older sister who is two years older than me, my family is rural, I am a product of my parents wanting a boy, so I was not welcomed since I was a child, my sister was much luckier than me, she studied well, my father provided her with college.

My sister stayed in the city after graduation, my parents felt that my sister was so far away from them, so I could not stay farther, and finally under their arrangement I married an honest and generous man in the same village.

I have a lot of respect for my sister since I was a child, and many of the expenses she spent when she went to college were earned by my part-time job, and I would buy her clothes and shoes...

Before, I didn't think she was selfish, after all, she was just a student at that time, but after she graduated, she showed her selfishness to the fullest, she was reluctant to buy me anything after earning money, her clothes were too many to fit in the cabinet, and she was reluctant to give one if I wanted one.

Her child was two years younger than my child, because her family lived in a building, and I thought of taking the child to her long sight, but during the few days of staying there, she was full of contempt for my two children, and my brother-in-law sat on the side and ignored us, I originally planned to stay two more days, and then I took the child back to the countryside for one day.

My sister only comes back to see my parents once a year during the New Year, and my husband and I don't know how many times a day I run to my parents' house, and I have to think about bringing them a bite to make a delicious meal. My parents nagged my sister all day long, and my sister danced happily and ran from place to place when she came back.

The year my mother died of a heart attack, my father became a person, according to my meaning to bring him to my house, but my father said that he would wait for my sister to come back in the New Year and leave with my sister.

On the third day of the Chinese New Year, my sister drove herself back, my dad told her that he was going to live with her for a while, and after my sister repeatedly obstructed her without success, my dad still went, but he didn't expect that less than a week later, he came back by train.

When she came back, she scolded my sister and said that she was an unfilial daughter and had raised her in vain. I don't know the specific reason, but since then my dad hasn't talked much about my sister, and said that he will only have one daughter after that.

My sister didn't come back for the New Year, but after a phone call, my dad had a big fight with her, and within a few days he suddenly suffered a cerebral infarction and was hospitalized, and then he was paralyzed in bed for eight years.

I think it was my sister who made my father angry like this, and in the eight years that my father was paralyzed in bed, my sister never came back once, and my husband and I would leave a person to serve my father when we were busy. Everyone in the village says that my sister is a white wolf, what is the use of providing her with college? It's better for me than if I don't read.

I didn't need them to fight for me, I just gave birth to one daughter when my parents, so I didn't have any imbalance in my heart. Besides, my parents raised me, I grew up to do my duty to support my father, there is nothing to praise, my sister does not understand that it is her business.

In the past eight years, I have not called my sister, although my father does not speak, but I know that he must also hope that my sister can come back to see him, as a result, I called her and complained about me, saying that I did not take good care of my father to cause him to have cerebral infarction, I was really angry with her, I told her to let her come back to see, she said that she was too busy to have time, I gambled that you have to take some alimony out no matter how busy you are, my family conditions are not good, my father has no money, all the expenses are we are paying.

As soon as she heard that I wanted alimony and hung up the phone, I didn't answer her no matter how I called her, I really wanted to sue her, but I was afraid of people laughing, or that sentence, just when my parents only gave birth to me, fortunately my husband has no complaints.

In the first two years, the family house was demolished, according to the head, my father's account was only himself, so he divided 800,000 yuan, we did not ask him for a house, planning to let him live with us, our family got 2.6 million demolition money because they wanted a large house.

My sister heard that the demolition money came down, and directly asked me for money, and I said to her, "Daddy hasn't left yet, you want to share his little money?"

She said, "The 800,000 should be given to me, and if your family doesn't have any less money, don't worry about Dad's 800,000."

I said, "According to the head of the person, your account is taken out, and this money has nothing to do with your dime." I hung up the phone when I finished.

Last year my father died, my sister came back to the funeral and asked me for money, she told me what inheritance rights, I did not understand, I said to her: "My father collapsed in bed for eight years, you did not take care of him for a day, nor did you pay a single alimony, I do not believe that the law can be towards people like you."

The relatives at home accused her of having no conscience and not asking for this money with a thick face, she couldn't hang on to her face, she slipped away, and before leaving, she said harshly: "This money is at least half of mine, you wait."

I just waited for her, I don't understand so much, I just know that she didn't take care of my dad for a day, didn't give my dad a penny of alimony, my dad just left she wanted to divide the money, am I wrong with her like this? Should she get half of the money?

@ Wei Wei Wei Wei said: Eccentric children are not good, your sister is indeed a white wolf as you said, your parents are equivalent to giving her all their love, let her fly freely, and then tie you around to prevent aging, this point is very selfish, but no matter how selfish they are, they have raised us, we must know how grateful, this you do very well.

Your sister is a spoiled child of yours, she is selfish and not filial, which may have something to do with being loved by all of you since childhood, she feels that all the benefits should be hers, so she has developed a character that she only wants to get and does not want to give.

The sister's family also divided a lot of money, she and her sister still have a basis for feelings, the sister is now her only relative, everyone thinks that she chose to give her sister half of the demolition money, take this opportunity to ease the relationship between their sisters? Or do you choose not to give a penny and cut off contact from now on?