Meet the seven-year itch

It all started yesterday morning.

Our family is a banker, the workload of 10 hours a day is standard, and now at the golden age of 30, not only does not have the passion of 24 years old to join the work, nor the idea of jumping out of the fish pond, every day is very tired but also comfortable.

Every day the good men who love their daughters-in-law are people who get up early to fight for the quality of sleep for their wives, get up at 6 o'clock in the morning and squeeze toothpaste to sort out their work clothes, the water cup is in place And the sense of happiness explodes, this set down the old horse can sleep for 40 minutes more, because she works for dinner, so we do not delay her to open the morning meeting breakfast link, the result was yesterday because the old horse did not hear me call her to sleep for 19 minutes more than 19 minutes to get up and the temper is unable to adapt, and the different women are a word "cow". In fact, what I say on my lips can actually be used as a hip-hop to pass, but the expression on my face makes me very uncomfortable, and it seems to be covered up with a hint of boredom but also covered up by the chattering mouth.

I have always had that expression in my heart for the past two days, to be honest, I have a feeling of feeling like thin paper, is this the precursor to the arrival of the seven-year itch in the people around me? Count the time. I went, this year is not the seventh year, I feel that the time is really fast when I checked the Internet to find out what is called the seven-year itch.

so-called. The seven-year itch is a marriage phenomenon, which means to get married through love, and when the marriage enters the seventh year, with the familiarity of both husband and wife, romance and dashing gradually disappear with the pressure of life, that is, the first dangerous period for marriage.

These indicators are basically satisfied, do I have to step into the greasy uncle team, looking in the mirror we are also small fresh meat tail is also a small fresh meat. but. At this moment I suddenly smiled, I made a phone call to the old horse, although the other party has been busy and has no time to ignore me, but I still forced her to promise to go to pick her up at night, here is an explanation of the child's holiday, the old horse does not let me pick up her every day to let me accompany the child.

On the way home I joked with her about the morning, and both of them laughed, whether or not some key point in my marriage really came, I love you as always. As a result, this goods is nothing romantic.

I have a lot of feelings about marriage, I am used to seeing my parents quarrel when I was young, the marriage struggles of various brothers and sisters of the same generation in the family when I grew up, and the various talks of friends after I became a family. I'm tired of listening, maybe men have become less inclusive, maybe women have become dissatisfied? No matter what it is, I firmly believe that the old horse who was with me had his own independent thinking, which is also the fundamental reason why we have not had a big debate in our marriage in recent years and have not been entangled in the historical problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

My heart will never forget a word, do not forget the original heart, to always have. Think about the original pair of young people, the eyes are each other's good, many people say that after marriage to find each other's shortcomings, but did you really love each other before marriage? Have you ever gotten to know each other? Don't dump everything on the back of marriage just because of hormonal stimulation, and I will always remember what the old horse did for me at that time, when she married me without hesitation, her chip was the second half of her life, and my obligation was to love her enough in the second half of my life.

Maybe the marriage arena has just opened, all the previous experiences are just pre-game warm-ups, and winning requires greater tolerance and cooperation.