Knowing from my aunt that my cousin was divorced again, I was surprised and speechless.
My cousin is 27 years old and this is the third time she has divorced!
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I remember two years ago, when she had just married her third husband, she was happy in the circle of friends to show the full set of game equipment that her new husband bought for her.
She likes to play games, used to be a game anchor, and her third husband knew about it, so he configured a good computer for her to play games.
At that time, she did not go to work, made money by live streaming games at home, and could earn thousands of dollars a month.
She told me that she had divorced twice and finally found the right person.
It was only a little more than two years ago, she actually divorced, is the man's kindness to her all fake, and now finally revealed the fox tail?
I approached my cousin and vaguely raised my question.
Cousin said that her former husband was good at everything, that is, the suspicion was too serious, always suspected that she had someone outside, and the two people quarreled several times because of this matter, and they really couldn't go on.
I advised her that this is all small things, as long as it is explained clearly, you are only 27 years old, you have been divorced twice, and you will divorce three times. How do you let outsiders see you, after three marriages and then want to find, it will be more difficult.
The cousin didn't care: "Who said it was difficult to find three marriages?" I met a man whose heart was all about me, and I married him when I got divorced. ”
Less than a month after my cousin said this, she posted a marriage certificate in the circle of friends!
She's married again, 4 married!
I suddenly felt that her ex-husband's "suspicious heart disease" might not be a disease.
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My cousin was 21 when she first got married, and her husband was known when she was working outside, and when she returned home, she pestered her uncle and aunt, and did not marry the other party.
The other party is a young man in his early 20s, who looks like a table of talents, can speak the Tao, and swears in front of his uncle and aunt that he will be good to his cousin for a lifetime.
Hindered by the cousin's posture of not marrying, in the end, the uncle and aunt could only agree to the marriage.
No house and no car, only 6,000 yuan dowry, almost naked marriage, after marriage cousin with her husband to work in the city.
After the cousin got pregnant and gave birth to a child, she returned to her in-laws' house, her husband worked alone outside, and the cousin who did not have a job immediately had no income, and the daily expenses were all to find the mother-in-law to apply, because the money earned by the husband's part-time work was all sent to the mother-in-law.
The cousin who has no money has no status in the family, and she has to watch the children, do housework, and look at the face of the mother-in-law, and finally get married for two years, and file for divorce at the age of 23.
The reason is that the husband has another woman outside, and almost all the money he has earned over the years has been spent on that woman, and he has not given a penny to the family.
In order to be able to divorce as soon as possible, the cousin gave up everything and went out of the house. In her words, it is useless not to go out of the house, the man himself has nothing, and his parents' things cannot be divided anyway.
After the divorce, the cousin deeply felt that the man she was talking about was unreliable, so she accepted the family's arrangement to go on a blind date, and soon found a second husband.
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The second husband is an honest pimple, introverted and not talkative, almost 30 years old and not married.
The two met without a few times and got married under the mediation of the parents of both sides, according to the cousin, the man was really reassuring, taking the initiative to help with housework at home, going home immediately after work, and never staying overnight without returning. Don't smoke or drink, turn in all your wages, obey your cousin, and never lose your temper with your cousin.
However, this marriage lasted only one year, which was shorter than the first marriage.
The reason is that the man is anxious to have a child, after all, he is almost 30 years old before getting married, and the parents at home are also urging to hurry up and have a child.
However, the cousin worked hard to take the child alone in the ex-husband's family, but finally got a divorce ending, but in the end she did not even win the child, and she had a knot in her heart and did not want the child.
After a year of marriage, the other party made a request, either to have children or divorce!
The cousin chose to divorce.
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Many 24-year-old girls have just graduated from college, more women may have just entered the marriage hall, and some of them are still single, and cousins have already been divorced twice.
Especially after the reason for the second divorce was known to others, the matchmakers who were still eager to introduce the object to their cousins gave up one by one.
How many people dare to introduce her to marriage without having children?
And the cousin, after two failed marriages, also had resistance to marriage, and she was unwilling to find it again, so she simply went out to work.
Her cousin, who works outside, met her third husband, 30, who was divorced once and had a two-year-old son who lived with his parents. He took special care of his cousin, and the two spent more than a year together, and the cousin was sure that the other party was sincere to her, so he brought it back to meet his uncle and aunt.
The two old men judged with their wisdom for most of their lives, this young man is really good, and it is more reassuring to understand that the reason for the other party's previous divorce is because of less money, and the ex-wife ran away with the rich man.
It doesn't matter if you make less money, as long as the people are good. This is the thought in the hearts of the two old men.
As mentioned earlier, this man is really good to his cousin, buying computers, clothes, shoes, etc. for his cousin has never been stingy, and there are small surprises every New Year's Holiday, although the salary will not be handed over to the cousin to manage, but the income and expenditure will also let the cousin know.
Although the money earned is not very much, it also exceeds the local average income level, coupled with a little financial brain, life is basically enough. More importantly, people already have children, and they have not forced their cousins to have children, and their sons live with their parents, and they do not need their cousins to take care of them.
When the two first got married, they were particularly affectionate, and even their cousin offered to have children. A year later, she gave birth to a daughter, both children and daughters, which can be said to be a day that many people envy, especially after the daughter was half a year old, the cousin went out to work again, the daughter was also left to the mother-in-law to take care of, and the in-laws took care of the two children together, and there was no complaint.
We thought these cousins would always be happy, but she was divorced.
Looking at the photos of my cousin in the circle of friends, I suddenly had a feeling that her fourth marriage would probably not last too long.
What do you think your cousin was deadlocked in four marriages at a young age?