At 33 years old, another difficult choice, should I have a second child full-time?

At the age of 33, I stood at the crossroads of life again, walked to the left, continued to mix in the workplace, became a screw, where I needed to go; walked to the right, returned to the family, brought a big treasure, and fulfilled the wish of the second child.

A family of four pinched by Dabao

Option 1: Continue to mix the workplace

Career is not strong, the promotion space in the workplace, at present, it is 0, there is no room in the future, it depends on the opportunity, and I heard that some positions do not recruit people over the age of 35. Basically, it is the state of ordinary workers, and it is good that there will be a stable income.

Just Dabao after school, dinner, and companionship, there will be a lack, because the elders can not help in the short term, only our little couple can solve it by themselves, either me or my husband.

Chasing the birth of the second child, basically the husband wants, Dabao thinks, I myself am not rejected, but when to give birth? The deadline for 35-year-old mothers is getting closer and closer, and if it is decided to have a second child, it will not be delayed for several years.

Option two: Have a second child full-time

Full-time can first solve the problem of Dabao's pick-up and drop-off, dinner, and daily evening companionship, which can be taken care of. By the way, put the second child plan on the agenda.

Why have a second child? Dabao has wanted to have younger siblings since he was a child, and her husband is an only child, who has experienced the pressure of taking care of sick elders alone, and hopes that Dabao can have a brother and sister to share in the future.

However, without my monthly fixed income, financially, and in life, how much will still be affected. The pressure of raising a baby after pregnancy and giving birth to a second child will also rise sharply, and it is likely that I will have to take two babies at home for at least one or two years.

Really tangled! Can you please help me come up with ideas?