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For a relationship, the person you love deeply also loves you, which is the greatest consummation.
The beauty of love is the brilliant spark of two hearts colliding, which is intoxicating; it is two people who move forward hand in hand and advance and retreat together.
However, not all love has a beginning and an end, some people walk and disperse, and some feelings slowly fade.
Many times, one of the two people in love will leave the scene early, leaving the other to mourn alone.
If, the man you love, begins to become cold in his attitude towards you, it is likely that his heart has changed.
If he has the following three performances, most of them are signals that he no longer loves, and if he understands it, he does not have to force it.
1, emotionally no longer enthusiastic, all scrawled perfunctory
It is said that the heart will go with love, and when love is there, the heart is there.
When a man is no longer interested in you, his indifference is chilling and he will change his attitude completely.
First of all, he does not take the initiative to contact you, no longer expects to meet you as before, and even if he meets occasionally, he is no longer as enthusiastic, passive and indifferent as before.
From a psychological point of view, love is a subjective emotion of people, when people are eager to fall in love with a person, they will unconsciously show great enthusiasm, full of joy when they meet, and miss it very much when they do not see it.
Of course, when a man wants to give up this feeling, he will also unconsciously show it, and the coldness in his eyes and the perfunctory conversation will clearly write impatience on his face.
Second, when you take the initiative, he will reply to the message very slowly, or simply do not reply.
Men are naturally afraid of trouble, he is afraid of taking the initiative to break up, you will cry endlessly, retain or pester, he can only deal with it in a cooling way first.
The most common thing in human nature is to avoid when encountering problems, which is the most time-saving and labor-saving way to deal with it, or he has not thought about how to tell you.
From this point of view, when men do not want to maintain a relationship, they will behave indifferently, perfunctorily or directly miss contact.
2, no longer invest in energy, your business has nothing to do with him
People tend to focus on things they think are valuable or interesting, and expect that their efforts will be rewarded accordingly.
The same is true in relationships, when a man falls in love with a woman, he will spend time, energy, and money on the other person in exchange for a pleasant emotional experience.
When in love, men will see your things as the most important part, when you need him, he will be the first to appear, he will care about everything about you, do his best to protect you.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng cheated on a third party Ling Ling in marriage, and after he proposed a divorce to Luo Zijun, he said bitterly to Ling Ling: "Just because she is too good, naïve, and ignorant of the world, so I have been protecting her and isolating all the bad things from her, but I am also an ordinary person, sometimes I also need someone to share my pressure and anxiety, why don't you appear earlier?" ”
Is Chen Junsheng cheating because Luo Zijun is not good? Or is she not naïve anymore? Empowered? No, it is Chen Junsheng's heart that has changed, and this feeling has deviated more and more from his original intention.
When a man loves a woman, he wants to do everything he can to protect her for a lifetime, and when he empathizes with her, there will be many excuses and reasons, which is an explanation of his heart.
When he loves you, he worries about you, he worries about you, when he no longer loves, he no longer cares about how you are, he doesn't care about you, he doesn't care about your things, he doesn't care about your things.
3, emotionally no longer tolerated, full of your fault
Love is the process by which two people learn each other's strengths, like reading an interesting book and constantly discovering surprises and surprises from it.
And after being familiar enough, the thought of continuing this relationship requires constantly digesting each other's shortcomings.
If love begins with fresh attraction, then the criterion for verifying true love is the degree of tolerance between each other.
In fact, no matter how much you love someone, there are always parts of the person you don't like, and these places will become more and more obvious as time goes by.
The end of many feelings is that you can't tolerate the things that you don't like in the other person.
If, the man starts to be critical of you, constantly pointing out your mistakes and shortcomings, accompanied by a disgusted expression and tone, indicating that he is no longer willing to tolerate everything about you, and your relationship is coming to an end.
As Yi Shu said: When a man no longer loves his woman, it is wrong for her to cry, it is wrong to be silent, it is wrong to breathe alive, and it is wrong to die.
Conclusion: When the man you love has the above situation, it is most likely a manifestation that he no longer loves.
There is no longer a gentle light in his eyes when he looks at you, he is indifferent to whatever difficulties you encounter, and what you do is wrong in his eyes, indicating that he is slowly moving you out of his heart.
Feelings are an extremely complex thing, and the love or non-love for a person seems to be inexplicable, and sometimes even they can't say it clearly.
Therefore, there is no one right or wrong, since the other party's heart is no longer in your place, there is no need to try to keep it, even if you are humble to the dust, it still can't change the end of the story.
It is better to dry your tears, lift your head, and use a gorgeous turn to meet the next love.