Why are there more and more people with depression at present?

Some netizens asked: "Why are there more and more depressed patients at present?" ”

Lucky people will not pay much attention to these special groups, the understanding of this is probably from relevant reports, TV series, and the intuitive impression of "more and more" probably only stays on those percentage data.

And I, as a mother of a depressed child, as a percentage member of statistics, "more and more depressed patients, more and more young", that is directly a strong impact on many picture senses. For example, the traffic seen during hospitalization and outpatient clinics, and the communication of netizens when writing articles on the Internet, it is a living life, a life with infinite possibilities, and a family with ups and downs.

There are really a lot of them, and they are getting younger and younger.

In the past three years, I have taken my daughter to four hospitalizations, N outpatient visits, online posts, and met too many families in the same predicament.

Outpatient registration relies on grabbing, and it is really a matter of setting an alarm clock every second. The doctor sees a doctor like a war, and in a few minutes he will be next.

Inpatient beds need to be queued by appointment. When you are hospitalized, you often hear the nurse station answering the phone: "There is no bed, you register first, and then notify you when there is a bed." "It's not a strange phenomenon in one hospital, it's the same in all three hospitals we've been in.

The phenomenon of younger age is obvious, with the average age of admission in 2019 being 14-15 years old, with the youngest being 12 years old. The average age at hospitalisation in 2020 is 12-13 years, with the youngest being 8 years old. The department director said there were still younger children who had asked to be hospitalized and that the hospital had not admitted them.

Most of these children are bored with school, addicted to mobile phones, irritable, and sleep disorders.

Is the cause of illness the stress of studying and the phone?

My personal experience is rooted in my original family, in an unhappy childhood. The so-called schools, the learning pressures, the environment are just the inducements.

Childhood is no longer golden, no friends, no free running, not even time to lie on the grass and look up at the blue sky in a daze, and even the right to adequate sleep has been ruthlessly deprived!

Because you can't lose on the starting line, because you have to interview from elementary school, because only 40% to 50% of the children in the middle school exam can go to high school, because you have to eat the pain of learning, don't eat the hardships of life...

Children are transformed into learning tools, all kinds of tutoring, all kinds of tutoring, all kinds of brush problems.

There is only one way left, you must read a good book, go to a good university, and find a good job.

The monotonous and boring life without choice prematurely overdrafts the children's life energy and internal drive.

The score becomes the performance of the children, and the high score can enjoy the high-quality love of the parents. Otherwise, parents tend to become unrecognizable and fierce.

Go to school, the pressure is great! Back home, the pressure is double! Vast world, nowhere to escape, no one to complain, suffering is far away...

How can you not be depressed?

If today's children travel back in time to our past, there is a high probability that they will grow up smoothly.

And when we become today's children, we are most likely to be depressed.

Thinking in this way helps to cultivate empathy and empathy with the child, so that there is power to help and support the child to get out of the inner demons and regain a new life. Instead of getting caught up in meaningless internal friction and confrontation with the child.