Yang Dai said, our family is very simple, the three of us, very simple. We have no quarrel with the world, no quarrel with others, but only to get together, to stay together, and to do what we can.
Yang Dai said that when encountering difficulties, Zhong Shu always bears them with me, and the difficulties are no longer difficult; and ah yan accompanies and helps each other, no matter what bitter and difficult things, they can become sweet. When we are a little happy, we will also become very happy.
The life of Yang Dai's family of three is full of warmth and happiness.
They called the walks they went out while studying in Oxford "expeditions", and they picked places they didn't know and found everywhere. They learn to cook with stewed meat and stir-fry, which is also a fun "adventure". They also went on an expedition to London and Paris together.
In their spare time, they and Li Qingzhao Zhao Mingcheng and his wife "bet on books and pour tea", talked about poetry and poetry together, and lived happily as if they had "created a world by themselves".
When you have a daughter, the joy of life is even greater. Zhong Shu played to his "fun" nature and made a "buddy" with his daughter, joking, naughty, and noisy together.
Zhong Shu would go to his daughter's bed every night to plant "landmines" in his daughter's bed, "bury" toys, mirrors, brushes and other miscellaneous things, and when his daughter found out screaming, he laughed triumphantly.
Zhong Shu not only used ink pen to draw a beard on her daughter's face, but also drew a grimace on her stomach, and his best trick was to give her daughter a nickname, comparing her daughter to "pig pouting", "cow hitting head", "crab spitting" and "frog convex belly".
The daughter said that she and her father were two "naughty boys" of her mother, and that her father was not worthy to be her brother, only to be a younger brother.
During the turbulent "going to the mountains and going to the countryside" and other sports, the family of three still has fun. The three of them went outside to eat in the restaurant, and waited to observe the diners at the other tables, analyzing and discussing the stories in their words, as if they were watching the "play" that had just been played, was being performed, or had finished the end.
Even the last time they received a mysterious phone call, on the night before the separation of the ancient post road, Zhong Shu, who was in his 80s, was still playing with his daughter. Dad put a large stack of dictionaries on her bedside pillow, on which stood a small bench with four feet facing the sky, and at the foot of the stool stood a pair of dusty leather shoes, a shoe stopper pen holder and pen, and a shoe stopper sweeping the broom of the bed.
The father complained to the mother that the daughter had deceived him, and the daughter claimed that the father had done something bad and was "caught on the spot".
Such a funny scene, we can't help but laugh when we see it, and the protagonist in the text is even happier.
There are too many interesting things about their family of three. No wonder each of them has multiple roles: daughters like sisters, like sisters, like moms; dads like sons, like brothers, like brothers; moms like daughters, like sisters, like sisters.
Haruki Murakami said: "When you treat the seemingly boring little things in life with a funny attitude, you will reap a small but certain happiness, so that you feel that life is very beautiful." ”
The reason why Yang Dai's three families can live such a life and be so full of fun is because of their family's inexplicable love, the love of husband and wife, the love of loving their daughters and pitying their parents, and the unusual fate and encounter of the three of them.
It is precisely because of the difficulty of giving up that Mr. Yang Dai used dream-like brushstrokes to recall the scene of losing his daughter and husband in the ancient Yidao, expressing endless thoughts and sorrows for them. Because the home is no longer complete, the three people can no longer get together, Mr. Yang Dai lamented that the home is no longer home, only an inn in the journey.
"The pain is at the end of the unconscious, and the extreme of the thought will hurt." The good things in the world are not firm, and the clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle. ”
In fact, an important factor that supported the happy life of the family of three and Mr. Yang Dai's 18 years after the father and daughter left was "reading".
Their family of three loves to read, regards reading and writing as a lifelong ambition and career, and has achieved many immortal masterpieces that are popular and respected by posterity.