My cousin's marriage went through twists and turns

It's almost the New Year, and I feel very emotional when I think of my cousin. What should she do? There is nowhere to go.

When I returned to my hometown during the eleventh long holiday, my mother said to me, "The swallows are very poor now!" ”

"What's wrong?" I asked incomprehensibly.

"Nowhere to go, nowhere to go, alone!"

I felt bad listening to my mother, yes, what should she do? Although it is middle-aged, it is not a thing that a person is always floating. Thinking about the path my cousin has traveled, it is indeed absurd.

That year, when she left her hometown and decided to leave her child, her mother repeatedly persuaded her: "You go back, for the sake of the child!" ”

The cousin did not listen, and walked away fiercely, leaving her first husband. At that time, I was still supportive of her, feeling that a young woman could not give her life to an irresponsible man.

I retorted to my mother: "Look at things with the old eyes." ”

The mother said, "Child, you have not passed." ”

Later, my cousin left and went to the city to work. Later, words came from the hometown, and the cousin was very happy. I found a contractor in the city and built a building. The days were going well. Driving home in a small car, my cousin had a necklace around her neck and a finger on her fingers, one was not enough for two. Bright and dangling illumination.

The father said, "This one I found this time looks very good, this one." ”

"That's good!" I was very emotional, and I felt that my cousin was bitter.

Unfortunately, my aunt and uncle were gone, and I didn't see her living a good life. Since I separated from my cousin that year, I haven't seen her in more than ten years, and sometimes I miss her.

Later, news came from home that my cousin was single again. The man was gone, gone forever. It turned out that he had a wife in his hometown. How to live for nearly ten years, I don't know this.

In the face of my cousin's encounter, I was really speechless. The first husband, whom he knew when he was working, came together young and ignorant, and became pregnant before marriage. I didn't even have a wedding, and I lived in my hometown. At a young age, she had a bunch of children (two men and two women, one of whom was sold by her husband).

During the years of their lives, he committed frequent crimes, including one two-year prison sentence. Not to mention other things, it is difficult to get out.

Ask yourself, my cousin is a good person, not a twilight. For her first husband, she was very careful, but that person was a flower heart. I have not seen my second husband and have no say.

Today, my cousin's children are older, they don't read much, and they are all wandering outside. For more than ten years, mother and child have no contact and lack of family affection. Now there are contacts, just interests. The children ran out of money, came to her, took some money and left. The cousin also saw through it.

You raise me small, I raise you old. What is probably lacking between them is this.

Not only did I remember what my mother had said: "Child, you didn't pass by!" "I also regret that I didn't persuade my cousin."

If only I could have objected at first, I had admired her bravery. Perhaps, at some moments, people still have to be generous and calm, and first think about responsibility. Especially a mother, think more about her children. If that were the case, my cousin wouldn't be alone today.

Finally, I hope that their mother and son can be rebuilt for good, regardless of previous suspicions. Don't do something today that you regret tomorrow.

The mother said, "The child will find you another one!" What to do when you're old! ”

"Don't look for it, rely on yourself later!"

My cousin finally understood.