There are some people who, because they have been drenched in rain, always want to hold an umbrella for others.
For example, Sun Li.
There are also some people who take the kindness of others for granted, so they blindly take it.
For example, Xiang Haiqing.
In that year, Sun Li sponsored xiang Haiqing, a young boy in the mountainous area, until he was admitted to college.
As a result, Xiang Haiqing used a 6,000-word long article to angrily rebuke Sun Li for "cutting the door".
What really happened back then? Why would Sun Li "do bad things with good intentions"?
And what happened to Xiang Haiqing, who was ungrateful and known as the "white-eyed wolf"?
Sun Li: You want to be your own sun, you don't need to rely on anyone's light
The story of Sun Li and Xiang Haiqing actually laid the groundwork when Sun Li was a child.
Today's Sun Li has become a "life winner" in the entertainment industry:
In marriage, she and Deng Chao became enviable "fairy lovers",
The two often look "black" to each other on the Internet, but in fact, they are different kinds of "show love",
Paradoxically, the two seem to be more and more "husband and wife".
In terms of career, although 11 years have passed since the biography of Zhen Huan,
But the "Zhen Huan" created by Sun Li is still a classic that is difficult to surpass,
Over the years, Sun Li has successively starred in dramas such as "An Jia" and "Ideal City".
Although some people say that Sun Li fell into the fixed impression of "inspirational heroine",
But Sun Li's acting skills are convincing.
In the public welfare undertakings, although Deng Chao and Sun Li are like a pair of "happy enemies" in life,
But when we encounter important things, we can always see their serious expressions.
as well as various public welfare donations.
The current Sun Li is enviable, but her past is also painful.
In 1982, Sun Li was born in Shanghai to an ordinary worker family.
In the first grade of primary school, my mother discovered the artistic expertise of Sun Li.
Therefore, the parents sent Sun Li to the Children's Palace to learn dance.
When she was a child, Sun Li was particularly competitive, and her various achievements were among the best.
At the age of 11, because of his outstanding dance ability, Sun Li performed abroad with the Shanghai Oriental Friends Art Troupe.
At that time, Sun Li did not expect that he would become a big star in the future.
At that time, her biggest ideal was to earn more money and make her parents live better.
But at the age of 13, that dream was completely dashed.
And the sun li who is not often at home does not know,
It turned out that in her heart, the parents who wanted to love had already had contradictions,
Even, the potential into water and fire.
Soon, the father left their mother and daughter behind, and ran away alone,
Until a long time later, Sun Li became a big star,
Her father returned and brought her a younger sister, Sun Yan.
For this sister, Sun Li took very good care of her,
At her suggestion, her sister was admitted to the North Film Academy,
Even when filming "An Jia", Sun Li also brought her sister to the camera.
Sun Li became an excellent sister.
But in that year, after my father left,
Because the family does not have a house, there is no stable income,
Sun Li can only rely on her mother for her life,
In order to let Sun Li continue to study, her mother had to send her to the Shanghai Garrison District Theatrical Performance Team.
During his 3 years in the army, he deeply honed Sun Li's tenacious character,
Later, Sun Li participated in the Singapore "Talent Overflow Talent" talent show,
With his own efforts, Sun Li got a good result of the second place,
After returning to China, Sun Li signed a contract with hairun company founded by veteran Haiyan.
At that time, Haiyan was preparing to make his novel "Jade Guanyin" into a TV series.
Sun Li, the first artist signed by the company, became the heroine,
In 2002, Sun Li came to Kunming with the crew to shoot,
It was in this year that Sun Li saw a documentary about poor mountainous areas.
Sun Li, who has experienced a hard life, empathizes with the children in the documentary that they cannot read.
So, she made a decision.
Second, Xiang Haiqing: When he was still a child who tried to change his destiny
In 2002, Xiang Haiqing, who was born in a poor mountainous area, met "two nobles" in his life:
One is the journalist Qiu Chaoju,
It was he who came to the mountains to make a documentary about the hard life of children in the countryside.
In line with the goal of "the poorer the character, the better, the more real and real the better the material",
Qiu Chaoju selected Xiang Haiqing, the poorest in the village.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing was studying in the first year of high school,
In the documentary, he wants to read books and wants to change the plight of his life through his own efforts.
Helplessly, the poor life made him difficult,
If nothing else, Xiang Haiqing will be like other children in the mountains,
Even after high school, you have to enter society and start from the lowest level of work.
Xiang Haiqing did not want to give up.
Although life was difficult, he continued to work hard.
This scene on TV just let Sun Li see it.
Perhaps thinking of his own experience, Sun Li was impressed by Xiang Haiqing.
As a result, she became the "second nobleman" in Xiang Haiqing's life.
Sun Li, who was filming the drama, called her mother and hoped to fund Xiang Haiqing in her mother's name.
So Sun Li's mother began to sponsor children in this poor mountainous area.
After filming the documentary "Boys Should Be Self-Reliant",
Xiang Haiqing received a 500 yuan grant, which was a "huge amount" he had never seen before.
At that time, Xiang Haiqing couldn't help but cry, and even the teacher next to him tapped him on the shoulder without noticing it.
However, on the letter sent with the money, there was only one "Aunt Deng" who could not deduce her identity.
Although he didn't know who the sponsor was, Xiang Haiqing's heart was full of gratitude at that time.
After he got the money, the first thing he did was write a letter to "Aunt Deng".
In my heart, I am full of gratitude.
Because of this letter, Sun Li's mother, Deng Lifang, called Xiang Haiqing.
On the phone, "Aunt Deng" instructed: "Study hard, don't worry about money." ”
Since then, Aunt Deng and Xiang Haiqing have maintained telephone contact,
Every time on the phone, Aunt Deng will talk about "funding" to reassure Xiang Haiqing.
In the third year of high school, Xiang Haiqing was under a lot of pressure,
Aunt Deng called to comfort him and let him relax,
Even, Aunt Deng suggested that Xiang Haiqing University must apply for big cities such as Beijing and Shanghai.
It is better to come to Shanghai, because "Aunt Deng and sister (Sun Li) are in Shanghai."
To this end, Xiang Haiqing worked hard,
Only the first time when the college entrance examination, he still lost because of nervousness,
Worried in his heart, Xiang Haiqing called "Aunt Deng", and this time it was "Sister" who answered the phone.
After Hearing the situation, Sun Li comforted Xiang Haiqing to re-read and retake the exam, "We must go out of the mountain."
After making the call, Xiang Haiqing received counseling materials from Sister Sun.
On the day of the college entrance examination, Sister Sun also called Xiang Haiqing and asked him not to be nervous.
With the encouragement of Sun Li, Xiang Haiqing's college entrance examination was very smooth,
This time, he was admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University.
Xiang Haiqing, who received the notice, was very happy, and he called Sun Li: Sister, I have been admitted.
Sun Li on the other end of the phone was also very happy, and she promised: When you come, my aunt and I will pick you up.
In this way, two people who had never met before were finally going to meet.
Third, sheng mien, bear the rice vendetta?
In 2005, Xiang Haiqing finally boarded a train from Chongqing to Shanghai.
This year, Sun Li has already gained fame and influence in the film and television circle.
In that year, Sun Li won the audience's most popular actress award that year with the role of "Peace of Mind" in "Jade Guanyin".
As well as CCTV TV drama top ten actresses and other awards.
In 2005, Sun Li, who was in the ascending stage of her career, met Deng Chao in "Happiness Like a Flower".
At that time, Deng Chao was still an "acting school",
No one expected that Deng Chao, who loved to be funny, had actually cured Sun Li's firm fear of "not marrying".
This is a postscript.
At that time, Sun Li and her mother packed up their things and went to the railway station to pick up Haiqing.
Xiang Haiqing, who got out of the car, saw "Aunt Deng" and "Sister Sun" standing opposite,
He never imagined that the person who funded him would be Sun Li, who could only be seen on TV.
Xiang Haiqing burst into tears at once, and couldn't help but prostrate himself on his knees,
Sun Li and her mother stopped Xiang Haiqing, and they sent Xiang Haiqing to the school and went through the enrollment procedures.
Aunt Deng paid xiang Haiqing's tuition and told him to study hard.
Before leaving, Aunt Deng gave Xiang Haiqing 500 yuan of living expenses.
Aunt Deng said: I will call you money every month, don't worry about money, call me and my sister when you are short of money.
Xiang Haiqing kept nodding.
Perhaps, Aunt Deng just said so,
After all, in that year, 500 yuan a month of living expenses was already very rich.
It was just that Xiang Haiqing's heart slowly had other ideas.
Soon after, Xiang Haiqing called Aunt Deng and wanted to increase the cost of living.
Aunt Deng was very strange, how could 500 pieces be not enough?
Xiang Haiqing said: I joined the student union, the monthly telephone bill is more than 90, there are other miscellaneous expenses, the money is really not enough...
Aunt Deng thought for a moment and replied to him: Wouldn't it be good if you quit the student union?
Xiang Haiqing was hesitant, but in the end, he listened to the advice of his classmates:
Verbally promised Aunt Deng to quit the student union, but in fact did not quit.
In his heart, he always remembered what Aunt Deng said: When there is no money, call your aunt and sister.
He already knew that Sun Li had become a big star, and in his heart, he thought a little mischievously:
They are all such big stars, making so much money and funding a little more is also deserved.
As a result, Xiang Haiqing called Aunt Deng and her sister more and more,
How can a college student spend so much money in school?
Aunt Deng was confused in her heart, so she came to the school to visit,
This look can startle Aunt Deng:
It turned out that Xiang Haiqing not only had 500 yuan of living expenses she gave every month, but also applied for 6,000 yuan of poverty assistance every year, and also served as a counselor assistant in school, and the monthly living expenses were actually very abundant.
Knowing the truth, Sun Li and his mother stopped funding Xiang Haiqing.
Since 2002, she has sponsored the child for 4 years,
I just didn't expect that this would be the case in the end.
Later, because he could not receive money, Xiang Haiqing called Aunt Deng many times.
As a result, Aunt Deng actually said:
My dogs are more obedient than you. You only know to ask us for money, and people have self-respect and solve it on their own.
Knowing the reason why Aunt Deng stopped funding herself, she explained to Haiqing:
He could earn money by going to work on his own, but because his mother was sick at home, he sent all the money to his family.
However, no matter what he said, Aunt Deng and Sister Sun would never trust him again.
Fourth, why did Xiang Haiqing "take a bite back"? What happened to Xiang Haiqing?
It is conceivable that Xiang Haiqing, who did not want money, was resentful in his heart.
At this moment, Qiu Chaoju, a journalist who had made a documentary for him, came to him.
Qiu Chaoju originally wanted to ask xiang Haiqing how to follow up after being funded.
As a result, Xiang Haiqing said that Sun Li had long stopped funding him.
At the same time, Xiang Haiqing sent a 6,000-word article to Qiu Chaoju to explain the matter.
However, Qiu Chaoju posted this article on the Internet,
Although he changed the female star to "SL", the party changed to "Zhang Haiqing",
However, it is not difficult for netizens to find out that the article is about Sun Li and Xiang Haiqing.
In the article, Xiang Haiqing revealed his hardships,
Although what he said is very cryptic, it is not difficult for everyone to read -
Xiang Haiqing's every word tells that he was bullied by Sun Li and his grandmother, causing him great harm.
At that time, Sun Li was in the ascendancy of his career.
At this time, this kind of "fierce material" broke out, which was very unfavorable to her.
Many people are accusing: Sun Li is spending a small amount of money, but wants a big reputation.
For a moment, Sun Li was speechless.
Finally, to the students in Haiqing School, he spoke up:
They pointed out that in school, Xiang Haiqing not only talked about his girlfriend, but also wore luxury goods, often showing off his relationship with Sun Li to his classmates, etc.
This is not at all the image of being bullied in a 6,000-word essay.
Many netizens reacted that Sun Li had funded a person who did not understand gratitude.
In particular, Han Han, who is also a Shanghainese, directly ridiculed on the Internet:
Ordinary people in the city do not even dare to raise large dogs, why can Sun Li raise "wolves" in Shanghai?
Suddenly, Xiang Haiqing became the "white-eyed wolf" in the eyes of everyone.
"University" said: A thousand fingers, no disease.
Xiang Haiqing finally tasted the bitter fruit he had planted.
Because of the discussion, Xiang Haiqing chose to take a leave of absence,
Maybe he thinks it's better to wait for this class of students to graduate.
Just did not expect that this matter has too much impact, a year later he returned to school, classmates still pointed at him,
Even so, Xiang Haiqing still believes that as long as he graduates and enters social work, it will be fine.
It's just that he didn't expect that after graduation, because of his approach, big companies didn't dare to use him at all.
Therefore, he had to start from the bottom in a small company, slowly starting from the bottom, with a salary that he once despised.
After 16 years, Xiang Haiqing slowly disappeared into the vast sea of people.
It's just the revelation he left us: maybe it's always been useful—
Kindness is a choice, but you can't take other people's choices for granted.
For Xiang Haiqing's matter, what do you think?
Did Sun Li do anything wrong? What was wrong with Xiang Haiqing?
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