In the recent period, everyone should have been brushed by Sun Haiyang's family search incident and the 15-year-old boy Liu Xuezhou's family search incident. However, not all endings are good, and not all children are so lucky.
One is that the parents desperately want to find the child, and the other is the child who desperately wants to find the parents, and the result of the exchange is also completely different.
On January 24, an unfortunate news came out that Liu Xuezhou, a 15-year-old boy, had sadly passed away after posting his last suicide note on social platforms.
After hearing this news, countless netizens were very shocked, followed by heartache, regret, some heartache children suffered, and some regretted that such a beautiful year quietly passed.
And why would 15-year-old Liu Xuezhou think so much and choose to end his life? Perhaps starting from his life, the cause of the whole incident may be caused by the irresponsibility of his parents.
In the past 15 years, Liu Xuezhou can be said to have been living in darkness, so he will be crushed by life, so he chose such a path.
It is understood that his and Sun Zhuo's encounters are still very different, Sun Zhuo was abducted by human traffickers, but he was sold by his own parents, and his father bought him for money because he wanted to take the bride price.
When he was 4 years old, his adoptive parents also left him due to accidents, so he had to live with his grandparents until he found his own parents.
But even after finding his biological parents, his fate still did not improve, but he was abandoned by his parents again, and his biological parents had divorced and formed a new family, and neither side particularly welcomed his arrival.
His father only gave him a few thousand dollars as compensation, and his mother blocked him and stopped contacting him, which may have become the last straw that crushed him.
Not only that, his 15 years of miserable life, as well as all kinds of bullying, and when he was in middle school, he also encountered "perverted" male teachers and insults, which caused a lot of trauma to his soul.
Later, when he was looking for relatives, he was violently abused by the Internet, and was constantly misinterpreted and insulted, not to mention that he was just a 15-year-old child, and it is estimated that even an adult could not bear these pains.
But even if life is so hard, he is still studying hard, trying to live, although the results are not particularly good, but also work hard to study in secondary school, choose the preschool teacher industry.
If everything is successful, maybe he will also engage in this industry in the future and become a good teacher who cares about students and is sunny, but now everything is impossible.
In this way, the gap between him and Sun Zhuo is really clear at a glance, a parent wants to find a child with his life, and provide the best educational environment and conditions for the child, and give him the maximum time to adapt.
But the other has suffered so much that if the parents can shoulder their responsibilities, he may not end up on this path.
The best education for children is really the responsibility of parents
There is a saying on the Internet that is particularly good: "Being born without raising is the greatest evil of parenthood." "We may understand that the family conditions are not good, but this is not a reason not to raise children."
And parents are the only dependent on children, if you don't want to educate them well, don't want them to become adults, then why did you have to give birth in the first place?
Whether a student can have good grades in the future and whether he can have a big career is actually very much related to family conditions and the education level of his parents, mainly depending on whether his parents have a sense of responsibility.
If parents have a sense of responsibility, know what is best for students, know how to supervise students' learning at all times, and create better educational conditions and environment for them, how can the children they cultivate not be excellent?
Just like Sun Haiyang and his wife, they obviously have a better choice, which can let Sun Zhuo go to a better school. But out of responsibility, out of the protection of their children, they chose a fully enclosed high school.
This is the parents are thinking about the future of their children, but also in order to make Sun Zhuo better integrate into the original family and make efforts, but unfortunately, Liu Xuezhou did not enjoy this treatment, let alone enjoy a little parental affection.
Officially, because of the irresponsibility of parents, the future direction of students has completely changed, and only then has today's tragedy occurred, and such a result is not like anyone can see.
Therefore, if parents are really for the good of students and want students to become better people in the future, they should not ignore them, take out your sense of responsibility, and educate their children well, so that their children will be more developed in the future.
The responsibility that parents should bear is something we can never escape, especially in the education of students, only in this way can we better educate and cultivate excellent next generations.
Although I feel sorry for Liu Xuezhou's affairs, everything is too late, and I hope that other parents can pay attention to the education of their children, shoulder their own responsibilities, and do not have such things happen again.
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