Chen Yuemei, who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, is more than 50 years old this year, and her family has just built a new house, and her husband loves her very much, and her life is not bad.
But one thing is the eternal pain in Chen Yuemei's heart - her daughter Chen Qi mysteriously disappeared 12 years ago!
For 12 years, Chen Yuemei did not have half a word about her daughter, and she once pessimistically believed that her daughter Chen Yu was no longer alive.
Who knows, a sudden arrest warrant has made her daughter, who has disappeared for 12 years, reappear, which makes Chen Yuemei sad and happy.
Happily, Chen Yuemei was sure that her daughter Chen Yu was still alive; sadly, Chen Yuemei did not expect that the news of her daughter Chen Yu again twelve years later was because of an arrest warrant!
Twelve years later, when Chen Yuemei saw her child Chen Yu again in the detention center, she had long been unable to cry, crying and saying: Mother is sorry for you...
Where has Chen Qi been all these years? What the hell did she do wrong? What kind of story did Chen Yuemei and her daughter Chen Yu have before?
First, the daughter who suddenly disappeared
Chen Yuemei recalled that it was a morning 12 years ago, the sensible daughter Chen Qi, bought breakfast and put it on the table, intimately said to her mother, Mother, you get up later, buy it early and put it on the table, I went to work.
Hearing her daughter's intimate words, Chen Yuemei was very relieved, hmm, turned her head and slept for a while.
Every day at noon, Chen Yu would go home for lunch. But that day, because the weather was too cold, Chen Yu told Chen Yuemei that he would not come back at noon and would come back in the afternoon.
Chen Yuemei saw the cold wind blowing outside and agreed.
But in the evening, Chen Yu had not yet returned, which made Chen Yuemei very anxious.
That night, Chen Yuemei tossed and turned, and did not sleep all night. She waited until the next morning, when Chen Wei had not yet returned.
Chen Yuemei rushed to the Internet café where Chen Yu worked to inquire. But the owner of the Internet café told her that Chen Qi had left the afternoon before and had not come to work in the morning.
Where did Chen Qi go?
Chen Yuemei's nephew also helped to find Chen Qi, he accidentally contacted Chen Qi on the Internet, and then anxiously asked Chen Qi: "Where are you?" ”
Chen Qi said a place, and then stopped talking.
In order to determine the authenticity of Chen's words, Chen Yuemei's nephew immediately asked for a video with Chen Qi.
However, when Chen Yuemei's nephew hung up the phone to initiate a video request, the other end of the phone was turned off and could no longer be contacted.
The little clue just had was broken, and Chen Yu couldn't contact it.
Chen Yuemei didn't understand how her daughter, who had always been well-behaved and sensible, suddenly disappeared? I don't say hello to myself either.
Where did my daughter go?
Chen Yuemei went to inquire about the owner of the Internet café again, and the boss said that during that time, Chen Yu was close to a girl who was three years older than her and worked in the Internet café.
Because the two are the children of a divorced family and can be regarded as the same disease, the two have a common language, chatting from time to time, so that the two get closer and closer.
One day, Chen Qi asked the girl, how can I make more money quickly?
The girl told Chen that she could make more money in Guangzhou.
Chen Qi, who was 15 years old at the time, believed it to be true.
In order to make more money as soon as possible, the naïve Chen Yu plans to follow the girl to Guangzhou to see the outside world.
Chen Qi was afraid that her mother would not agree, so she chose to hide her family, she decided to cut first and play later, and embarked on the train to Guangzhou with the girl that afternoon.
However, Chen Wei had been gone for 12 years and had never contacted his family in the middle of the way.
After Chen Qi disappeared, Chen Yuemei and her husband waited all night in the place where Chen Qi often went, and also searched for more than half a year at the railway station, but there was still no half a message of the ride.
After searching for nearly a year, Chen Yuemei almost gave up.
When Chen Qi arrived in Guangzhou and saw the bigger world outside, she found that the outside world was not as beautiful as she imagined.
Because he has no academic qualifications and is young, Chen Qi can only do the most basic work, and Chen Qi has tried hard and tired work such as foot washing sister and dishwasher.
These jobs not only made her not make a lot of money quickly, but also let the young Chen Wei taste the hardships of life, and her life became more and more difficult.
But even after suffering so much, Chen Qi had never been in contact with his family in 12 years.
A person disappeared out of thin air for 12 years, making the relatives at home once sadly feel that Chen Qi was no longer in the human world.
Why has Chen Qi never been in contact with his family in 12 years?
Second, speaking of Chen Qi's original family, Chen Yuemei cried and said that she was sorry for her daughter
When chatting with reporters, Chen Yuemei talked about the environment in which Chen Qi grew up when he was a child.
Speaking of her daughter Chen Qi, Chen Yuemei was full of guilt, and she always felt sorry for her daughter.
Chen Yuemei said that her daughter Chen Qi's life when she was a child was not happy, and it can even be described as tragic.
Chen Yuemei's marriage to her first husband was not happy, and the two were together for several years, often quarreling over trivial matters in life.
When Chen Qi was 5 years old, Chen Yuemei chose to divorce. At that time, Chen Wei was still young and was sentenced to live with his mother.
But in the heart of the daughter, a family of three is a complete home. Now that she has no father, her daughter often misses her.
Sometimes, Chen Yu cried and called out to his father, which made Chen Yuemei's heart very sad.
What makes Chen Yuemei even more sad is that Chen Yuemei's father did not care about this daughter at all, and when he divorced, he gave 800 yuan in living expenses at one time, and after that, he never gave money and never visited his daughter.
Chen Yuemei is frail and sick, she has no job, the economy is very poor, she has no choice but to send her daughter back to her mother in her hometown, let the old man help with the child.
During this period, Chen Yuemei's mother repeatedly persuaded Chen Yuemei and her husband to remarry. In order to give her daughter a complete home, Chen Yuemei finally chose to remarry her husband.
Chen Yuemei and her husband Li Qi
But life after remarriage is still not satisfactory. Due to the incompatibility between Chen Yuemei and her husband, it didn't take long for the two to start playing again.
In the end, the two chose to divorce.
Later, Chen Qi's biological father remarried again. Chen Yuemei considered that her daughter missed her father very much, and her own economy was also very poor and unable to support her daughter, so she let her daughter Chen Yu live with her father.
At the beginning, Xiao Chen's mood was very excited, and he could finally meet his father, whom he had not seen for a long time, and finally be able to live with them.
However, reality gave Xiao Chen a heavy blow.
Chen Qi's father has remarried and has another child. Because Chen Shu and his father's reborn children can't play together, and they can't feel the warmth of home in his father's home, this makes Xiao Chen's personality become more and more withdrawn, not fond of talking, rebellious, and not listening to adults.
After a long time, Chen Yu did not like to stay in his father's house.
Chen Yuemei helplessly took her daughter back to her side.
Because Chen Yuemei was weak and sickly and had no financial resources, it was already very difficult to live alone, and she could not afford to pay for Chen Qi's study, which eventually led to Chen Qi, who was only 12 years old, dropping out of school!
But life still has to go on, in order to make a living, Chen Yuemei had to take her daughter to work near Changsha to earn a living.
On the way to work, Chen Yuemei met her current husband, and the two soon formed a new family.
Chen Yu has not yet felt the warmth of his mother's love, and his mother Chen Yuemei has also formed a new family.
Since then, Chen Qi has become more non-talkative, and she is accustomed to suppressing all her sadness in her heart.
Chen Qi's aunt said that at that time, a song that Xiao Chen often sang was: Dad has a home, Mom has a home, and the rest is redundant. In Chen Qi's heart, he had already become a superfluous person...
At this time, Chen Qi had grown into a fifteen-year-old girl. Her mind is delicate and sensitive, and she has a lot of things she wants to talk to adults, but no one can say.
For more than a decade, Chen Qi has not felt the warmth of his family, nor has he been able to learn cultural knowledge in school at the age when he should have studied, and he has struggled on the edge of survival every day.
It can be said that Chen Qi's childhood color is gray.
It is said that the children of the poor have long been in charge, and in order to reduce the burden on the family, chen Qi, who is sensible, was introduced to an Internet café at the age of 15.
Chen Qi, who is sensible and caring, will go out early every morning to buy breakfast for his mother, tell her mother to sleep more, and then go out to work.
But what Chen Yuemei did not expect was that Chen Qiu had only been in the class for more than a month and had mysteriously disappeared.
Perhaps in Chen Qi's heart, for this home, she had long wanted to escape...
Three or twelve years later, the mother and daughter in the detention center met again
Under the coordination of relevant departments, the detention center agreed to a brief meeting between Chen Yuemei and Chen Qi.
Chen Yuemei did not expect that the second meeting with her daughter was in the detention center, still separated by an iron fence.
Seeing her daughter Chen Yu again after 12 years, Chen Yuemei could not control her emotions at all and cried. Chen Qi also had a sad face.
In the detention center, Chen Qi told the bitter past of these 12 years.
In order to quickly earn a lot of money that year, Chen Yu chose to go south to Guangzhou.
When the reporter asked Chen Qi why he did not greet the family, Chen Qi said calmly that he was afraid of telling the family at that time, afraid of being scolded, and afraid that his mother would drag her back.
So Chen Yu cut first and then played, and suddenly disappeared.
In 12 years, Chen Qi has never contacted his family, which makes people feel very confused.
When the reporter asked this question, Chen Qi said calmly: "At that time, I thought about making some money and contacting my family. I didn't expect to make any money. I feel that I have not mixed with people in a few years, and I am embarrassed to contact my family. ”
Chen Qi, who did not have contact with his family, not only did not mix up a personal appearance outside, but he mixed more and more sadly.
Chen Qi has no education, is young, and always does the lowest level of work, which not only makes her unable to earn a lot of money, but also unable to guarantee her basic life.
Chen Qi, who was in a different place, had several fox friends and dog friends, and once under the persuasion of his friends, Chen Qi actually took drugs! This is undoubtedly worse for Chen Qi, who has a poor life, and it also makes her go astray.
In order to bear the cost of his own drug use, Chen Qi, who did not understand the law and did not know the law, eventually embarked on the road of drug trafficking.
Due to the large amount of money involved and the large number of drugs trafficked, the case had not yet been tried. However, according to relevant personnel, Chen Qi's punishment may be very heavy, and he may even be sentenced to life imprisonment.
Chen Wei said calmly that she did not understand the law at that time, and did not know that introducing drugs was also the same illegal. Now, she also understands how serious her criminal behavior is, and the sentence she faces may be long, and she may never be able to get out again.
Speaking of this, 27-year-old Chen Qi suddenly lowered his head and cried.
27 years old is a person's golden age, but Chen Qi may spend his life in prison.
postscript
Because the detention center had strict rules on the time of the meeting, Chen Yuemei had to end a brief meeting with Chen Yu.
Afterwards, Chen Yuemei could not suppress her emotions and cried.
She told reporters that she was sorry for her daughter, failed to give her a happy childhood, did not let her daughter receive a good education, and let the ignorant daughter make unforgivable mistakes at an ignorant age.
A few days later, Chen Qi wrote a brief letter to her mother, in which she told her to pay attention to her body, saying that if the court gave a light sentence, she would make a good transformation and return home as soon as possible.
After reading the letter, Chen Yuemei cried and said that on the day Chen Qi came out, she must personally pick up her daughter, never let her daughter go out to work again, and she could support Chen Qi for a lifetime.
Seeing Chen Yuemei's words, the mood was very complicated.
A person's childhood is only once. Happy people will use childhood to heal a lifetime; unfortunate people will heal childhood all their lives.
Chen Qi's unfortunate childhood created her tragic life, and a girl's youth was ruined!
If Chen Qi's childhood is happy, her personality will not be paranoid, rebellious and disobedient; if Chen Qi can receive a good education, she will know that drug trafficking is a crime and will judge right and wrong; if Chen Qi can feel love in childhood, she will not run away from the family, or even not contact her family for twelve years...
Unfortunately, there is no if in the world, maybe Chen Qi already knew that he was wrong, but it was too late.
The impact of parental divorce on children is incalculable! If your parents want to divorce, please treat your poor child well, not only to care about whether she is full and clothed, but also to pay attention to her fragile and wounded heart.
May all children be treated well.