Rene Liu sang in the song "Later, finally in tears, I understood that some people are not there once they miss it"
Now there are too many people who treat their feelings as a joke, break up without a word, always think that there will be a better person waiting for themselves in the back, but they lose the person they love the most.
We will meet thousands of people in this life, but there is only one person who loves the most, we must learn to cherish the person in front of us, do not wait for him to lose it before regretting it, not every abandoned person will always stand in the same place and wait for you to turn back.
Colleague Dongzi and girlfriend in love for five years, the two often quarrel, Dongzi's girlfriend is sticky, although the temper is big but particularly good, every time the quarrel Dongzi casually two sentences girlfriend will smile.
Friends around them have ridiculed Dongzi for eating his girlfriend to death, and Dongzi laughed and did not speak, but he also thought so in his heart.
Until after a quarrel between the two, Dongzi said the word "break up" again, and then snatched the door out, this time the girlfriend did not humble to reunite, until Dongzi played enough to coax his girlfriend, but found that he had already blocked all the contact information.
Dongzi panicked instantly, he found his girlfriend's home, confessed his mistake and asked for a compound, the girlfriend just looked at her coldly and said, "I'm tired, every time you quarrel you have to break up, I'm tired, this time as you wish", Dongzi still wanted to say something, but the girlfriend directly closed the door, this time they broke up completely.
Many people are the same, always put the "breakup" on their lips, the two words as a magic weapon, no matter what contradictions occur, the two words of breakup, there will inevitably be one party to surrender first.
In fact, because the other party said that the person who bowed his head after the breakup, it is not that he really did something wrong, nor is it inseparable from you, but because he loves too much, does not want to easily give up this relationship, and is reluctant to give up you will take the initiative to bow his head to save the relationship.
Two people together for a long time, there will definitely be some contradictions, misunderstandings, but we can not choose to break up because of these things, the world does not have a perfect fit of two people, no matter who they are with, will face friction, if every time we encounter a problem will only be solved by breaking up, then we can only fall into a fresh sense of dead cycle, in love again and again to lose the person we love the most.
What we need is a healthy and stable relationship, not this kind of love that says breakup all day, insecure love, the more the breakup is mentioned, everyone will be immune, but when that time is really hurt deeply, the person will definitely turn around and leave and never look back.
Feelings of mutual affection are rare, and not everyone is fortunate enough to find someone they love. Since you have met, you must cherish it well, do not think that the other party can not do without you because the other party loves more, and do not easily let go of the other party's people.
Some people always like to fight in love to win or lose, when the word breakup blurted out, watching the other party's retention over and over again, admitting mistakes again and again will feel that they have won, and their hearts are painful. Take the other party's regression as a matter of course, thinking that the other party loves more.
The person who often mentions the breakup will proudly think that he will definitely be fine without the other party, and even think that he can meet better people if he is so good.
But don't forget, we are all ordinary people among all sentient beings, not very special and very good, we are not people who shine, it is the light in the eyes of people who love us who love us.
I have met too many self-righteous people in love, most of them are those who easily say break up, just began to immerse themselves in the free joy of being single every day, and after a period of time, they will find that they have lost something, and look back, the former lover has long disappeared in the sea of people and can no longer be found.
In the past, the car and horse mail were slow, and only one person could be loved in a lifetime, and now everything is developing rapidly, and the lover seems to be able to change and change, but after talking about a few loves, I understand that there will only be one person who wholeheartedly gives all his feelings to love in his life, some people are very happy and that person has gone through a lifetime, some people are more unfortunate, and after losing, they will never meet that kind of person again, and their whole life is full of regrets.
Love is very important, but the responsibility and responsibility in love is more important, since you choose to be together, you must be responsible for each other, responsible for feelings, no matter what you encounter, you must firmly hold each other's hands and walk down together.
Don't easily say break up because of a momentary stubborn impulse, no one will still be silly waiting for each other in the same place after being abandoned, some feelings missed will not be repeated, some people will never find it again when they let go.
Love each other well, don't live up to the person who has always been by your side, I hope that we will still be us later, and we will never leave regrets in love.
(The materials in the article are all based on real cases)