Happy new year, the annual Spring Festival arrives, many people are excited to buy New Year goods, in this family reunion day, everyone is busy and happy.
Not only are adults happy, but children are more long-awaited, eating and drinking well in the New Year, wearing new clothes, fully enjoying the holiday, and receiving red envelopes from adults to buy their favorite items.
Nowadays, the number of families with two and three children is increasing, and the pressure money of each child cannot be easily omitted, for many parents, how to correctly and properly send red envelopes to their children and deal with red envelopes is a happy little trouble.
Parents sent red envelopes to 3 children, and the amount difference was obvious
Xiao Wu and his wife are in the year of establishment, the husband and wife love them, after marriage, there are 3 children, the age difference between these three children is not very much, for the children's various matters, both sides also strive to be a bowl of water level, but there are always some problems will appear small loopholes.
Last year, because of the child's pressure on the age of money, resulting in 3 children's mixed feelings, the reason is that Dabao went to junior high school this year, Xiao Wu wanted Dabao to grow up gradually, there were more places to use money, and chose to give Dabao 1,000 yuan in red envelopes.
Erbao went to primary school this year, and was also ready to give Erbao 500 yuan, and Xiaobao only went to kindergarten, and she would not spend so much money, so she gave Xiaobao 100 yuan.
After Xiao Bao saw the gap between himself and his brother and sister, he obviously felt unhappy, thinking that his parents did not love him, compared to the status of his brother and sister in the hearts of his parents, crying and wanting the same amount of money.
After Chen Si, Xiao Wu and his wife felt that they did not do it well, and decided that they absolutely could not make this stupid mistake in the future, in the amount of red envelopes issued this year, the two sides were ready to think of a perfect strategy, not to let any child be wronged, the couple gave the child the same amount of money, and then bought the gifts they needed.
In fact, how to correctly distribute red envelopes to children is a problem that plagues most parents, Xiao Wu and his wife think that their approach is foolproof, but in fact, it is to let the children have a gap between them, and it is crucial to learn the correct method.
There are many "divine beasts" in the family, how to send red envelopes to children
Parents always think that their children are small and want to decide the amount of their children's red envelopes in their own way, but they ignore the children's inner thoughts, and can only let the children and the parents' hearts drift apart.
Red envelopes are distributed equally
In the process of sending red packets, adults always consider problems from their own point of view, but do not start from the overall point of view, parents think that children are young, so the number of red packets is small.
Some elders think that the grandson is closer than the grandson, so they give the grandson more money, or think that the grandson is a guest, and the grandson is a family member and choose not to give, which will hurt the neglected party.
In the process of distributing red envelopes, adults must treat them equally, so as not to cause a rift in the relationship between themselves and children, and between children and children.
The number is as reasonable as possible
There is a difference between the child's ability to spend money and the awareness of money and adults, parents should carefully consider the matters that the child needs to spend, and choose a reasonable amount of money, otherwise it will have an undue impact on the child. Tens of thousands of yuan of red envelopes are very domineering and face-saving, for children they lack the ability to control money, follow-up trouble.
Within the limits of what you can afford
The family conditions between different people are different, some children have difficult family conditions, but the parents do not think of their own difficult situation, but give the child a huge amount of pressure money, affecting the normal expenditure of the family, in the process of giving the child the age of money, we must fully consider the actual situation, within the range of family affordability.
After giving your child a red envelope, you should also pay attention to the following things
How to correctly and properly arrange children's red envelopes is a big knowledge, which requires parents to make certain plans according to a certain number.
First of all, to establish a small account for the child, store a certain amount of money, the child's pressure money is the tip of the child's heart, how many parents take a violent way to take it, let the child resent the parents for many years, parents can choose to establish a small account of family affection, to store the child pressure money, let the child know the amount of money, so that you can cultivate a certain sense of financial management.
Second, the amount of money is small, allowing the child to dispose of it himself. If the amount of money is not very large, parents can completely let the child dispose of it, let the child buy a certain desired item, and relax the child's body and mind.
In addition, with other items instead of red envelopes, parents can choose some commemorative items that their children have in mind as gifts for their children to meet a certain sense of ceremony.
Candy Mom has something to say:
It is a pleasant thing to give children money, and parents should learn the tricks of distribution and be wise parents.
【Today's topic】How much money have you given your children this year?