Sun Li did not expect that the child he had funded for four years would one day bite himself.
In November 2006, Xiang Haiqing, a student of Hanmen, pushed Sun Li to the cusp of public opinion with a 6,000-word letter.
Xiang Haiqing complained in a letter: "Only give me 500 yuan per month for living expenses..." In an attempt to get everyone's sympathy.
However, public opinion was biased toward Sun Li, and everyone accused Xiang Haiqing of being "ungrateful"!
The story of Mr. Dongguo and the wolf is staged in real life, which makes people sigh.
How exactly did Xiang Haiqing get funding from Sun Li?
What are the enmity and resentment between him and Sun Li?
Without Sun Li, Xiang Haiqing might not have had the opportunity to go to college in his lifetime.
Xiang Haiqing was born in a poor family in Wuxi County, Chongqing City, and his parents were farmers who guarded the acre and three points of land to live.
Because their parents are not in good health, they cannot go out to work to earn money, and the family's life is very poor.
Since xianghaiqing went to school, he often faced the crisis of "suspension of classes", and even dropped out of school several times because he could not afford to pay tuition, and barely went to middle school with the financial support of teachers and relatives.
In 2002, Qiu Xiang, a reporter for Chongqing Television, filmed the documentary "Hope in the Mountains" by hand.
He originally intended to let more people see the children in the mountains through this show, and he could lend a helping hand to help them.
After Qiu Chao learned of Xiang Haiqing's situation, he immediately designated him as the protagonist of one of the issues and invited him to record it.
The hard work of this rural child has touched many people, and this program also happens to be seen by Sun Li.
At that time, Not long after Sun Li's debut, she came from a working family and understood very well the heart of a child who wanted to go to school.
At that time, she was filming "Jade Guanyin" in Kunming, and the harsh environment in the mountains made her feel more sorry for this child, so she moved her heart of compassion.
Sun Li called her mother: "I want to sponsor a child, you can contact it..."
At first, Sun Li's mother was worried, after all, funding a person is a long-term thing, and it costs a lot of money and energy.
However, after seeing Xiang Haiqing's deeds, he was also very distressed, so he contacted Xiang Haiqing's school through the hotline.
After several months of discussion, Sun Li's mother and daughter formally established a student aid plan for Xiang Haiqing.
In May 2002, Xiang Haiqing was the first to receive a funding of 500 yuan from the teacher.
His hands trembled as if the money weighed a thousand pounds, which was a huge sum of money for this family!
Xiang Haiqing gratefully wrote a letter to Aunt Deng (Sun Li's mother), and his heart was full of gratitude.
With this money, he no longer has to worry about not being able to afford to read
Instead of even picking up trash and doing odd jobs to earn money, he can spend more time in the classroom like his classmates.
In this small, impoverished county, 500 yuan is enough for a family to live for a long time.
Aunt Deng called from time to time to care about Xiang Haiqing's studies: "You must study hard, you are still growing up, don't forget to buy something nutritious."
Knowing that the study in high school was tense, Sun Li specially sent Xiang Haiqing a class supplementary material from Shanghai.
Xiang Haiqing was touched to assure them: "I will definitely be good and be admitted to a good university!" ”
However, the day did not go according to people's wishes, in the 2004 college entrance examination, Xiang Haiqing fell off the list, he was disappointed and afraid, he was worried that Aunt Deng would be angry and felt that he did not come out.
But Sun Li's mother and daughter encouraged him to keep up and start over
He also suggested that he would be able to broaden his horizons and have better development in the future if he went to a big city like Beijing and Shanghai in the coming year.
Fortunately, in 2005, Xiang Haiqing achieved good results in the college entrance examination and applied for Shanghai Fisheries University under the advice of Sun Li.
A college student from Shanghai was born in a small county, and Xiang Haiqing suddenly became a small celebrity in the school and even his hometown.
Neighbors praised him: "There will definitely be a big surprise in the future!" The pride in Xiang Haiqing's heart suddenly arose, and he thought that his fate had changed.
When the university reported, Xiang Haiqing saw his sponsor for the first time, and behind the kind Aunt Deng stood the big star Sun Li!
At that moment, Xiang Haiqing was completely blindsided, he never thought that he was actually funded by a big star!
"She should be able to make a lot of money a year, maybe more a month than we do in a year!"
It wasn't until Aunt Deng spoke to himself that he eased up and hugged Aunt Deng with excitement and gratitude.
Looking at the simple Xiang Haiqing, Sun Li's heart was also sour, and he personally drove him to report to the school.
Sun Li paid him a year's tuition fee, intimately took him to handle various matters before and after running, and told him that the living expenses of 500 yuan would be called to him on a monthly basis.
Before leaving, Aunt Deng instructed: "Haiqing, you must study hard, and don't be too critical of yourself, the money is not enough to call your aunt and sister!" ”
Xiang Haiqing was grateful to hear this, and nodded his head in agreement
In his cognition, the big stars are not bad money, and it is nothing to spend more money, and the good days have finally come.
After the class began, Xiang Haiqing was appointed as the class leader by the teacher, and he felt proud in his heart, enjoying a rich and colorful university life while being fascinated by the "small rights" in his hands.
After that, Xiang Haiqing enrolled in the student union, and the call fee in the first month of school was as high as 90 yuan.
Even today's ordinary college students don't have so much phone bills, and it's 2005.
Aunt Deng sensed this and felt that something was wrong: "500 yuan of living expenses is 90 yuan, what is this child doing, is the rest of the money enough to eat?" ”
Sun Li did not understand either, so he asked about it when he called to care about his academic body.
Xiang Haiqing felt that they were questioning themselves, explaining that as a class leader, they had to contact their classmates so they made a lot of phone calls
In his heart, he resented it, feeling that Sun Li, a big star, even had to worry about this little money.
Knowing that Xiang Haiqing had joined the student union, Aunt Deng kindly reminded him that the human condition of the student union was more difficult than he thought, and asked him to focus on his studies.
Xiang Haiqing misinterpreted her meaning, believing that she looked down on herself: "Am I a poor child who is not worthy of being a student cadre?" ”
However, he did not speak bluntly, but while agreeing, he continued to work in the student union without the mother and daughter of Sun Li.
Unbeknownst to him, Sun Li's mother and daughter did not take this matter to heart, and still called him on time every month for living expenses.
As everyone knows, as early as this time, a crack had already appeared between them and Xiang Haiqing.
The contradiction between Xiang Haiqing and Sun Li's mother and daughter was completely exposed in September of this year.
Xiang Haiqing called Sun Li for money, he said that he only had a few dozen yuan on him, Sun Li was a little surprised: "Why did you spend so fast this month?" ”
This subconscious question caused Xiang Haiqing to be dissatisfied, believing that they did not believe themselves, explaining: "I have not had a hepatitis B vaccine before, and it took 175 to get an injection at school this month".
On the phone, Xiang Haiqing secretly poked and prodded that 500 a month was not enough:
"Our school canteen is outsourced, especially expensive and not good to eat!" Our classmates all went out to eat! ”
Sun Li's mother and daughter did not understand the situation at the school, so they called their counselor to ask if the money was too small to give him more.
Who expected this phone call, but let the mother and daughter completely chill, the counselor said:
"The school provided him with a work-study position, he worked as a guide assistant for 300 yuan a month, and before that, he also applied for 6,000 yuan of aid..."
These money were not mentioned to Haiqing, and the calculation was added to the 500 yuan he called him every month
Xiang Haiqing's monthly living expenses have reached as high as fifteen thousand.
This in 2005 was well beyond the living conditions of the average student.
Sun Li's mother and daughter did not know anything about these things, and when they were interrogated, they learned that Xiang Haiqing had deliberately concealed it, and they felt that Sun Li, who had been deceived, was very sad.
"I don't know when, the diligent and studious child who knows gratitude has become a person who will only find ways to reach out for money."
Sun Li understood that his free help had made him develop the awareness that he could reach out and ask for money, and made him love to lie and covet pleasure, which would only ruin him.
Therefore, after deliberation, Sun Li's mother and daughter decided to interrupt xiang Haiqing's education assistance.
Seeing that there is no fixed monthly 500 yuan, no one pays the tuition fee.
Xiang Haiqing panicked, and he wanted to admit to Sun Li's mother and daughter that they had deceived them, only to find that they could no longer be contacted.
The call to Sun Li was transferred to the secretary desk of the Chinese.
Panicked Xiang Haiqing was anxious like an ant on a hot pot, resentment and hatred mixed together, sheng Mien, Dou Mi Qi This sentence showed in him.
Just at this time, the reporter who filmed the documentary for himself found himself to make a return visit, and he seized the opportunity to cry to the other party about his tragic situation.
In order to make this "stingy, untrustworthy" big star be condemned.
Xiang Haiqing used his lifelong writing skills to write a 6,000-word letter to Qiu Chao that was "touching to tears".
Xiang Haiqing said that 500 yuan in the metropolis of Shanghai is definitely unable to live, every month to eat 400, his life is very poor.
He also said that in order not to cause trouble for Sun Li's sister, he went to work to earn money.
As for where the money he earned went, he explained: "The money he earned in school has treated his parents in his hometown."
As for why he hid from Sun Li's mother and daughter and avoided talking about it, he repeatedly mentioned that Sun Li's mother and daughter had hurt their self-esteem, especially the matter of coming to school to understand the situation!
In the letter, he said to Haiqing: "I don't want to offend my benefactor, I am wrong, and my fault is that I am too simple and simple to deal with the complexity of the big city."
Every sentence reveals "how difficult it is for a helpless rural child to live under the oppression of a big star with one hand covering the sky!" ”
The words of tea and tea make people feel cold.
The seemingly convincing letter revealed his three views and personality, and said to Haiqing: "I don't blame my sister, I just want a chance to repay the favor..."
After the letter was posted by Qiu Chao on the blog, it caused a lot of discussion, although it was vague about the protagonist.
However, with the clues, netizens still know that the protagonists are Sun Li and Xiang Haiqing.
The broadcast of good things added fuel and vinegar to the media, which brought a lot of trouble to Sun Li
Unsuspecting netizens hugged this cold student and thought that Sun Li was not trustworthy.
Some people also described Xiang Haiqing as Sun Li's illegitimate son, making her bear the insult for no reason.
In the face of these bad comments, Sun Li has never responded, she knows that as a star, once this matter is big, Xiang Haiqing's life will be over.
Even if Xiang Haiqing let himself feel cold and even bite himself back
Sun Li is also unwilling to let him fall into the whirlpool of the Internet as an ordinary person, she knows the taste of being pointed out by thousands of people.
Sun Li's silence has made many netizens think: "She is just weak-minded!" ”
The accusations and scoldings made Sun Li's mother very painful, and she regretted why she did not insist on stopping her daughter, and now she has caused so much trouble.
However, good people will always have good rewards, and the classmates and teachers who know Xianghai's true face stand up and hug Sun Li.
Under their elaboration, the public learned what kind of person Xiang Haiqing really was.
It turned out that Xiang Haiqing, who had always flaunted himself in front of the public as a poor child, was inferior and helpless, but he was a prominent figure in school.
He often showed off to his classmates that his relationship with Sun Li was not shallow, and gained a sense of vanity through the curiosity of his classmates.
Moreover, Xiang Haiqing's eating and wearing at school is not at all obvious to a child sponsored by a poor family.
Students can't afford to buy big-name mobile phones, Xiang Haiqing has! For this mobile phone, he made a lot of calls to Sun Li and Aunt Deng.
Don't dare to ask for too much money, just ask for a normal brand of mobile phone money, and then use the bursary to make up for it.
The food in the school canteen was obviously cheap and delicious, but Xiang Haiqing went out from time to time to open a small stove
College students generally choose buses and subways as means of transportation, but Xianghaiqing generally takes a taxi.
Some classmates even revealed that Xiang Haiqing had a girlfriend who once took the girl to Shanghai to play for six days.
How much does it cost to play for two people in Shanghai for six days, and is Xiang Haiqing's day really tight?
The revelations of the teachers and students of the school have turned public opinion against each other, and many people have scolded Xiang Haiqing white-eyed wolf!
However, Sun Li never stepped on a foot from beginning to end, but replied: "I don't understand, especially helpless, my mother can't sleep every day, and so do I!" ”
She refused all the interviews, revealing only one thing about her donation to Xiang Haiqing: "Between knowing that his mother had asthma, there is a medicine in Shanghai that works well to treat asthma, and has been sent many times."
As for the other details of the funding, Sun Li never said anything, she just hoped that this matter would end here, and from now on everyone would be well.
Xiang Haiqing could not raise his head in the school under the name of "ungrateful", and could only let the teacher come forward to refuse the interview for himself.
In 2006, CCTV analyzed the "Sun Li donation hot storm" through the three programs of "Everyone's Opinion".
Everyone expressed their opinions, and some people thought: as long as Sun Li continues to fund, so many things will not happen!
Some hosts believe that Xiang Haiqing is a white-eyed wolf, and it will only harm others and harm himself if he continues to fund it!
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However, the words of one of the hosts have aroused the reflection of the public:
"Group study is not poverty alleviation, Xiang Haiqing sent his 300 yuan home, while reaching out for money with peace of mind, he was not only ungrateful or unaware!"
Presumably, through this incident, he can also reflect on himself, and the gratuitous help of others is not a hotbed for his own pleasure!