When the biological parents discard their children in the trash can and ignore them; when a couple who are already poor in life pick up their abandoned children in the cold wind, find her parents to accompany her to grow up for her to finish her doctorate.
But at this moment, the former took 500,000 yuan and said to the latter: This is the atonement fee. Are postdoc girls willing to return to the arms of their biological parents? The question must arise here: Who is more important, giving grace or nurturing grace?
One: You don't want me to be first.
In the winter of 1987, a rural town in Hubei Province. Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan went to the hospital.
Because in the early hours of the morning, his wife, Qi Chunlan told her husband that her stomach hurt and that she couldn't stand it. Xiao Chongyang took Qi Chunlan to the hospital. At that time, the sky was just dawning, and there were not many pedestrians on the road.
After all, it is the deep winter period, the cold wind is howling, and even the uncles and aunts who sell breakfast on the side of the road are less than usual.
In the quiet of winter, people are too eager for a touch of warm sun to bring warmth. But there are also some miserable people, why don't they need people as warm as the sun to come close to them?
A strange sound faintly came from a distance, and Qi Chunlan found that there seemed to be something crying there, was it a child? Or what kitten? Qi Chunlan did not know, but continued to walk with her husband in the direction of the hospital.
But the more he walked, the more Qi Chunlan was disturbed by this strange sound.
Did you hear that? What is this sound? It's weird.
Xiao Chongyang also had doubts about this voice, but after all, it had nothing to do with them. So Xiao Chongyang advised Qi Chunlan: Isn't it a stomachache? Breakfast has not yet been eaten, first go to the hospital for examination, let's leave those alone.
But the more this sound sounds, the more it looks like the cry of a small child, is it that the child of the family is lost? Because Qi Chunlan has not been able to give birth, she is particularly sensitive to the topic of baby as a woman. So Qi Chunlan pulled her husband to see with the sound, is it whose child is lost?
The couple looked for the sound and walked closer and closer to a garbage heap near the park, and behind several black garbage bags was a baby wrapped in swaddling, his face was already frozen purple, and even his voice became weak. The time when the child was discarded was at least not just now, and judging from the sound and the child's skin, the doll had been crying for more than a while.
Who is so cruel that they throw the doll in the trash.
The couple first cleaned up the garbage bag next to them, and then took the child into their arms, Xiao Chongyang took off his coat again, and wrapped the thin swaddling baby more tightly.
Qi Chunlan also couldn't take care of her stomach pain, and discussed with her husband whether to hurry home, and the doll was cold and purple. They had to hurry up and keep warm, otherwise the doll's life might not be saved.
Don't go home, isn't the front hospital? Let's take the child to the doctor. Qi Chunlan patted his head, and her husband was right. The couple quickly took the child to the hospital for examination, and the doctor said to hang a little drip on the doll, and the child was frozen.
After taking care of the child, Xiao Chongyang thoughtfully asked Qi Chunlan if she had a stomachache in the morning. This went back to the hospital and hurried to get a check-up. The two tossed and turned, and only returned home in the afternoon.
Who is this child? How did it suddenly appear in the garbage heap? There was nothing in the swaddling that said what the child's last name was. Xiao Chongyang said that most of the dolls were lost by their biological parents, and even if they were scattered, they could not appear in the trash can.
Perhaps because they were too simple and kind, Qi Chunlan and his wife still decided to quickly find their biological parents for the doll. If it is because of some misunderstanding that the child has lost its biological parents, then how sorry this doll has grown up.
10 days have passed, a month has passed, they still have not heard any news, the advertisements that should be posted have also been posted, and the homes that should be visited have also been visited. Before and after, Xiao Chongyang also delayed his work because of this matter, and the boss of the factory did not criticize him less.
When helping this baby girl find her parents, Qi Chunlan overwhelmed her enthusiasm for the child. Because he did not have children, Qi Chunlan, who did not have milk in his body, thought of ways to get some formulas from the elders. For example, mix the steamed bun with some hot milk, make it into a paste, and feed it to the child.
The first time when the mother still had too many strange places, Qi Chunlan was careful in many actions, and when she saw the doll smiling at Qi Chunlan, the woman's heart was melted. She felt that this was the best gift that God had given her. Because she is difficult to conceive a baby for her husband, is the arrival of this child not the best embodiment of the couple's dead wood in the spring?
They began to treat the child as if they were their own, and they loved it.
Two: Days turn from bitter to sweet.
But this is not our child.
Xiao Chongyang said that this doll will one day return to her biological parents, and we can only help take care of it for a while at most. Even if the biological parents don't want it, we can't directly raise the child, and we have to send it to the government.
This time, Qi Chunlan said nothing. At the thought of separating from this doll, Qi Chunlan's eyes became moist. Don't say how much she wants a child, that is, when she gets along with the doll, she has formed an invisible emotion, making herself accustomed to it and not giving up.
The sane Xiao Chongyang finally took his wife to the local government, and after verification by relevant agencies, he adopted the baby girl who had been confirmed to be an abandoned doll. When he was registered, Xiao Chongyang gave the child a name called Jingjing.
From that moment on, the doll was no longer an abandoned treasure. She will have someone to love, someone to give her a home.
Xiao Chongyang originally worked in the factory, but the original work unit made a reform, and a large area of layoffs in the factory. Xiao Chongyang left his job and became an unemployed vagrant at home, thinking that his wife and children were waiting for him to earn money to support his family. The man took on the burden of responsibility and went outside to do hard work, such as sending gas and coal.
At that time, the traffic was not convenient, riding a three-wheeled pull scooter, after arriving in the community, some high-rise households did not have elevators, Xiao Chongyang could only carry gas or heavy objects on his shoulders and carry them to others.
Are the days hard? For Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan, this is not bitter. Because mature people have the ability to transform bitterness into sweetness in the face of responsibility.
Xiao Jingjing slowly grew up and became more and more sensible. She is at the top of her studies, has a very sensible and docile personality, is a polite little girl in the eyes of her neighbors, and is a proud good student in the eyes of her parents.
But in 2001, Qi Chunlan suddenly became seriously ill, and Xiao Chongyang lost his hair overnight. On the deathbed of his wife, she still insisted that Xiao Chongyang tell her daughter the mystery of her life.
Qi Chunlan took Xiao Jingjing's hand and expounded the past of the winter of 1987 word by word. Jingjing refused to believe it, although she had more or less heard some rumors from the ears of her neighbors, but she did not believe it, but she did not expect that other people's jokes had become true.
Jingjing cried into tears, and she asked Qi Chunlan why she told herself this. Obviously, they have become a real family, and why should they put the matter of identity on the table, as if there is a gap between them.
The adoptive mother said: It is a fact that we tell you to respect your every decision. That is to say, Qi Chunlan believes that Xiao Jingjing chooses to return to her biological parents in the future, so that the choice of her biological parents will certainly be respected.
Jingjing collapsed, and she had to accept two difficult problems for a while, one was the death of her adoptive mother, and the other was her own identity. This girl's psychology is also very strong, she turns grief into strength, and focuses on learning.
In 2009, because of his outstanding academic performance, his character was recognized by professional tutors. Therefore, Jingjing was sent by her alma mater, Huazhong Agricultural University, to the University of Pirano in Canada as a doctor.
Xiao Jingjing stayed in Qi Chunlan's cemetery accompanied by her adoptive father for an afternoon, and he took the hardships of his studies over the years and some trivial matters in life as a common thing to his adoptive mother.
Also, she said, "Mom, I miss you."
Jingjing regards Qi Chunlan as a mother, which is an emotion that crosses blood and genes. Qi Chunlan was gone in 2001. In the following days, Xiao Jingjing, who is slowly growing up, will also shoulder the responsibility of facing the family and treating her adoptive father.
But who ever thought that everything would go in a good direction, but his biological parents knocked on the door of his house with a 500,000 yuan ransom fee.
Three: Do I have to forgive my mistakes?
Originally, Jingjing should be surnamed Yang.
Mr. and Mrs. Yang knocked on the door of Xiao Jingjing's house with some gifts and dressed in a noble manner. At that time, Xiao Chongyang was still outside to send gas to people. After receiving a call from the couple, he hurried home. I found that in the corner of the sofa in the living room, there sat Jingjing, who was silent with her head bowed.
He also did not know what kind of choice his daughter would make, but according to Qi Chunlan's explanation to him in 2001, he would never stop his daughter from running to his biological parents, and they should respect their daughter's choice.
Xiao Chongyang also sat down on the sofa, and Mr. and Mrs. Yang expressed the purpose of their visit, saying that they would pay the Xiao family 500,000 thanks, but hoped that Jingjing could change her surname back and return to them.
As for the reason why Jingjing was abandoned by her biological parents many years ago, they explained: Jingjing already had three daughters on top, and there were many old people in that era who hoped that their daughter-in-law could give birth to a son for their own family.
Therefore, Jingjing's mother became pregnant with the fourth child after being under such pressure, but she still gave birth to a female doll. The in-laws' bad looks, coupled with the couple's business has gone downhill, the reality of not being able to make ends meet finally makes the couple choose to abandon their fourth child.
After Jingjing was sent to a garbage dump in a park, they immediately moved. Later, I also heard from my old friend that someone had taken an abandoned baby around to look for her biological mother, but they did not have the courage to return to that place. So this difference is 24 years, and now Xiao Jingjing is already a representative of Kochi women, and she has become a female doctor.
Did the biological parents come at this time only because the family business was getting better and better?
Xiao Jingjing was angry, and she said: Is it because I was left in the trash by you because I did not meet your expectations of having a son?
This question seems to be in a word, straight to the point.
Mr. and Mrs. Yang were silent, and Xiao Jingjing said the second sentence, directly indicating her attitude: There was only one father and mother in my eyes, that is, Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan.
Many people see here, may feel that Xiao Jingjing this child did not have a white upbringing. But when the female doll was able to say this in front of her own parents. Who would have thought of the pressure and waves that this child had experienced in his heart?
Perhaps on a night when no one cares, Xiao Jingjing will cry after learning her identity, and no emotional animal will accept the fact that she has been abandoned.
Everyone needs warmth, doesn't they?
It is not Xiao Jingjing who cannot freeze in winter, the swaddling doll, the cold brought by the original family, and the lack of attention of the biological parents, which will be more piercing than the howling wind in winter. So for What Xiao Jingjing said - raising grace is greater than shengen, will you support it?