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Some people say that in the world of emotions, the beginning of any relationship between men and women is inseparable from the process of "picking up a person" and "chasing a person", after all, to tell the truth, it is the first person to fall in love with this person, the heart is first loaded with this person, the first to be emotional about this person, if you are not brave, take the first step, do not take the initiative of this person, then how can the two of you intersect, how can there be a story?
However, in the end, men want to chase after the women they like, want to "pick up" to the women they like, and have to be a more challenging technical job, after all, women in today's society are often more intelligent, have their own ideas and requirements, far from the previous "arranged marriage" era, many female friends whether it is for marriage or love requirements are relatively high.
Male friends want to pry open the door of a woman's heart, want to enter each other's world, in addition to must bring sincerity, sincerity to her, but also need a little love skills, a little emotional means, otherwise it may be like a decaying wood with an elm brain shell, not only no mood at all, but also let people have no interest in in-depth understanding of communication, how can they do what they want to hug the beauty?
Moreover, every woman in our world is unparalleled, the personality is more unique, want to catch up with the woman they like, want to capture the woman's heart, want to let women also like themselves, but also want to make women's efforts have a return, which depends on the man's own ability.
Especially those women who are originally more difficult to chase, more difficult to "pick up", even if they warm each other for a long time, chase each other for a long time, pay more energy, women are still as cold and distant as the beginning of the acquaintance of two people, then you should understand yourself, no matter what, you can't chase each other.
But seriously, in real life, not every female friend is so difficult to pick, are so difficult to chase, some of the surface looks very cold and alienated, but it is very easy to pick up, can let men catch up, there may be some male friends for those who are relatively high and cold female friends, do not dare to chase each other, do not dare to "pry" each other, and for those female friends who are more enthusiastic, often with a bunch of male friends to mingle with a bunch of female friends, but disdain to chase each other, Just think of women as good brothers of their own.
Therefore, if you want to judge whether a female friend is good or not, whether it is good or not, it is actually very simple, to know whether a female friend is good or not, whether it is good or not, it is good to chase, may wish to say these 3 words to Ta "Will it be", look at the woman's reaction, you will have a number in mind!
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Will we talk?
Although in the process of interpersonal communication, this sentence such as "will we talk" or "talk about it" is a bit of an awkward opening statement, but it is very effective, and the effect is absolutely immediate. How to say it? If women are originally very cold and alienated in their own bones, and do not like men, are not interested in men, and have no interest in men.
Then women will definitely reply to men saying "Do I know you well?" Or simply refuse to say "there is no availability", or ask the man "Do I know you?" Refuse to gossip", women with a more indifferent personality will directly pretend not to see, even reply too lazy to reply, even the men are not willing to pay attention, and even the kind of women who treat men as "chatting", will take the man's words as "harassment" to themselves, directly pull men into their own blacklist, which is equivalent to directly declaring that men are not their own dishes.
On the contrary, those female friends who are originally better at chasing "pampering" and want to get off the single to talk about love in their hearts will definitely respond to men non-enthusiastically, no matter what kind of questions men ask women, and no matter what kind of topics men throw, women can continue, and will not let the chat between two people fall into embarrassment.
It can be seen from this that women are very fond of men, are also interested in men, and have more or less ideas about men in their hearts, but there is also a possibility that women just have more time, and then feel very bored and lonely, and then hope to chat with men, talk, as a way to relieve boredom, but it is undeniable that she is indeed a woman who is easier to talk to and chase.
Therefore, you male friends, want to know whether the personality of a female friend is really high and cold, or pretend to be cold, a female friend for themselves, is it easy to chase or not to chase, in fact, to women say these 3 words to know.
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What do you want?
In fact, there are some female friends that men feel are easier to chase and better to "pry", and once they hear that male friends have the idea of wanting to give themselves gifts or surprises, it is difficult to resist, especially the kind of very straightforward questioning themselves "What do you want?" When asked what gift a woman wants, the woman will be very happy and excited to say what gift she wants.
Some will even be like the name of the dish, very quickly list the things that they have been very eager or wanted in their hearts, but this thing may be a brand-name bag or clothes, the price is more expensive, the woman's own money is not enough or has been reluctant to buy, so she will want to try to harvest this thing through men.
However, don't forget, this time is only in the stage of the two of you just in contact or contact, the relationship between the two people is not a lover, not a lover relationship, women began to ask men for some more expensive brands or gifts and other things, may fall in the eyes of male friends, will feel that women's eating is relatively ugly, serious words will also make men feel a little cheap or disgusting, then men must suddenly lose the mood of wanting to give gifts or surprises to women, Maybe the impression of women will also be bad.
And a more difficult to chase a good woman, is absolutely not for no reason to accept the strange man's gifts or surprises, whenever a male friend sends a message to the woman "what do you want", ask the woman what gift she wants, most of the women will only reply "thank you for your kindness, no need", or "don't bother you to break the fee, I don't lack anything." ”
Because women know that the two of you are not in a relationship as intimate as a lover or a lover, what you want, whether it is clothes or bags, you can buy for yourself, you will buy for yourself, you don't need to ask for it from men, and if men buy something for themselves without following their consent, or give themselves any gifts, then women will definitely give back things or gifts of almost the same price to men in order to show agreement.
Therefore, you male friends, want to judge whether a female friend is easy to chase, or not easy to chase, two people can not be further developed, in fact, say these 3 words to women to know.
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I invite you
I have to say that most of the female friends who are easy to chase in real life are completely unable to resist the invitation or invitation of male friends, and once they hear that someone wants to invite themselves to dinner or watch a movie, they will not even think about it, and they will not hesitate to agree to each other's request and agree to each other's invitation. In fact, to put it bluntly, if you want to judge whether a female friend is good or not, whether it is good or not, it depends on whether women will be easily moved by male friends' invitations or invitations.
To know that a better "flirting", easier to catch up with female friends, generally will not refuse the male friend's invitation or invitation, especially when the male friend to the woman said "I invite you", the woman will be very happy, will also be moved, but also will agree to the male friend's invitation, willing to agree to eat with male friends or watch movies.
Friend Zhang Brother once complained to me about a girl xiao lime he knew, because he looked a little bit posture, he liked to fight for his own girl's identity, taking advantage of friends of the opposite sex around him, as long as he heard that it was the other party's dinner, as long as he did not have to pay for it himself, then the girl would not hesitate to agree, even if the two of them had eaten together so many times, they had never seen Xiao Lime pay money once, bought a single, and really a little skinless and faceless.
And Brother Zhang also said that in the eyes of male friends, female friends like Xiao Lime are proper even if they are easy to chase and pry, but many men may know in their hearts that they do not care to chase ta at all, because men will feel in their hearts that it is really too inferior to fall in love with such a woman.
After all, those female friends who are not easy to chase, not easy to flirt with, as long as the other party is not their favorite person, then even if the woman receives the other party's invitation, she will find a more appropriate and reasonable reason to politely shirk the other party, if the other party is a customer who has work contacts, or the other party is too generous and difficult, then the woman will also understand the AA system or the next time directly invite each other, absolutely will not leave some handles on the money that can catch the wind and catch the shadow.
Usually like these more difficult women are often very good at refusing male friends' invitations or invitations, no matter how the other party seduces themselves, no matter how expensive the male friends say to invite themselves to go to the expensive five-star hotel, how luxurious and generous the meal, the heart of the female friend is completely unmoved, anyway, she will not casually agree to the man's invitation, has her own principles.
I remember that Liu Yuning once sang "You Say Love" has such a lyric: "Slowly get along, slowly together, slowly walk together, like is not something that can be started and ended casually." ”
In short, in the process of intersex exchanges, there may be some male friends in the face of some more difficult "pick", some more difficult to chase the girl, will be very direct and decisive to choose to give up each other, and some male friends, often the more difficult to meet some bad chase, the more bad "pry" female friends, the more they want to catch hands, the more they want to capture each other's hearts.
But to put it bluntly, each of us in the face of love, or to know how to do what we can, after all, in the end the feelings are mutual, strong twisted melon will never be sweet, only between men and women are happy with each other, the love of love is the happiest and sweetest, but also can go to the end, look around!
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