Lu You has a well-known family training that has always been used as a template for family education: "Those who are sharp in the future are the most perishable." If so, the father and brother should be worried, and they should not be happy... Its worrying things, cover not one end. This means that children behave very smart when they are young, which is actually not a good thing, and parents should pay attention to it and pay attention to guidance, otherwise the wizards can easily become mediocre.
In other words, it is "the hour is up, and the big is not necessarily better." I believe that everyone has seen some children who were particularly smart when they were young, and their performance when they grow up always makes people feel that they are too different from when they were young. During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang's nephew Zhuge Ke belonged to Lu You's "prodigy" when he was a child, but his situation when he grew up could only be described as "difficult to say a word".
As for Zhuge Liang himself, he has always been regarded as the embodiment of wisdom, he is not only a revered minister of the people of the Western Shu region, but also a representative of "divine ingenuity" and "bowing down to death and then dying", which has always been highly respected. Zhuge Liang himself is not perfect, but we always feel that he is perfect, because Zhuge Liang's advantages overshadow his shortcomings, but when it comes to Zhuge Liang's son, everyone's rating is a little low.
Master Yan does not necessarily produce a high disciple, and the tiger father can also teach the dog, which is a very common situation, and it does not appear only in Zhuge Liang alone. Of course, Zhuge Liang's son Zhuge Zhan is not useless, but some of his names are not worthy of the name, his good name in shu Han can be said to be well known to everyone, and everyone has high hopes, but his final end is because he hesitated to miss the fighter and was defeated by the Wei general Deng Ai.
Zhuge Zhan died in this battle to protect Shu and was criticized by posterity. In contrast, Sima Yi's son always gives people an impression of "the dragon and phoenix among men", which is mainly brought by Sima Shi and Sima Zhao's two concubines, and Sima Yi's ninth son, Sima Lun, is also a mediocre talent. However, the most special thing about Sima Shi and Sima Zhao is that they belong to the talents cultivated by their fathers.
The talents of the two men were not only reflected in the government and politics, but also in leading soldiers. Neither of them claimed the title of emperor, but they successively took over the scepter of the Sima family, laying the foundation for the Sima family to replace Cao Wei and establish the Jin Dynasty. All along, everyone's impression of Zhuge Liang has been better than Sima Yi, why is the comparison between the situation of the son taught by the two unexpected?
The reason is simple: Zhuge Liang taught his son to be a "gentleman", while Sima Yi taught his son to be a "villain". The gentleman and villain here do not deal with moral issues, but only talk about the two attitudes of people when doing things. Just like when we participate in the work, we will encounter two types of bosses - one is to talk about feelings, talk about the way of a gentleman, and the sentiments of life, emphasizing that we should not consider the immediate interests, but should strive for the ideal;
The other is much simpler and more rude, directly telling you how much money I can give you, what you want to do for me, talk about cooperation, talk about not saying goodbye. Zhuge Liang wrote the "Book of Commandments" to teach his son to be a gentleman, because his status, popularity, and image in the Shu Han were all placed there, and he naturally valued the family style, and did not want his son to make mistakes to disgrace the Zhuge family; and everyone also out of respect for Zhuge Liang, constantly praised Zhuge Zhan, and exaggerated him a little vainly, this kind of vanity has no way to supplement, it is fatal.
And Sima Yi's way of taking Sima Shi and Sima Zhao was different from Zhuge Liang's. He did not have an unbreakable position like Zhuge Liang, from the beginning, Sima Yi was careful to survive in Cao Wei, experienced great ups and downs, he took his two sons with him, they witnessed how his father was witty, and naturally understood how to do practical things. Of course, there are more differences between the two educations, here only explore the aspect of "doing practical things", as for more content, it is left for everyone to teach!