The question of the pension of the Dink family has always been a hot topic, and someone once asked on the Internet: China's first Dink families have reached the end of their lives, how are they living, and do they regret not having children in the first place?
Most of the thousands of responses below are the same as "Never regretted it." ”
Of course, there are also old people who choose Dink who are not satisfied with the status quo, for example, after retirement, the husband and wife can only rely on pensions to survive, and once someone is sick and hospitalized, the days will seem a little tight.
Therefore, some old people sighed that if the two have children, at least they can help them share some pressure, but now, this is only if, because time cannot be turned back.
Regarding Dink, some people regret it, and some people regret it, so the first Dink people have entered the pension stage, and now they regret it? Let's hear their voices.
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Aunt Qin is 69 years old this year, and usually there are friends or neighbors who ask her and her husband whether they will regret choosing Dink, and will they feel too lonely in their old age?
Aunt Qin and her husband also told neighbors and friends about some of their feelings over the years, and they said that sometimes when they do see the happy scenes of three generations in other people's homes and their children and grandchildren on their knees, they will feel a little empty in their hearts.
They never felt this way when they were young, but now it is getting stronger and stronger, but this mood is only temporary, because their husband and wife can fill these losses in other ways.
For example, painting and writing, singing and dancing, traveling, etc., without the involvement of children, their lives have been rich and colorful for so many years.
Therefore, Aunt Qin summed up her feelings of choosing Dink, that is, there are good and bad, good and bad mergers, and the good feeling is that the husband and wife can live more freely and add more fun to their lives. The bad feeling is that sometimes I feel envious and lost because of the scene where other people's children and grandchildren are full.
But this is not a big deal, life can not be perfect, so Aunt Qin and her husband do not regret their original choice. As long as the couple loves and is happy, there will be no regrets in this life.
Even if they need to be taken care of when they are old, they will go to the nursing home because their husband and wife have already saved up the cost of the future pension.
In fact, Aunt Qin is right, although they have no children, but in their old age, they can make full use of their pensions, choose a pension institution with better conditions and environment for themselves to spend their old age, and do not have to worry about their children's affairs when they are old.
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Uncle Zhao is 60 years old this year, and he and his wife chose Dink because they did not want to repeat the life of the older generation who circled around the children every day.
Because the two have common ambitions and want to have a more free life, they decided when they got married that they would not have children in this life.
However, it was a very controversial thing to want to be Dink in that era, because he and his wife did not want children, and the parents of both sides quarreled with them for many years and almost broke off relations with them.
Even so, Uncle Zhao and his wife still firmly chose to be a Dink.
In those years, when there were no children, Uncle Zhao and his wife really lived a very dashing life, they traveled to many places, saw the beauty of home and abroad, and lived a full and beautiful life, and they were free.
At that time, they never regretted their choice.
But three years ago, Uncle Zhao's wife died unexpectedly, he became a lonely person, he was very disappointed, but he told himself that he could not go on so sad, so later he raised a puppy to accompany himself, and now there are puppies to accompany him every day, he does not feel lonely.
Regarding the elderly, Uncle Zhao said that he and his wife had contacted one of the best local nursing homes a few years ago, and he was now exercising every day and his physique was also very good, so he did not worry about his later life at all.
Uncle Zhao's words let us have a further understanding of the Dink family, perhaps in the eyes of outsiders, the Dink people have no children and no daughters, and their pension does not have a certain guarantee, but in fact, it is not.
When they choose Dink, they also have long been prepared for their old age, buying insurance, doing financial management, storing pension funds, etc., these guarantees they will think of and take care of in advance.
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In fact, the idea of whether the Dink family regrets it is nothing more than the problem of old-age care.
However, whether it is a family that chooses Dink or chooses to have children, there is not necessarily much difference in the elderly.
Nowadays, we are very clearly aware that raising children may not be able to prevent old age, many elderly people with children in life, in their old age, may not be able to get good support and care, some children are still in order to compete for family property to make a miasma in the family, and finally the elderly have no one to take care of, or were sent to a nursing home.
Therefore, no matter what choices you make after marriage, you must think more about your future life and prepare in advance, so that such a decision is mature and secure.
In short, Dink families without children must save more money and plan for their later life in advance in order to have a high-quality old age.