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01. Preface
Writer Su Gengsheng said: "Some people say that it is normal for people to encounter love and money in their lives, and only understanding is valuable." I think it's ridiculous, understanding is ineffective, and love and money are real. ”
Love needs to be expressed, in words, less than one-tenth. Love set off by practical actions and material foundations is sweet and real enough.
A woman, whether she is doing well or not, can be seen from the way she "spends money".
From the attitude of women spending money, it can also be seen that men do not care about her in the end. Being loved, being understood, being cared for, is what happiness looks like.
In daily life, you need to spend money everywhere.
Whether a woman has a "rich life" can be seen from the gesture when spending money. Because, spending money to see the bottom line, but also to see a person's ability.
The more confident and capable the woman, the more calm she is when spending money.
02, spend money, see a woman's bottom
In life, women who spend money without confidence often have a bad life.
In "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", He Yichen is a dedicated man who knows how to love. Zhao Mosheng was with him, the two people received a marriage license, and he handed in his salary card for the first time.
And when I was with Zhao Mosheng, I knew that she was a "little confused" and always loved to forget to put money. He Yichen would generously give her all his wallet and instruct the other party: "Don't bargain."
Women can spend money to have confidence, is the beginning of a happy life. Women who are loved tend to be unscrupulous, and sweet smiles will often overflow on their faces.
Women with confidence will not be afraid to spend money to satisfy themselves.
Whether you want to eat ice cream, or a big meal, you want to travel, or buy a very expensive piece of clothing. As long as you think for yourself, you can achieve it.
Economic stress-free is the real happiness.
On the contrary, if a woman is careful everywhere when spending money, and everywhere she is patient and unwilling, then she must be unhappy.
Because, a woman does not even have the courage to spend money, then her life may have a lot of pressure and live without self.
Therefore, when you dispose of money, you will be aggrieved to ignore your own needs.
03, the ability to spend money and meet a woman
Capable women, spend money with peace of mind, no pressure, no worries.
If a woman blindly saves in life, she can live her life. I was stretched thin and cried for a very small thing. Well, she must be unhappy.
A large part of the reason why a woman is unhappy is because she is not independent enough to support her own life.
In life, the lack of ability is the hard wound in life. There is no ability, so it will be frightened by the wind and waves of life; it will save everywhere in life, dare not spend money, and grievance themselves.
Truly intelligent women will constantly improve their abilities, do what they want to do, and improve their financial base.
A capable woman, good at self-investment, whether there is a man to love her or not, she has the ability to meet all her needs.
Women, who have the ability to save money, spend their own money to buy things is a reward and glory.
Independent and capable women, spending money more confidently, will also live a more fulfilled and fulfilling sense.
04, spend money, see a woman's way of life
Women who are good at spending money will have planning and their lives will be orderly.
Every woman with a pattern can always spend money reasonably and plan for the future reasonably. For the sake of later life, you can always save money in advance and be prepared.
On the road of life, there are winds and rains everywhere. Only by being prepared can we live more confidently.
Truly capable women are willing to spend money and save money. Never spend all the money you earn at once, never squander your money without reservation in order to enjoy life.
Spending money can make a person buy happiness, and it can also make a person usher in the wind and frost.
Only reasonable spending of money and planned savings can reduce the risk of life and make life more stable.
Women, on the road of life, the money that should be spent, don't always save. The money that should not be spent, the money that should not be spent, must be reduced and reduced.
At the same time, constantly improve their own growth plan, in order to become a better person, make more money.
05. Summary
In life, whether a woman is living well or not can be seen from "spending money".
In the movie "Parasite", it is said: Money, like an iron, can iron all the folds of life.
The more women with "rich and noble lives", the more they know how to constantly improve themselves, constantly invest in themselves, make themselves stronger and more independent, and make their roads more flat and broad.
Women have the courage to spend money, whether it comes from love or themselves, is an ability. To run your family and career well is to add "double insurance" to your life.
Continuous progress and growth is an effective measure to resist risks.
On the road of life, at any time, don't forget to improve yourself. The more capable you are, the more capable you are to make money. Spending money will also lead to confidence and happiness.
When a woman can spend money as she pleases, she can also easily make money. You can also continue to increase your insights and enhance your ability, which is the state of "living well".
Spending money more confidently is a sign of the continuous improvement of quality of life.
No matter what level you are at, don't give up on yourself and work hard to fight. If you can make money and have a higher pursuit of life, such a life will have motivation, hope, and more fun.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.