Lead:
As we all know, there are many halfway couples who are licensed to remarry now, after all, not every relationship can have a good result in the end, if there is no luck to go to the whitehead with the first person, then look forward to the second marriage can redeem themselves.
Remarried couples already belong to a very normal need, after all, not all old people can endure loneliness, every time they go out to watch others in pairs, they will inevitably feel envious.
Remarried couples originally hoped to have personal support, accompanied by someone around, and their lives could be better, but there are also some remarried couples who just got together, and they broke up in a hurry because of some contradictions, in fact, the reasons are nothing more than those few, because of children, or because of money.
All in all, it is very difficult for a second-married couple to operate, after all, each has its own children, and they have to plan for their own children, and it is easy to become selfish, so that the other half can't stand to propose a breakup.
Uncle Qin originally thought that his later life would be happier because of remarriage, but not ten days after remarriage, he proposed to break up, the reason is that the other half is too much, too demanding, but the other half said that he is too stingy, what is the matter? Let's look down together.
65-year-old Uncle Qin's self-statement:
My surname is Qin, 65 years old this year, has been retired for several years, because I used to be a technical person in the unit, so now the pension is still quite much, a month can have a salary of 6,000 yuan, many people feel that the old man has a pension in his old age, then basically will live very well, but in my opinion, the old man may not be able to live happily, because happiness This thing has many factors, not only is the material given, but also the spirit is satisfied, and I belong to the economy, but also have no spirit to rely on.
When I was young, I used to be very happy, because I had a very good old partner, although we met through blind dates, but we were very loving after marriage, perhaps because we both had good moral character, we felt that we had to live a good life when we got married, so we were all responsible people, and after marriage, we also worked together to make this family happier and happier.
When I was young, because I was the elite backbone of the unit, the unit always arranged for me to go on business trips, sometimes it was several months after I left, my wife was at home to take care of the housework, my elderly parents and newborn children were taken care of by the old partner, and having such a wife really made me feel very fortunate.
It is because of her taking care of this family behind me that I have no worries about work, I think that if there is no wife, there will be no work achievements when I was young, and naturally there will be no pension that I have now, so in addition to my parents, I am most grateful to my wife.
I have always wanted to retire after I must take my wife out for a walk, and make up for the debt I owed her when I was young, but my wife is really a bitter person, not long after I retired, my wife died, although I know that life and death parting is a common human feeling, but watching the people closest to me go like this, my heart will still be sad.
For a long time I could not come out of this shadow, I felt worthless for my wife, such a kind and virtuous woman, suffered for a lifetime, but finally did not enjoy a little and left, it was really too unfair, that time, at night my tears could not stop flowing down, always felt that my heart was blocked, there was no appetite to eat during the day, and my body lost a lot of weight.
Without my wife's care, my life is a mess, I can't cook, so I can only order takeout every day, eat unhealthy food, I don't clean up, and the house is always messed up by me. My son saw that I was having such a bad time now, so he offered to let me move in with him, and I thought that with my son to accompany me, I might be in a better mood if I had a new environment with my son.
When I first started to go to my son's house, the days were quite good, I teased my little grandson every day, I didn't need to worry about the housework at home, the daughter-in-law would arrange it, but after living in the son's home for a year, the daughter-in-law began to have opinions about me, because the daughter-in-law was at home full-time with the child, so every time I slept until noon to get up, I was used to going to bed early and getting up early, so I said a few words to the daughter-in-law, but I didn't expect to provoke the daughter-in-law's disgust.
Daughter-in-law always said that I don't love to be clean, only take a bath once a week, I don't like to brush my teeth, I feel hurt my self-esteem when I listened, after all, I used to say one thing in the unit, no one ever dared to talk to me like this, so I packed up my things and went back to my hometown in a huff.
I live alone in my hometown, although some lonely, but fortunately no one cares about me, but every time a person is always entangled in what to eat, the dishes are not more or less, eating alone is also particularly uninteresting, for a long time on life is all complaining, blame God why let me be so pitiful alone.
I looked at the single old people around me who were looking for a wife, and I looked at their rosy faces, as if they were living a good life, so I also had the idea of finding another wife, because it was too hard to live alone.
In order to find my wife as soon as possible, I asked all my relatives and friends to pay attention to it for me, and also paid money to sign up for a blind date, before and after I met no less than a dozen blind dates, but none of them made me satisfied. I found that these second-married women are not looking for wives at all, they all have their own purpose, that is, to find a rich man to support them.
Because they opened their mouths and closed their mouths is money, asked me how much my pension is a month, asked me if I have a house in the city, and asked if the living expenses after marriage are out of me, and even more cheeky to ask me, willing to marry his son's daughter-in-law's money, although the woman is indeed young and beautiful, but I am still scared away by her, what is the use of being beautiful, and with such a woman, I am afraid that my old book will be ruined by her!
Just when I was about to lose confidence, I met Xiao Zhou, Xiao Zhou was ten years younger than me, just retired, the pension was not as high as mine, only 3,000 yuan a month, but I was looking for a daughter-in-law to live, I didn't care about the other party's economic conditions, as long as she sincerely wanted to be with me, these were not the most important, anyway, I had a pension and there was a deposit, even if she did not have a pension, our life could be very good.
Xiao Zhou's old partner also died of illness, has been dependent on her daughter for her life, Xiao Zhou said that she went to her daughter's home is her housework with children, but then the son-in-law is always critical of her, she wants to go back to her hometown to find an old partner to live.
As soon as I heard that she was doing housework at my daughter's house, I thought she must be a very virtuous woman, and I wouldn't have to worry about at least three meals a day.
We talked about love for three months, Xiao Zhou has always behaved very decently, often cares about me, but never asks me for gifts, goes out to eat and AA with me, I think this woman is not trying to make my money, and those realistic women are not the same, it didn't take long for us to get married.
Xiao Zhou did not ask me for a bride price, but I still think I should express it, I gave her 10,000 yuan, Xiao Zhou is still very happy, looking at her eyebrows and smiling, I think my old age has finally fallen, but I did not expect that these are Xiao Zhou deliberately behaved in this way, after marriage she began to expose the real face!
We just got the license, Xiao Zhou said to manage the money for me, because she used to be an accountant, I didn't want to give it to her at all, but she was embarrassed with me, and didn't cook for me to eat, and then I was really forced to have no way, so I handed over a deposit of 100,000 yuan to her, Xiao Zhou saw the deposit and had a much better attitude towards me, and the food was more delicious.
In fact, I think it is worth spending this money, because usually the housework and cooking at home are all done by Xiao Zhou, I don't have to worry about it, and she cooks very delicious, which makes me worry a lot in my later years.
Only a few times I heard her call her daughter and say give her money, and later I learned that Xiao Zhou took my savings as her own, all used to help her daughter, and the deposit of 100,000 was only 60,000, which made me particularly angry, that was my money, she did not say hello to her daughter, it was really too much.
I confronted Xiao Zhou in person, but Xiao Zhou said reasonably: "You are my husband, it is natural to spend money on me, and besides, I wash and cook at home every day, you are not allowed to give me some living expenses?" If you are so stingy, we will not be able to live this day! ”
After listening to Xiao Zhou's words, I am also angry, I can spend money on Xiao Zhou, but I will never spend money on her daughter, she is not my biological daughter, even if it is, the daughter should not be old again when she is old, and Xiao Zhou did not greet me and took my money privately, what is the difference between this and stealing?
Because of this matter, I had a big quarrel with Xiao Zhou, I felt that she was cheeky, she felt that I was stingy, and neither of the two people would admit to being wrong, and I found that Xiao Zhou was trying to make money for me, and she didn't want to live with me at all, and finally broke up unhappily.
Later we did not talk for a long time, and finally I proposed a divorce, I really did not expect that it was not easy for the elderly to find an old partner, I only remarried for ten days and divorced, it was really the old face was lost.
epilogue:
True love is the most precious thing in the world, not everyone is so lucky to have it, if we don't have that good luck, meet a partner who is really suitable for being together, then there is no need to force, as long as their financial ability is OK, then they can also spend their old age well, don't be too demanding, some things are predestined, if you have to remarry for the sake of remarriage and remarriage, you will find that some remarried people have not had a good life, remarried or follow the fate, do not follow the trend, what do you think? Welcome to leave a comment.