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How can people live happily in this life and live up to themselves?
Each of us is looking for this answer, and some people feel that as long as they make enough money, they can live the life they want, of course, I admit that having money can be more loyal to their hearts to a certain extent, and they can act according to their own preferences and will not be constrained.
But in fact, a person wants to live freely is not completely linked to money, after all, not everyone can live a rich and noble life, most of us are ordinary people, and we can only find ordinary happiness in a simple life.
In the ordinary life, some people can live a bright life, while some people let themselves fall into a state of depression, living more and more twisted, and do not feel the beauty of life.
Life is their own life, life is their own management, some people their own life management colorful, even if life will be some difficulties and setbacks, can still make their lives revitalized, all the way uphill, and some people live their own lives more and more tragically.
For many girls, they tend to be very emotional, pay attention to feelings, and do not have a lot of ambition in their hearts, putting the focus of life on love and on their lovers. They often forget themselves because they care too much about men.
Feel that men are running around, physically need to make up for it, feel that men are the facade of a family, dress needs to be very careful, need to be able to support the façade of the clothes, and when it is their turn, they can always save and save, and they can make it up.
If you meet a good person who will miss you, all your efforts will be remembered by him, and he will be doubly good to you, but in fact most women can't wait for such treatment. In the end, all the efforts are taken for granted by others.
When women take love as all, forget themselves and love others with a dead heart, they will live more and more depressed, not only will they not get the kindness of others to you, but in the end, they will all be inching forward.
If a girl wants to live smoothly, the most important thing is to do one thing: know how to please herself.
Pleasing yourself externally can make your mood brighter and make yourself live younger and younger
The joy of life is to be found by oneself, not from the sky.
In fact, life is very good, but we ignore it a lot of times. Many times we are always caught up in our own gloomy emotions, can not find the joy of life, always feel that life is boring, the days are plain as water, the whole person is dead, there is no trace of vitality.
What kind of attitude do you use to treat life, how life will give back to you, when you burst with positive energy every day, with a positive and optimistic attitude to invest in life, then life will return to you will be a bright sunshine. On the contrary, if you are resentful and self-pitying every day, then the world you see will also be gloomy and lifeless.
Happiness is very simple, happiness is also very simple, it does not need much money as a cushion, and it is not so grand and far away at all, it exists in our daily lives, in every move every day.
Women's mood is often linked to their own appearance, if you are clear every day, wearing old clothes from many years ago, wearing the same style, hairstyle never change, body shape, loose skin, you are not willing to look in the mirror, then your state will naturally be very poor.
A woman's happiness is very simple, as long as you buy a new dress, change a new hairstyle, the mood will become clear, the whole person is in excellent condition, and the look will become younger. Learn to please yourself on the outside and you will live comfortably.
Obey yourself in your heart, how to live happily, and do not have to be too accommodating to others
Many times the reason why we live a very screwed life is that we always think too much about the feelings of others and ignore ourselves.
You are always too concerned about other people's eyes and ideas about you, afraid that you will say the wrong sentence, do something wrong, and make others unhappy, always live in other people's evaluation system, and eventually let yourself become more and more depressed.
Most women live very selflessly, they will take their lovers, the family very seriously, thus ignoring themselves, living themselves into a background board, once married to become so-and-so's wife, so-and-so mother, and completely without self.
They will be willing to give their all for the family, often forget themselves, because they care too much about their lovers, and completely ignore their own feelings, completely put themselves in the family's chai rice oil and salt, run for the family all day, work hard for the children, be too accommodating to others, and finally let themselves become more and more depressed.
A person who does not know how to obey his inner feelings is difficult to live out his true self, and he does not have to be too selfless, occasionally selfish, think more about himself, and let himself live happily.
Know how to be submissive to yourself in your heart, learn to love yourself, and then love others, and don't make a mistake.
Be true to your heart and live the way you like
In fact, our life is already rare enough, we want a lot of things, but often hindered, so that we can not have fun to live, there are too many scruples in the heart, resulting in their own ideas can not be exerted, there are too many plump ideals, but the reality is always bone.
I used to fantasize about being able to change the world, and finally I began to be confined to the barren life in front of me, becoming more and more worldly and more realistic.
Although many things cannot develop in the direction we want, although people have too much helplessness in life, within their own ability, they can live in the way they like, and they can also do it.
Don't be able to reach what you can't reach, pay a salary to buy an affordable bag, travel once a year, buy a pair of shoes you like, buy a bouquet of flowers to add some color to the family, apply for a yoga class, go to a picnic with three or two friends, and occasionally put down the family chores and go out shopping, these are all things that can be done.
Don't always focus on other people's lives and become jealous, but focus on your own life, compare yourself, and please yourself within your ability, which is the best way to live.
If a person's life wants to go smoothly, he must first put his own mentality smoothly, and only when his heart is smooth, will his life be better and better.
And if you want to have a smooth mentality, you need to please yourself at the same time from the outside and the inside, have a good looking appearance, you can make your mood better, and the whole person looks younger.
Don't let yourself live to be stubborn and screwed, be loyal to your heart in everything, don't care too much about others and forget yourself, take the self as the premise, live well, let yourself live happily, and the days will go smoothly.