Network cultivation: not willing to have a heart of fate, how to attract excellent people to your side!

Throughout the ages, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, all those who have achieved great things will inevitably gather a large number of outstanding talents around them and gather the wisdom of the people for their own use, only in this way can they achieve great causes. There are more excellent talents around you than your opponents, and the quality is higher than your opponents, so that you can become the winner who laughs to the end.

Since ancient times, there has been such a saying that "those who win the hearts of the people will win the world", and many people think that they are all people's hearts anyway, and any kind of people's hearts can do it, which is not entirely correct.

First of all, we must first find out what kind of person is the "person" mentioned here. The "people" in this sentence are not just anyone, and the "people" here refer to the small number of people who have insight, culture, means, strategies, or special talents in a certain aspect, which is what we often call - talents, ordinary people are not included. This is not discrimination, it is just a fact, and if you can't even admit it, it only means that you don't deserve to be strong!

What kind of talent is going to attract next?

First of all, it must be helpful to you, and secondly, this person's ability in a certain aspect should be outstanding, even stronger than you. People with ideals, ambitions, and positive energy are the goals you are looking for.

But why should people play with you when they are so good? So you have to have the capital to let others have to play with you.

First, have courage, thick skin, dare to take risks when the key is critical, and do not hesitate to do anything.

The choice of key times is very important, and the correct choice at a critical moment is often the winner who determines the final success or failure. The first time Liu Bang saw his father-in-law, although he was penniless, he dared to write "He Wanqian" on the gift list, and the degree of this stinky face was also no one. Therefore, It was also valued by Lü Gong, Liu Bang bai had a wife, and the Lü family also gave Liu Bang great support in the later stage of career development.

Liu Bang escorted the Lishan disciples, escaped a lot halfway, and simply let everyone go, so he harvested the first small team of more than ten people.

The people of Peixian wanted to create a rebellion against the Qin Dynasty, but everyone was afraid that if they failed, the whole family would have to die, and no one wanted to be the head bird, so Liu Bang stood up at this time and said, "I come." This is the responsibility, and the risk and return are proportional.

Second, do more acts of benevolence and righteousness, and be generous in life, in order to win the hearts of the people, in order to be long-lasting.

King Huai and the generals agreed to "enter the king first in the pass". Fa Qin divided into two roads, one way to the north to save Zhao Guo, and then entered the customs. However, the north gathered a large number of troops of the Qin Dynasty, this road is not easy to walk, everyone thinks that Xiang Yu is a "fierce thief" and does not want him to enter the customs first, so they send him to take the north road. There is also a way to the west, directly to Guanzhong, the road is close and there are few enemy soldiers, there is a greater possibility to enter Guanzhong first. Everyone thought that Liu Bang was a "sukuan elder" and hoped that he could become the king of Guanzhong, so they let him lead the way to the west.

This is the benefit of doing benevolence and winning the hearts and minds of the people.

Third, can endure ordinary people can not tolerate, can stretch and bend.

Xiang Yu became the overlord by virtue of his military strength, divided the princes, jealous of Liu Bang's first entry into Guanzhong, deliberately rectified him, and drove Liu Bang to the bird's horns and horns - the land of Bashu, and Liu Bang took people to take office.

After Han Xin captured Qidi, he took the opportunity to blackmail Liu Bang into wanting to be a "fake King of Qi", liu Bang scolded him for being stingy, and his backhand let people give him a true Qi king with a seal letter.

Xiang Yu threatened Liu Bang that if you didn't surrender, I would cook your father, and Liu Bang smiled and said: If you want to cook our father, you have to leave me a bowl of soup, and let me taste something!

Xiang Yu shot an arrow into Liu Bang's chest, and he broke the shaft of the arrow in pain, blocked the bleeding wound with his cloak, and said to Xiang Yu in a teasing tone: Your arrow shot quite accurately, and hit my foot and finger!

Endure what ordinary people can't tolerate, give up what ordinary people can't give up, and become a deed that ordinary people can't do!

Fourth, be able to employ people, listen to advice, have a clear understanding of yourself, and always keep a clear mind.

When entering Bashu, he used Zhang Liang's strategy to cut off the way back, when he left Bashu, he used Han Xin as a great general, the diplomatic princes used Li to eat him, used Chen Ping's strategy to alienate Fan Zeng and Xiang Yu, and listened to the advice of Fan Duo and Zhang Liang to seal the treasures of the Qin Palace and the treasury to accumulate the hearts of the people.

Liu Bang once said openly: "In the midst of strategizing, I am not as good as Zhang Liang when it is thousands of miles away; I am not as good as Zhang Liang; I am not as good as Han Xin when I am a town and a country, care for the people, give them food, and do not stop grain; even an army of millions will win a battle and attack will win, and I am not as good as Han Xin." These three are all masters, I can use them, so I take the world."

Listen to people to eat a full meal, don't insist on doing everything, and learn to use other people's heads for yourself. Always maintain a clear self-awareness, you can make objective and correct judgments.

Fifth, tenacity.

When Chu and Han fought, Liu Bang had been in a weak position, and was beaten by Xiang Yu, and he rubbed it on the ground. No face is no face, but surrender to Lao Tzu will not do it, let alone do that kind of stupid thing of suicide. No matter how many difficulties he had, Lao Tzu would live well and be happy. Finally, under the planning of a bunch of highly intelligent heads, he turned the situation around and achieved the great cause of the emperor.

Isn't it to live to solve a problem? Not accepting defeat, not being afraid of losing, is the true meaning of hard work!

Sixth, the distribution of benefits is fair.

What are people following you in circles for? Not yet for profit. Don't talk about emotions, nobility, sentiment and other, everyone is an adult, don't be so childish okay? After Liu Bang claimed the title of emperor, he was rewarded according to merit, and all the generals and courtiers were satisfied. Compared with Xiang Yu, who only sealed his beloved ones, seized people's benefits, and finally rebelled against his relatives, I don't know how many times higher.

For the world's nature of pursuing fame and profit, interests are the most precious noble virtues. Insight into the world's hearts and minds, but also to grasp the hearts of the people, to the interest-oriented, let all the smart brains for my use!