Four years ago, in the summer, 29-year-old Li Xueke decided to fulfill her wish to be a mother before the age of 30.
At that time, she experienced several periods of emotions that ended in a hurry, and found it difficult to devote herself to her feelings, and she did not want to get married in order to have children, and gradually had the idea of having children.
In the autumn of 2018, after visiting Thailand for three months, Li Xueke selected a medical institution for IVF through an intermediary. Immediately after, she injected ovulation, retrieved eggs, selected a British sperm, implanted three embryos at once, and successfully implanted them all. After that, in order to save the fetus, she gave more than 140 injections of progesterone.
After the birth of the child, for a period of time, Li Xueke fell into postpartum depression. She felt like a feeding machine, and every day, three children cried in a mess and scrambled to climb on top of her to feed. Sometimes, she had just hugged her little daughter, and the two brothers were angry again, crying uncontrollably. In addition, seeing the scars left by the broken abdomen also made her feel anxious and panicked. Li Xueke said that in order to remove the scar, she had gone to the treatment five times, and each time she had more than a dozen injections, penetrating the entire scar, but the effect was not obvious.
Later, she slowly accepted all this, including taking care of her three young children, both as a mother and a father.
The cost of 3 children is nearly 100,000 a month, of which the cost of 3 aunts is 20,000, and next, Li Xueke plans to send the children to a private kindergarten in Hangzhou, spending more than 1 million yuan a year. She believes that she can support the family, "If I can't make money in the future, it should not be a problem to rely on my existing assets to support them until they reach adulthood, so I have the courage to have three children." 」 ”
She believes that as long as you give your child enough love and material security to make them feel safe enough, you can give your child a complete home.