"There is a life but no one raises" What kind of trauma will be caused by the psychology of those abandoned children?

In the past two days, it is estimated that when everyone brushed vibrato, they estimated that they saw the news that a two-year-old boy was abandoned by his father.

Because my parents divorced my father didn't want to abandon the little boy on the side of the road when he was raising the child, and watching the little boy's non-crying, well-behaved appearance hurt my heart. Or a two-year-old child, should be in the arms of their parents to play and play, carefree age, but because the parents divorced and the father did not want to raise the result of abandonment, then the child's heart is how to feel, not to mention the child is small and ignorant, but he can feel it, and when he grows up, he will definitely have trauma and burden. Fortunately, the child's mother was willing to take the child home, so that the child did not hurt the child for a second time.

As a parent of a child, you should respect your obligation to raise the child and take care of the child, rather than abandoning the child when you do not want to raise or do not want, the child is not an object you want to collect, when you do not want to abandon, this is not responsible for the child, not responsible for life, not responsible for society.

If when the child grows up and knows that he was abandoned by his father when he was a child, what does he think, how much will it affect his psychology, how much burden will it have? What kind of psychology will he look at his father, or even the world?

The child is the crystallization of the love of two people, it is born when the mother is ten months pregnant and risks her life, he is not what you want to call, he is a life, not you can abandon it if you don't want it.

Have you ever wondered what will happen to your child in the future when you do this, he will psychologically cause wounds that will never heal, will be insecure in the future life, will have low self-esteem, or even more serious. Have you ever wondered what will happen when he enters school or society, and what he should do? Who pays for everything he has, and who is responsible for his life? That's how there is no one to raise.

In other words, abandonment is against the law, if you are not planning to have children, then please do not have children, be responsible for yourself, responsible for children, responsible for life, please consider whether to give birth to him, if you do not love, please do not cruelly take him out and then abandon him. If you love, please be responsible for him seriously, love him well, and take care of him.

If you are born without raising, then you might as well not be born.