Many times love because their mother has no ending, even if a girl close to herself will let the mother cut off, Zhu Yuchen because of her mother's "preference" is still single at the age of 42, and even because her mother intervened in her own life, and desperately left a last word to go to the end of the road, what kind of mother can make her son so suffocated?
Zhu Yuchen in the eyes of netizens, I think I have been staying in the "Struggle" in the wanton, dashing And straightforward Huazi; "My Youth Who Is in Charge" in the sunny and gentle, personality of Fang Yu; or "Di Si Man" Donghai Feng played in "Don't Force Me to Get Married". No matter which TV series, it has left a deep impression, because Zhu Yuchen is skilled in acting, his style is changeable, and his appearance is tough and gentle, and he once became the protagonist of major TV series directors.
As the saying goes, behind every successful man is a strong woman support. Zhu Yuchen is no exception, but the woman behind this is no one else, it is her own mother.
Behind the aura of glory is the support of a strong woman
Born in 1979 in Shanghai, China, Zhu Yuchen is a serious class, after graduating from the Central Academy of Drama in 2002, he has been filming continuously, from starring in "Struggle" with Tong Dawei articles, and then all the way to Zhao Baogang as the protagonist of popular TV series directed by Zhao Baogang on David TV. Among them, we are familiar with popular TV series such as "Who Decides My Youth", "The Era of Little Couples", and "The Nth Power of Home". In 2009, he was also selected by hundreds of media as the four major students in the mainland, and became extremely popular.
Zhu Yuchen's ancestral home is Shanghai, so he has been pampered since he was a child, because the traditional concepts in the family are deeply rooted in Zhu's mother's heart, so he has received more love and discipline from his mother than his sister. It is also this paranoid maternal love that has become the culprit of Zhu Yuchen's future "torment".
In Zhu Yuchen's world, there is no moment that can be decoupled from the mother, as the saying goes, "the mother of the child is worried." But here in Zhu Yuchen, it can only be said, "Erxing Qianli Mother followed." No matter where Zhu Yuchen studied or worked, Zhu Yuchen's mother was always with him and never far away.
Until the university period, Zhu Yuchen still took her mother to college, the bed and bedding were prepared by her mother, and even the study was sent to school by her mother. Until graduation filming, Zhu Mu is also inseparable, close care of the whole process to follow, in order to take care of Zhu Yuchen's three meals a day, Zhu Mu even brought together kitchen utensils, every day at four o'clock to make a nutritious breakfast for her son.
In the eyes of others, it may be the greatness of maternal love, but in Zhu Yuchen's view, the mother is a strong woman, and any action of herself must be under its surveillance, reading and learning is no exception, and the famous children also have the credit of their mother's strict monitoring. But it wasn't until his marriage was also interfered with by his mother that he began to gradually feel how suffocating this maternal love was.
Daughters-in-law can only marry into the Zhu family if they meet their own conditions
In the eyes of outsiders, the mother has paid everything for Zhu Yuchen and truly "cared for her son with her life", but more discerning people can also see that behind this heavy maternal love, there is more discipline and shackles.
I remember that many years ago, Zhu Yuchen and his mother once went on an interesting program called "The Boy in My Family", in which Zhu Yuchen revealed herself the love of her most son, beyond the "ordinary mother and son", the son must be under his control, and even the future mate selection criteria are also set in advance, must be a good wife and mother, otherwise they will not consider anything.
In the show, Zhu's mother described her love for her son meticulously, and what the mother who felt good about herself did not know was how much pressure this heavy maternal love brought to Zhu Yuchen, so that she is still single at the age of 42, of course, this is the last word.
In the view of the powerful Mother Zhu, the heavy responsibility of choosing a future daughter-in-law naturally falls on her shoulders, and Mother Zhu's strict "daughter-in-law" can be described as the flame that extinguished Zhu Yuchen's countless love.
In fact, Zhu Yuchen did not have many girlfriends who openly interacted and admitted, and it was widely known that Tang Wei and Jiang Yan were sighing, and even Huo Siyan was "involved".
The mother became a stumbling block to the marriage, and the feelings stumbled all the way
In 1995, Zhu Yuchen met his goddess Tang Wei, who fell in love at first sight, and the love was dry and fiery, and soon the two became acquainted, and they met the next year after the exam was not listed. When they were separated, Tang Wei gave Zhu Yuchen the rattle he carried with him as a souvenir, and on the drum it was written: "Listen to the sound of the drum, don't forget to move forward." Use this as an incentive.
The two encouraged each other and comforted each other in the following year, and the two established a romantic relationship in the year of preparing for the chinese drama, and gained the motivation to keep moving forward and the firm confidence in the re-fight in the drama from this love. After the Chinese drama exam, Tang Wei fell off the list again, but this did not stop the relationship between the two, and the relationship between the two heated up until they reached the point of seeing their parents.
At this time, what stood in front of the two was the obstruction and worry of the mother who regarded Zhu Yuchen as a life, the reason was ridiculous, just because Tang Wei could not do housework, "may not take good care of his son in the future." After the relationship with Tang Wei was not over, Zhu Yuchen also revealed that the main reason for the breakup was that he was taken care of by his mother at 360 degrees without dead angles, and lacked independence, so that he missed the golden and jade relationship.
In fact, the love before becoming famous is not well known to the public, and what really makes netizens regret may be Zhu Yuchen's second girlfriend Jiang Yan.
Born in 1986, Jiang Yan can be said to meet all the requirements of Mother Zhu's daughter-in-law, Jiang Yan's life is very low-key, humble and friendly, and she is also evaluated as "very good at living a life". However, it was such a suitable marriage that was also lost by Zhu Mu.
It should be known that Jiang Yan is the first girlfriend who officially and high-profile recognition after Zhu Yuchen became famous, and the two have shown love in many public occasions, but it is so optimistic about the public, and their own confident love is ultimately unable to withstand the disapproval of Zhu Mu. In the words of Mother Zhu, "There is no upbringing, and as soon as you enter the house, you sit on the main sofa." The small details here in this mother who could not rub the sand in her eyes were finally enlarged into a "ghost head knife" that was enough to cut off the marriage.
The girl who was looked up to by Mother Zhu was daunted
Since Zhu Mu's standard for choosing a daughter-in-law has been well known in the circle, Zhu Yuchen's love road has been even more bumpy. Even Huo Siyan was daunted and openly stated that such a mother-in-law relationship was not suitable for her.
Huo Siyan and Zhu Yuchen became acquainted because of "Love Must Be Perfect to You", at that time, Zhu Siyan, who took care of her son every day, saw Huo Siyan, as if she had found a future daughter-in-law, and once showed kindness to her, and even cooked soup to cook a separate portion for Huo Siyan. Mingli secretly matched Huo Siyan and her son to achieve their good deeds.
However, Huo Siyan, a clear-eyed person, naturally saw Zhu Mu's intentions, but Huo Siyan had long been "frightened" by The already famous Mother Zhu in the circle, and immediately made her position clear that she would not develop a relationship with Zhu Yuchen. And this love that did not succeed in the end under the mediation of her mother disappointed Zhu Mu greatly, and since then Zhu Yuchen seems to be isolated from the opposite sex, and until now there has been no gossip girlfriend or lace news.
As the saying goes: "Marry a wife without marrying Voldemort, and marry a man without marrying a mother." Although Zhu Yuchen himself is not a mother treasure man, his mother's practice of not having her own daughter-in-law has really created an iron fence for Zhu Yuchen to keep her in captivity.
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