Approaching the Spring Festival, I believe that everyone is still very happy, after all, the children who work outside and the grandchildren who study have to go home and spend a reunion year with themselves. But I don't know if everyone has such a feeling, it should be a family joy, but there will always be contradictions in their own homes, even if they don't say it, they have some mustard in their hearts. Today we will talk about how to get along with your children during the Spring Festival, so that everyone can spend the New Year happier.
First, respect their habits
Young people's living habits are naturally different from ours, and we can't always force them with our own requirements. For example, in terms of work and rest, children always stay up late, and sleep late the next day, parents always want to say two sentences when they see such a situation, or in terms of diet, they like to eat spicy and heavy food, and they are accustomed to a light diet. Although we are for the sake of their health, but once or twice the advice and reminder is fine, if you always go to nagging endlessly, it will inevitably make them feel irritable, provoke everyone to feel uncomfortable, and the year is tasteless.
Second, don't always ask about your children's family affairs
It is the nature of every parent to care for their children, but sometimes and some things, do not interfere too much in their lives. If children are willing to share with themselves, we can appropriately express our views and provide them with some references, but if they are not willing to say it themselves, don't always ask. After all, children may just not want their parents to worry, or they have their own solutions, but also advise everyone to learn to let go, after all, children have grown up, with their own ability to deal with things, which can also help them grow.
Third, don't meddle too much in the education of your grandchildren
After not seeing the grandchildren for a long time, all the grandparents and grandparents must miss them very much, and it is not easy to come back in the New Year, and they definitely want to hug and kiss, and they want to give everything good to the grandchildren. But even so, do not intervene in the education of children, let alone spoil children, otherwise the short few days of holidays at home for the New Year have developed bad habits, and it will be difficult for children to correct after they return home. Moreover, if children are always prevented from educating their grandchildren, it will also damage the sense of authority of parents in the hearts of their children, which is very unfavorable to the future education of their grandchildren.
Fourth, a bowl of water should be flattened
For families with many children, parents must have a bowl of water to level. The Spring Festival children all returned home with their children and their other half, and the home was very lively and bustling. However, if you always favor one over the other, it is very easy to provoke contradictions between children, especially it will cause dissatisfaction among daughters-in-law and son-in-law, if the contradictions intensify, everyone will only disperse unhappily, let alone hope to have a good year.
Fifth, communicate diligently
Diligent communication is the key to solving many contradictions, but many people are not good at communication. But only by communicating and expressing their inner anxiety can we truly solve the problems encountered, and the two sides can negotiate together on this basis to avoid disputes and add an unpleasantness to their own Spring Festival.