Giving way to the elderly, children, pregnant women, etc. on public transportation is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it can also reflect a person's inner upbringing.
However, because of the conflicts caused by the concession of the seat, it has also attracted everyone's attention and discussion on the Internet. As to whether we should give up our seats, we still have to look at it according to the specific situation, and we can't generalize it in a partial way.
Recently, in the subway in Qingdao, Shandong, an old man saw a passenger holding a child next to him, so he let the guy sitting on the opposite side give way to the seat, which was rejected by the guy and replied: "Why don't you let me, why do I give up my seat, I have so many things." Uncle then said, "What age am I, I am 67 years old, you should give up your seat when you are so young, and I will teach you today." ”
Then, the old man walked over and threw the boy's luggage on the ground, and verbally insulted him, and the boy also looked back.
With the emotional excitement, the escalation of speech, there was a physical conflict, fortunately pulled apart by the surrounding passengers, and mutual persuasion was carried out.
From the picture, I saw that the scene was really fierce, there was a conflict, and I could also see that the boy did take a lot of luggage, suitcase plus large bags, as if it was back to school.
This scene was filmed by the passengers next to it and posted on the Internet, which triggered a discussion among netizens and two diametrically opposed views appeared.
One view is: this is the obvious moral kidnapping, why does the uncle not act on his own, why let others give up the seat, and the boy takes so much luggage, the boy himself is not willing to give up the seat, he can not force, do not do to others what he does not want! Let me not give up my seat, or it depends on my own wishes.
Some netizens also expressed different views on this, believing that as young people have vitality, they should give up their seats to the elderly, children or people holding children, which can reflect traditional virtues and educate the master correctly.
Qingfeng's point of view: For the practice of the master, I think it is lacking. Let is the love, not to let is the duty.
When we see that there is a situation next to us that needs to give up our seats, what we have to do should be whether we can give up our seats, and we can give up our seats, which can also reflect our personal good qualities.
If you can't give up your seat because of your body or other reasons, we can kindly remind others to help give up your seat, as for not letting the seat look at the will of others, you can't force, moral kidnapping, and you can't speak inappropriately, abuse, and even move.
Obviously, the uncle was forcing the boy to give up his seat, without the slightest consideration of whether the boy was willing or not, against the boy's wishes, educating the boy, not only adding up the evil words, but also moving. Moreover, the uncle himself also felt that he had done a very great thing, for the sake of the passengers holding the children, reflecting his own upbringing. Also talking about their own age, implying that they are so old, they should not give up their seats.
The boy's behavior showed a counterattack against the uncle, and also showed that he had a lot of luggage and was inconvenient to give up his seat. It may be that when speaking, the language is inappropriate, the emotions are too excited, and the uncle is stimulated too much, which triggers a physical conflict.
We young people often see the elderly when commuting to work on the bus or subway, no matter how tired they are at this time, they will give up a seat, which fully reflects the virtue of respecting the old and loving the young.
We are advocating giving up seats to those in need, but there is a prerequisite that is within our ability, and I am willing, and there is a saying that often mentions: let is the love, not to let is the duty.
Personally, when I encounter a situation where I need to give up my seat, I will give up my seat unless it is extremely inconvenient. In short, do not be morally kidnapped, against the will of others, morality is respect for everyone.