Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
In the world, the luckiest thing is that the person you like, who just likes you, will agree to your confession and take this relationship seriously.
When you meet the opposite sex, your heart is beating wildly, you have the idea of pursuing, you try to make more contact, and you are sure that you are really moved, not a momentary good feeling, not just playing.
On the right occasion, say the words hidden in the bottom of your heart, and try to ask the other party if they are willing to be together, can the two people officially start and upgrade to a couple.
The most thought of result, of course, is to develop downwards, with that layer of "unusual" relationship, the future road is accompanied by each other, no longer a person to step forward.
To tell the truth, everyone wants to love only one person in this life, and also wants to be deeply loved by each other forever, and the two people always warm each other, take care of each other, and achieve achievements together.
When you are single and want to have a relationship and really stabilize, you will take the initiative to find the person who is the most matched, the most reliable, and the most trustworthy with you.
With this kind of intention and action, it is not easy to miss the right person, it is likely to have true love, and every day can be very happy and sweet.
If you like each other and take the initiative to get closer, the two hearts will be naturally connected together, do not regard each other as outsiders at all, and have long been accustomed to the life of having each other.
Although there is no definite relationship, no coming together, no special status, what is done and what is said is like a boyfriend and girlfriend.
Getting along like a couple is to cross the line, sooner or later will break through that layer of window paper, and truly become the most special and irreplaceable person in each other's lives.
The opposite sex gets along, once there is these "exchanges", it is emotional for each other, and there will be more intersection in the future.
01 Talk about feelings and express your love
In life, you may find such a problem: not everyone will mention feelings with you, not everyone is willing to talk to you about this aspect.
Most people are like that and will only talk to you about everyday life and things they encounter at work.
People like this will not bring you subtle feelings, and will always make you feel that you are just ordinary friends, and there is no possibility of becoming a couple at all.
Like, there will be hints.
To put it bluntly, he can't make you feel that he has no feelings for you. In the same way, if you have deep feelings for him, then you can't not express them.
When two people chat, they will talk about feelings, how much they like each other, how much they want to come together, and it is clear that they like each other and do not want to miss it.
02 Cross the red line and keep getting close to each other
Innocence is crucial for everyone, and no one can easily lose their innocence.
That is to say, a person who does not like you will not take the initiative to get close to you, nor will he give you the opportunity to get close to him, and both people will always have a certain distance.
Love has never been a one-person thing, if you want to start a relationship, you have to like each other, have the idea of falling in love, and are willing to stay by each other's side.
When the opposite sex gets along, allowing each other to cross the line, it can also be seen that the other party is willing to cross the line and want to get closer and closer to you, and one thing that can be determined is that there is a strong liking for each other.
The same idea, the same direction, unwilling to continue to be ordinary friends, will slowly enter each other's hearts, life, become each other's only.
In this world, the relationship between who and whom is very delicate, who will become who person, can be seen roughly.
Frequent contact, no adherence to principles, eighty percent of the like to the extreme, will find an opportunity to say that they are sincere, is very responsible.
03 Sharing secrets is completely transparent
Are you willing to tell someone the secret?
This question has multiple answers, the relationship is general, it is impossible to say, the relationship is very special, it will take the initiative to share all the secrets.
Being an outsider, not wanting to be deeply understood, so not saying those things about yourself; being yourself, thinking that there should be nothing to hide, so you will confess.
Whether you really like someone or don't have any feelings for them, you can look at that.
In the same way, who likes you the most, wants to be by your side the most, and wants to have a good ending with you, you can see it clearly through this.
When you find that you are all willing to share secrets with each other, and you are not willing to hide them, it can show that you have feelings for each other and will become more and more inseparable.
summary:
Two people are just ordinary friends, and often get along like this: occasional contact, always a distance.
Don't like each other, won't show so much enthusiasm, won't get so close, and won't make the other person feel that two people are likely to develop downwards.
But if you like each other, both want to be each other's love, and be with each other every day in the future, it will give hints and appropriately cross the line.
Likes or dislikes, it can really be seen at a glance.
If you can be sure that two people like each other, if you want to determine a relationship, you must find a suitable occasion to explain.
In this way, you can let the other party understand and come together.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.