preface:
The 73-year-old Uncle Wei said that he did not ask the nanny not to go to the nursing home, but to find a young nanny to serve in his old age. Let's take a look at his experience!
73-year-old Uncle Liu:
When I was young, I divorced my wife because I couldn't stand my wife's personality, after I married my wife, she was very strong, always liked me to listen to her, if I didn't listen to her, she would be angry with me, and then toss the house to the chicken and dog jump, I felt very tired, so I carried her outside to find a lover, my lover is a very gentle person, she is very considerate, very understanding of my ideas, I think it is very happy to be with her, so after I am with my lover, I will pay little attention to my wife, Even if my wife often quarreled with me at that time, I chose to turn a blind eye, I always used cold violence against my wife, after a long time, my wife could not stand it, and then she proposed divorce with me, at that time I did not have any feelings for her, I felt that divorce was a good choice, so I quickly went through the divorce procedures with her.
After I divorced my wife, I was with my lover, we were very happy together at the beginning, but after a long time together, I found that she also changed, she became similar to my ex-wife, she always liked to manage me, I usually drank with friends she couldn't stand it, she always felt that I would do sorry for her things, I was a man, drinking with friends was a very normal thing, and I had some friends of the opposite sex was also normal, at that time my lover had been messing with me, because she made too much trouble, I felt annoyed, So I proposed to break up with my lover, and at that time, the lover also felt tired, so he agreed to break up.
After breaking up with that lover, I talked about a few girlfriends, but we didn't go to the end, I always felt that those women didn't understand me, always liked to manage me, I was a person who liked freedom, I didn't like the feeling of being bound, so I chose to live alone, I think people like me are more suitable for living alone, a person is free, at that time I also played ambiguous with different women, but I never wanted to be with them, because I knew that if I was together, They're going to start me, and I don't like being managed.
Years have passed, my age is also older, after I am older, I am not so playful, I want to live a simple life, so I think of my original wife and children, and then I went to them, I told them that I knew that I was wrong, I wanted to live well with them, I wanted them to give me a chance, but they were unwilling to forgive me, they said that their hearts have been broken, they have hated me, do not want to have anything to do with me, I feel very uncomfortable to hear them say that, I know I did something wrong, but now I'm genuinely repentant, so why can't they give me a chance?
After I was older, because no one took care of me, so I went to live in a nursing home, after living in a nursing home for a while, I was reluctant to live in a nursing home, because living in a nursing home was very depressing, I couldn't stand that kind of environment, after returning from the nursing home, I hired a babysitter for myself, anyway, at that time I didn't have too many ideas, I also had a pension every month, enough for me to hire a nanny, my nanny is a rural person, her husband used to be a very careful person, She couldn't stand her husband like that, so she divorced her husband, after she divorced her husband, she came out to be a nanny, her experience was very similar to my original wife, so I was very sad for her, when she made me a babysitter, I took good care of her, I didn't let her do a very tiring job.
Now she has been taking care of me for a few years, I think it is good to ask a young nanny to serve the elderly, the nanny is very good to me, we get along like friends, usually I have any words in my heart, I will say to the nanny, I also said to the nanny, if she gives me a pension to the end, I will give her the house, anyway, my children also ignore me, my house is useless, the nanny is very happy to agree.
I have some regrets in my heart, after I am older, I don't have children around to take care of myself, there is no way, life is already like this, I can only accept.
Author's Point of View:
Uncle Liu did too many wrong things when he was young, and he was also punished later, and in his later years, his children ignored him, so he could only ask a nanny to serve the elderly, fortunately, Uncle Liu was lucky to find a good nanny, otherwise his old age was really miserable, and he hoped that people would take it as a warning and not do things that violated their conscience.