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Guan Hongfen
After dinner, I urged my 10-year-old son to hurry up and do his homework. Since entering the fourth grade, my son's homework has increased, and writing is more time-consuming, so he must start writing homework earlier to ensure sleep time. However, my son ignored my urging and continued to go his own way, either sitting in the living room playing with toys or looking for snacks all over the house.
I patiently urged him a few more times, but it still didn't work. I finally couldn't hold it anymore, shouted his name, and told him, "If you don't do your homework again, be careful that I beat you." My words made my son a little sneering, and he reluctantly got up from the couch, then looked at me and said, "Got it, our family's 'unhappy lady'." I was stunned and asked him, "What is a 'unhappy lady'?" The son replied frankly, "Aren't you a 'displeased lady'?" Always angry at every turn, unhappy at every turn. When I heard this, I was angry and thought to myself: I yelled at him, but he didn't find the reason from himself, but blamed me for my bad temper and gave me a nickname! Why am I upset? Is it because I like to be unhappy?
So, I couldn't help but give him a "replay" of the whole thing: Yesterday, when you came back from school, I asked you to hurry up and write your homework, and you said, "There is not much homework, it can be finished in a while", so I didn't rush you. However, it was almost eight o'clock when I realized that you had homework in all three classes, and you had to write an essay. So, you put off going to bed until late. I was really angry yesterday, I wanted to hit you and I couldn't bear it, and the anger accumulated in my heart, and then I yelled at you a few words, but in your heart, I was irritable and irritable? You are still young and have poor self-control, if I don't supervise you and let you play freely, is it a good mother in your heart? I don't think so. I think it is best to properly supervise and supervise on the basis of love.
I told my son these words and told him that no mother in this world would want to be an "unhappy lady," and neither would I. But if her child is disobedient and not serious, and pretends not to hear after several urgings, what do you ask the mother to do? Let your child write homework late every day and not get enough sleep, and then affect his or her long body? Or is it because the child develops bad habits and then gets worse and worse? I asked my son, "Do you want this?" Seeing my son shaking his head, I took advantage of the victory to chase: "If my mother is willing to change, try not to be angry in the future, and try not to be an 'unhappy lady', will you also change?" After hearing this, the son nodded solemnly.
Finally, I resolved this unpleasantness. But even though my son nodded, I still had a faint worry in my heart, as a mother, I knew that my son would inevitably be playful and occasionally lazy, maybe I would still yell at him in the future, and I would become an "unhappy lady", but I would try my best to control my emotions. There is a long way to go in educating children, and I am willing to redouble my efforts.
Source: Student Health News
Text: Guan Hongfen
Curator: Zhang Cancan
Editor: Mu Xinyu and Li Shiyao
Proofreading: Yang Zhenyu
Review: Guan Zhongyao, Xu Bingnan
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