When the break continues, it will be disturbed.
On the journey of life, don't let "hesitation" hold you back.
Let's go now, it's still too late.
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In the face of major choices, hesitation kills people.
Different choices create different lives.
At the threshold of each choice, decisive wisdom and courage are required, and once cognition is limited, or there are distractions in the mind, it will often bring devastating disasters.
Qianbu was a famous general in the late Qin and early Han dynasties, and in the process of rebelling against the Qin Dynasty, he repeatedly established military achievements and became Xiang Yu's right-hand man.
When Xiang Yu and Liu Bei engaged in the "Chu-Han War", Qianbu wavered, and finally surrendered under the persuasion of Liu Bang's envoys, and had to turn his back on Chu and surrender to Han. As a result, Xiang Yu lost his most important support and was quickly defeated.
After the establishment of the Han Dynasty, Qianbu was still forced to rebel and was eventually killed by Liu Bang.
Throughout Qianbu's life, he has always been constantly "rebelling", whether it is active choice or passive acceptance, which is inseparable from his hesitant personality.
He always wanted to lean on "a big tree", but he never thought that it was this distrust of himself that led to the tragic end of the dead.
Working hard in the workplace, there is no shortage of people like Qianbu. Once they found that their superiors were about to be replaced by others, no matter how much they admired and were loyal to him, they began to be anxious.
Once the disdain for the former leader is revealed, and the new leader is tried to please, a person's pattern and character will be exposed, even if the talent is outstanding, it will not be truly appreciated and valued.
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In the face of health risks, hesitation will miss the opportunity to "save lives".
When we were children, we all learned an idiom "avoiding illness and avoiding medicine", which tells the story of Cai Huangong's illness and avoiding medicine in the Spring and Autumn Period, and finally dying.
Cai Huangong did not fall ill in one day, his illness experienced the development process of "in the heart", "in the skin", "in the stomach", "in the bone marrow", and the disease was superficial
In the face of the famous doctor Bian Que repeatedly reminded him that Cai Huangong refused Bian Que's reminder to be thousands of miles away with "no disease in the widow", and also labeled Bian Que as "a good cure for the doctor and not a good disease", it can be said that it was not the disease that killed him, but the arrogant attitude and hesitant choice that killed him.
In the journey of aging, the emergence of health risks is never negotiable, but there will be many precursors to remind people to protect themselves.
However, many people, like Cai Huangong, turn a blind eye to this and do not hear it.
In addition to the luck, more people are hesitating: this little problem, do not get in the way; this small problem, take some medicine on the line; to spend so much money, it is not worth making a fuss.
As a result, small diseases have become major diseases, and major diseases have developed into incurable diseases.
Truly intelligent people, always take precautions, spend the least amount of money, cure the mildest symptoms, is the most cost-effective expenditure, but also the most effective protection of life.
03
In the face of heartwarming love, hesitation will lose love.
There is a classic line in the movie "Journey to the West": "If Heaven can give me a chance to do it again, I will say three words to the girl: I love you." If I had to add a deadline to this love, I would have liked it to be ten thousand years."
Supreme Treasure is deeply in love with the Zixia Fairy, but his hesitation has buried this beautiful love.
This is how many people who love and can't help it, repent and sigh from the heart.
In this life, the person you love and love you deeply is the miracle of love. More people are just making things up, just about to go through the four seasons of life.
After losing, I found that I was always looking for the shadow of my beloved, and one day, people would also find that there was no one to replace my beloved.
But by then, the beauty was already twilight, and she herself had already changed her face.
Therefore, when facing the heartwarming love, it is better to be together without hesitation.
Just like the story of the "love ladder" that has touched countless people.
In the 1950s, Liu Guojiang, a 20-year-old villager in Gaotan Village, Zhongshan Ancient Town, Jiangjin, Chongqing, fell in love with Xu Chaoqing, a widow who was 10 years older than him.
In order to escape the rumors of the world, they eloped hand in hand to the deep mountain forest at an altitude of 1500 meters, self-reliant, and raised 7 children with wild vegetables and hands.
In order to make Xu Chaoqing travel safely, Liu Guojiang has been busy chiseling stone ladders on cliffs and cliffs to lead to the outside world all his life, and for decades, more than 6,000 stone ladders have been chiseled.
When countless couples walk into the ladder of love, they undoubtedly ask their hearts again and again: "Is the person I love the person I have devoted my life to protecting?" Is the person I entrusted an unchangeable dependence in this life? ”
Perhaps, the answer is self-evident in every detail. Those who love, even if they are against the whole world, must embrace each other tightly and love each other deeply. People who don't love, but if there is a slight hesitation, they will surely scatter in the crowd...
04
Conclusion:
In the movie "No Questions Asked", there is such a line: "If you understand the life you are going to face in advance, I don't know if you will still have the courage to come." ”
Yes, in the life that cannot be restarted, there are too many temptations, traps and opportunities, at the crossroads of choice, where to go, in order not to waste this life, no regrets.
Perhaps, as a netizen named "Carrot" said:
If you have not been able to experience a love that does not seek results in your life;
If you have not been able to hit your head and bleed once in your life for the sake of ideals;
If you have never been attached to something or someone in your life;
If you have not been able to live your truest self in your life.
How dare we say that we have lived this life well, and how dare we say that we have no regrets in this life?
A lifetime is too short, maybe this is the moment.
Please don't be perfunctory, love what you love, do what you do, obey your own heart, and ask no questions.
Therefore, in the journey of life, don't hesitate any longer, just follow your heart, brave to break through, and bravely move forward.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
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