When 60-year-old Sheng Hailin decided to have another child, she was opposed by her husband Lao Wu.
"You're all this age, what else are you going to give birth to?" Don't want to die? ”
Sheng Hailin pleaded bitterly, "Just let me give birth, if I don't have children, I might as well die." ”
Seeing his wife so sad, Lao Wu sighed deeply and finally agreed to her decision.
After all, white-haired people sending black-haired people is not acceptable to everyone.
If there are no more children, the wife may really be devastated.
60-year-old pregnant woman, which was simply a fantasy in people's minds at that time, which is tantamount to suicide.
What exactly made Sheng Hailin make this decision?
It all started with the Spring Festival in 2009.
On that day, Sheng Hailin's 29-year-old Tingting and her newly married husband went back to her mother's house for the New Year.
It is said that the daughter who marries out spills out the water,
This daughter who has worked so hard to raise is now returning home during the New Year to perform filial piety, which has become the happiest thing in the couple's two years.
Watching her daughter and son-in-law carrying various gifts to the door, Sheng Hailin did not say how happy,
A layer of happy folds appeared on his face, and he joyfully pulled the two little ones closer to the door of the house, and asked for warmth.
Sheng Hailin has been a doctor for a lifetime,
Always like to subconsciously advise the health of the younger generations, usually pay attention to what safety hazards,
Tingting and her husband also accompanied and kept nodding their heads and saying yes.
When she left the next day, because she still had to go back to her in-laws' house, Sheng Hailin also took out many homemade specialties.
Let the daughter bring it to her relatives, and when she leaves the door, she still has a smile on her face and waves.
As everyone knows, this time leaving, it is a farewell,
And those security risks have finally become a nightmare that is too late to stop.
Less than 24 hours after her daughter left, Sheng Hailin suddenly received a call from her relatives, saying that Tingting and her husband had been hospitalized in a car accident.
Sheng Hailin, who learned the news, stumbled, almost unable to stand, and rushed to take the train with Lao Wu.
But when she reached her destination, even greater despair struck her.
It turned out that the daughter and son-in-law died of gas poisoning, in order not to let them be stimulated by accidents,
The family lied that it was a car accident, and only after arriving at the hospital did they tell the truth.
In an instant, Sheng Hailin collapsed to the ground, lying on her daughter's body and crying bitterly.
And Lao Wu also squatted on the ground, covering his face with his hands, and constantly whimpering in his mouth.
On the day of the incident, the in-laws' home was freezing cold, because the house was old, the windows were closed to death with latches.
And that latch is the kind of one that plugs in and wants to pull it out so hard.
And Tingting their bedroom is connected to the bathroom, and the steam in the bathroom has not completely dissipated,
The little two on the bed had fallen into a deep sleep.
No one noticed that the air was already full of gas at some point, just because the kitchen stove did not turn off the switch.
Two young people who had not yet had time to enjoy the joy of their new marriage died in their sleep.
Tingting's departure was a huge blow to Sheng Hailin and his wife.
Since Tingting was born in 1980, she has always been their heart meat,
In order to respond to the call for late birth and late childbearing, Sheng Hailin was a daughter born at the age of thirty.
It can be regarded as a late arrival, so they have always been responsive to their daughter's requests.
When my daughter was 7 years old, she just inadvertently said, "Mom, the piano sounds so good."
Sheng Hailin gritted her teeth and spent seven hundred yuan to buy a piano for her daughter.
At that time, seven hundred yuan was the income of a working family for a year.
Sheng Hailin is not very rich, but as long as her daughter likes it, even if it is the moon in the sky, she must find a way to get it down.
When the university needed to live on campus, Tingting, who left her parents for the first time, hid in the dormitory bed to call her mother.
Listening to her daughter's cries, Sheng Hailin's heart was broken, and she was eager to get a day study permit for her daughter immediately.
All along, Tingting has been their pride, and after graduation, she also followed their footsteps to join the army.
Like Sheng Hailin and Lao Wu, Tingting also met her husband in the army.
I thought my daughter would grow up like this and become the inheritance of their bloodline,
I didn't expect that just because of a low-level mistake, they would let the white-haired people send the black-haired people.
In order not to let his wife have a psychological breakdown, Lao Wu proposed that they could adopt a child.
It was a year after the Wenchuan earthquake, and many orphaned families were rebuilding their homes, and they were just eligible for adoption.
So Sheng Hailin went all over the orphanages in Wenchuan, as well as some welfare homes.
The news that can be obtained is that the children have been placed,
Even if they wanted to go to the countryside to raise one, they ended up in vain.
At this time, Sheng Hailin proposed to do IVF,
And Lao Wu's first reaction was that his wife was crazy.
The technology of IVF was not yet developed at that time, and the probability of failure was very high.
For the 60-year-old, the success rate is still zero, at least before Sheng Hailin, no one in China has succeeded.
Her proposal was simply looking for death.
"But if I don't have children, there is no difference between living and dead."
Old Wu smoked a cigarette and thought about it all night, and finally nodded his head in agreement.
Sheng Hailin herself is a doctor, and she has consulted a lot of relevant information about IVF.
She knew all the risks and pains she would face in the future, and that was why she wanted to give it a go.
In March 2009, Sheng Hailin first found a doctor friend working in Beijing.
Through matchmaking, I contacted a major hospital in Beijing,
The obstetrics and gynecology experts of the hospital consulted overnight and gave Sheng Hailin various physical examinations.
But the final conclusions are all unworkable, no precedent, and don't risk your life.
Later, she went to a large hospital in Nanjing, and was also rejected.
Almost all the hospitals didn't dare to do this experimental operation for her.
Finally, in July, the doctors at the Pla.105 Hospital heard about her story and agreed to give her surgery a try.
The doctor said: "I didn't agree to you because I was touched by you, because you are also a doctor, and you understand all aspects of the risks in the IVF process, which proves that you have this psychological preparation." ”
IVF is a complex biological engineering.
For Sheng Hailin's age, there is one more necessary project, that is, to let her recast her youth and restore menstruation.
In this regard alone, the possibility is very small, but it can be accompanied by three months of injections and medicines, various drugs to nourish,
Sheng Hailin really miraculously recovered her menstruation, which surprised all the doctors.
Then it was the most dangerous time to inject the embryo into Sheng Hailin's womb.
To improve survival, doctors injected three embryos at once.
But in fact, the survival rate is just a comforting statement.
In the eyes of the doctors at the time, none of the three embryos could survive.
As we get older, the lower the chances of IVF success,
Especially after entering old age, it is unknown whether the internal organs alone can support the conception of babies.
When three embryos were injected into the abdomen, Sheng Hailin felt a dizziness and suffocation,
It was an uncomfortable and painful feeling she had never felt when she was pregnant.
In the subsequent cultivation, in order to reduce the risk of elderly pregnant women, Sheng Hailin took countless kinds of medicines.
What antihypertensive drugs, antidepressants, eat more diligently than meals, and at the same time endure the side effects of these drugs.
During that time, Sheng Hailin was even careful about coughing, for fear of hurting the embryo in her abdomen.
As she got off the operating table, she shook the doctor's hand and asked, "At least one of these three embryos will succeed." ”
The doctor was silent for a moment, still not wanting to hit her,
This so-called experiment in their eyes is more of a comfort to Sheng Hailin,
If she fails, she will die of this heart.
But miracles always happen when people don't believe them.
Because she was looking forward to the arrival of the child, Sheng Hailin bought several boxes of pregnancy test sticks and checked twice a day.
Finally, half a month later, she found that the red line on the pregnancy test stick had become two bars,
She couldn't believe it, and tested it again, or two bars.
Sheng Hailin endured the trembling hand and called the doctor: "Doctor, I, I am pregnant, I am pregnant."
By this time the doctor on the other end of the phone was so shocked that he could not speak.
The two were silent for a long time, and then the doctor trembled and said, "Quick, come quickly, this is big news."
The news of the successful conception of the 60-year-old IVF spread, and Sheng Hailin became the oldest IVF pregnant woman in China.
However, not long after the happiness, Sheng Hailin suddenly suffered a heavy bleeding,
Almost scared the heart to stop, afraid of the child in the belly to die,
Fortunately, after the examination, it was found that only one embryo was broken, and the remaining two were still intact.
After pregnancy, it is still impossible to take it lightly, and Sheng Hailin still has to endure the pain of pregnancy and various drug side effects.
At one point, the whole body was puffy, so swollen that the neck could not be seen at all,
In addition, the biggest danger of IVF is that it is prone to cancer.
This is a gamble against the god of death, but in the end, Sheng Hailin's maternal love overcomes all difficulties.
She was not infected and gave birth to twins in good health,
She also gave two girls nicknames, one named Zhizhi and the other Huihui.
Sheng Hailin became famous, on the one hand, because of her status as an elderly mother,
On the other hand, in order to raise two children, she had to continue to work, taking to the stage to give health and wellness lectures in various places.
Because two children can only be raised in the greenhouse when they are born, the cost of a day is thousands of yuan,
At this time, Sheng Hailin realized that she had considered all the physical risks, but did not consider the future expenses of the child.
In the following years, Sheng Hailin took care of the children at home while trying to speak everywhere.
Saved millions of dollars for two daughters, enough for two children to grow up carefree,
But the only thing she feared in her heart was that once she was gone, the two children were not yet adults, so what could they do?
For Sheng Hailin's elderly shovel, the outside world has a variety of opinions,
Some say that her love for her children is great, and she will give birth to them at great risk.
Others say she completely ignores the child's feelings.
There are not many days at such an old age, what can they do once they leave early to leave their children without parents?
I have to say that the concerns of netizens have a certain truth, in 2015, her husband Lao Wu accompanied her to speak in other places.
When he returned to the hotel, he found that Lao Wu had fallen to the ground unconscious.
After diagnosis, the husband was a stroke caused by hemiplegia, and the burden of the family suddenly fell on Sheng Hailin alone.
The couple was once a soldier and never feared death.
But now looking at the young faces of her two daughters, she began to fear death.
She did not dare to get sick, and usually dressed herself as young as possible,
So that you don't have much gap with other parents, don't lose your daughters.
But my daughter was also very sensible, and once someone at the school gate asked:
"Oh, the two little girls are so cute, is this your grandmother?"
Just when Sheng Hailin was embarrassed, Zhizhi and Huihui stood up and proudly replied, "No, this is our mother."
At this moment, all the sufferings that had been suffered, Sheng Hailin felt that it was worth it.
In particular, the two children are becoming more and more like their own deceased daughter and son-in-law, which makes Sheng Hailin even feel that this is their reincarnation.
In the past two years, because of the epidemic, Sheng Hailin has been at home with her two daughters.
The teenage girl is particularly noisy, which makes her a little powerless,
But when she thought about the future, she still gritted her teeth and survived.
For her insistence on advanced age production, it is difficult for us to judge the quality of this matter.
But now for this family, I pray for them from the bottom of my heart,
I hope ms. Sheng Hailin can stay longer and watch her daughters grow up.