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The first rays of sunshine in the morning caressed every inch of the courtyard like a mother, and as time passed, 78-year-old Niu Li still sat elegantly on a wicker chair, holding a cane in her hand, with a happy smile on her face.
Her eyes always follow the three lively and lovely grandchildren in the yard, and their laughter is like a crisp birdsong, evoking her fond memories of her youth.
It was a hot summer night in 1995, and Niu Li's best friend had carefully planned a party full of joy.
Originally, she didn't expect this party to bring her any special surprises, however, fate arranged for her to meet the person who changed her life that night - Liu Yadong.
At this moment, Niu Li seems to have traveled through time and space and returned to that unforgettable moment again. She vividly remembers that she was wearing a red cheongsam, a delicate bun, and a pair of embroidered shoes embroidered with peony patterns.
Liu Yadong, on the other hand, is dressed in a crisp suit and is meticulous, giving people a feeling of being unapproachable. However, as she gazed into his deep eyes, she felt the deep warmth contained in them.
It was from that moment that Niu Li was deeply attracted to this man who was eight years older than her. He is very different from the men who passionately pursue her, he never uses flashy means to capture her heart, but gently walks into her life in a calm and restrained way.
Niu Li, who has loved watching TV shows since she was a child, whenever she sees the gorgeous and witty words shown by the actors on the screen, her heart will always emerge with endless longing and yearning.
However, creation makes people. In order to ensure their daughter's health, her parents resolutely decided to send Niu Li to the swimming team and shooting team for rigorous training, so that she had to temporarily put aside her dream of acting.
As a result, Niu Li spent a long time in the swimming team, and even had the opportunity to join the national team for a time, but finally switched to the shooting team because of her mother's insistence.
Although Niu Li won honor for the shooting team in the national competition, the good times were short-lived, and the team soon disbanded, leaving her alone to face the unknown future.
Just when she felt lost about the future, her mother's advice was like a beacon, illuminating the dream of acting in her heart that had never been extinguished.
Niu Li has never forgotten that whenever she recalls the dream that was ruthlessly "stifled" by her parents, there will always be an indescribable loss and pain in her heart.
At that time, she cried loudly at home, almost despairing of the long-held ideal, until her mother's words were like a slap in the face, knocking her heart up.
Indeed, how could I give up on my dreams so easily? What about the perseverance I showed in learning to shoot? Niu Li kept asking herself in her heart, even if the road ahead was full of thorns, she had to try bravely and leave no regrets.
Following her mother's advice, Niu Li chose to apply for the School of Drama without hesitation. However, the good times are always short-lived, and she failed to participate in the selection of military art and northern opera twice in a row, and once fell into confusion and extreme loss.
Just when she was in agony and almost gave up on her dreams, a discerning teacher discovered her innocent theatrical talent.
The teacher became the noble man in her life, bringing her under her door and rekindling the light of hope in her pursuit of her dreams.
So, Niu Li once again embarked on the journey to her dream. At the same time, she also met the important person who changed her life - Liu Yadong.
The two hit it off at first sight and quickly established a deep relationship.
is completely different from those enthusiastic pursuits of those who are young and young, Liu Yadong silently guards Niu Li with practical actions: whenever she feels frightened when she goes home alone late at night, he will always immediately drive to meet her; Whenever she was wronged in the crew, he gave endless encouragement with gentle words.
Niu Li is deeply grateful to have such a close lover by her side, and together they have started a new journey of life full of hope.
Since then, no matter what difficulties she encounters in her career, Liu Yadong has always supported her wholeheartedly and become her strong backing.
In this way, they supported each other and spent 25 springs, summers, autumns and winters together.
The bits and pieces of memories of those years have long been deeply imprinted in Niu Li's heart and have become the most precious wealth in her life.
In this way, in the good times of 1996, Niu Li was invited to step into the glittering stage of the Chinese New Year Gala for the first time, a vision that she had always aspired to realize in her childhood.
At that moment, when countless dazzling spotlights surrounded her tightly, when the warm applause of the crowd was as shocking as thunder, the excitement in her heart was like a volcanic eruption, and more than this opportunity that once existed in a dream finally made her taste the sweetness of success.
In the following years, Niu Li's image on the stage became more and more popular, and her frequent cooperation with the famous comedian Guo Donglin was even more tacit, and their live performances were as smooth and natural as their peers, winning the love of the audience, and being affectionately known as the "golden partner", becoming the most eye-catching scenery on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
In addition to her wonderful performance in the Spring Festival Gala, Niu Li has also gradually set foot in the field of film and television, and has participated in many widely acclaimed film and television masterpieces.
With her superb acting skills and in-depth interpretation of the role, she quickly won the actress crown with an urban emotional drama, and her career climbed to the peak of her life, finally realizing the dream she had cherished since she was a child.
Whenever she recalls this journey, Niu Li always stares at her husband Liu Yadong beside her with gratitude. It was he who gave her unprecedented courage and determination, and became her strong backing, otherwise she would not have been able to reach today's glory.
She vividly remembers that every time she went to a foreign country to shoot or perform on stage, her husband would carefully record a video for her, and those warm words moistened her soul like a spring breeze.
However, just when her career was in full swing, Niu Li made a shocking decision - she chose to temporarily bid farewell to the Spring Festival Gala stage and devote herself wholeheartedly to family life.
The reason is that the crystallization of her love with her husband has been born, and that lovely daughter has become her new life sustenance.
Since having a daughter, Niu Li has found that she can no longer devote herself to her work as fully as she used to. Whenever she embarks on a journey to a distant place, her heart is always filled with longing for her daughter; And whenever she is busy with the filming of the crew, she will always worry about whether her daughter feels lonely or wronged.
On that day, my daughter innocently said, "Mom, I want to be a princess, can Dad be my prince?" "The wonderful children's voices touched my heart deeply as a mother.
These innocent words made me deeply realize that for children, there is nothing they want more than a complete and happy family, not a brilliant career.
So, in 2013, I received a warm invitation from the Spring Festival Gala again, but this time, I did not hesitate to decline the director's sincere invitation. This decision has left many people wondering: why did I resolutely choose to leave the stage when my star career was in full swing? Actually, I'm just gradually shifting my focus to family.
Soon after, my husband Liu Yadong and I welcomed two lively and lovely little babies, and our warm family of five was happy. Since then, I have never participated in the Spring Festival Gala performance.
Although I still make cameo appearances in popular TV series, I devote more time to accompanying my children as they grow up and watch them grow and progress every step of the way.
"Mothers are happiest at home," I often tell my children. Whenever I see three innocent children playing happily in the sun, my heart is filled with great happiness.
I know very well that although the Spring Festival Gala and film and television dramas can bring me success in my career, only family is my real safe haven.
Many people may mistakenly think that as a generation of actresses, I must have a wealthy businessman husband as a solid support. However, this is not the case, according to my own words, my husband Liu Yadong is just an ordinary man.
Despite our relatively high income level, we have always adhered to a simple attitude towards life.
Whenever Liu Yadong is free, he is always happy to accompany me on a trip to enjoy the newest and most peaceful time in the world.
And when we are in the mood, we will also walk into the market together, pick fresh ingredients by hand, and return home to cook delicious dishes and spend a warm dinner time together.
This is the ordinary life that Niu Li pursues, away from the hustle and bustle of the peak of her career in the past, abandoning the battles in Vanity Fair, and leaving only the purest and most authentic way of life.
She once sighed affectionately: "Only by leaving behind the troubles of career can we deeply appreciate the beauty of life." ”
Time flies, and what is amazing is that Ms. Niu Li and her husband Mr. Liu Yadong have written a 25-year-long love chapter together. In this endless period of time, the husband has always silently guarded their marriage with his sincere love and uncomplaining dedication, so that the relationship between them has become deeper and deeper, and more and more happy.
Ms. Niu Li remembers vividly that whenever she went to a foreign country to shoot, her husband would always wait quietly at home for her return; And whenever she was treated unfairly in the crew, her husband always came quickly and gave her endless care and encouragement.
It is precisely because of such a solid and reliable backing of Mr. Liu Yadong that Ms. Niu Li can devote herself to her career without any worries and chase her dreams in her youth.
Now, when Ms. Niu Li looks back on the past and recalls every moment of her life, her heart is full of happiness and gratitude. She deeply understands that an ordinary life is the most precious wealth, and having true love and children growing up is the greatest happiness in life.